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Is Something Wrong With Me?-kioleoppa

By kioleoppa November 04, 2020 4 answers Last updated November 04, 2020

Briefly about me: I am a 17-year-old boy from Sofia, but a few years ago we bought a house in a small town nearby. I am in Sofia every weekend and during the holidays, but from Monday to Friday I sit in the town because I am at school. If it wasn't for school, I wouldn't go there at all. My father wanted to move me to stay in Sofia so that I wouldn't have to travel, but I refused because I was used to the new environment and he wanted to move me again. And he travels a lot - he has a job in the town, but there is another not so engaging job in Sofia and he goes to look after her a few days a week. I kept refusing, and he finally resigned himself. Now I wish I had listened to him and stayed in Sofia, but he doesn't want to, because I had refused him a lot before and he was tired, and for other reasons. I don't like almost anyone from my school in town, we have no common interests and everything behaves like selanduri, a fact. But I'm not surprised. They are rude, they have no common culture, they mix accents and speak a dialect so that they don't understand anything, they behave like they came out of the forest, and at the same time they think they are super educated. I have a much higher financial status and this is one of the reasons for misunderstandings. My way of life is different, I'm used to luxury, and they don't want to make my way of life like theirs. I am constantly questioned and discussed about everything I do. They call me conceited because I have designer clothes and expensive things. And I haven't flaunted anything. I still can't walk naked. I try to behave well, but everyone looks at me badly and envies me. I don't want to be there either, but I have no choice. I am constantly insulted for being gay, dumb, conceited, spoiled and others. I'm not tying, because I'm self-confident, I have high self-esteem with coverage and when I walk I look forward without looking much at the people around me. I'm just used to it when I have long eye contact with someone, I feel awkward, but not looking at people makes me bloated In Sofia I have many friends who are like me and we have common interests and I have not had such problems. But here ... How to get along and be friends with these people, they don't understand me and I understand them, because we are at different financial levels, I'm used to other people and I can't get used to these, we don't understand and like each other at all. It's awkward to talk to them. For example, I can't go out with them anywhere in restaurants, cafes to talk, because they were expensive and there is no way easy. Other: Basically I wear brands like Valentino, Gucci and others and they come and show me some cheap clothes and whether I would like to buy them and whether I like them. I don't like them, how can I tell them? I feel it as a mockery. And for the rest, why do people who haven't even talked to me think I'm bloated? It's obviously from the broadcast, but how can I change that. I want to make friends, even though they are bad, I don't want to be alone because it's stupid.

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awakenings answered · November 04, 2020

   I don't think you're right. You live in a world of your own. The first. what I will tell you is that over 90 percent of the people in Bulgaria are poor. More than 50 percent live below the poverty line. For them, hot water is a luxury. You do not live in Las Vegas or Dubai. It is normal for the people from the town where you live not to have financial opportunities and to wear ordinary clothes. You really are a conceited turkey and I don't think you will get far. As you are a big deal, why don't you buy an apartment with Sofia and live alone and see your friends? Aren't you very rich? The other thing I will tell you is that in Bulgaria absolutely no one brings real things to Gucci and Valentino. Everything is fake. The first is that there are no such original stores in Bulgaria and you have nowhere to buy. For example, I have an original Gucci sweatshirt from abroad and it cost 3000 leva and I can tell you. that if you have money for such clothes, then you will have money to buy a home in Sofia. not to write here. You buy some replicas for 20 leva and you think. that you are a big deal. You're a complete joker! I'm telling you honestly. You stand out what kind of things you have. but I can tell you as a person who has both expensive and cheap clothes. that I prefer to give 1000 leva for 100 clothes and be different every day and then throw them away. instead of just taking a branded T-shirt for that money and just going with it. Something cool you got into the movie. Sooner or later everyone will dump you. You can't be a real friend. You determine people by what clothes they wear and by what restaurants they go to, which speaks extremely badly about you. Not everyone's parents have money and no one can choose their parents. not to write here. You buy some replicas for 20 leva and you think. that you are a big deal. You're a complete joker! I'm telling you honestly. You stand out what kind of things you have. but I can tell you as a person who has both expensive and cheap clothes. that I prefer to give 1000 leva for 100 clothes and be different every day and then throw them away. instead of just taking a branded T-shirt for that money and just going with it. Something cool you got into the movie. Sooner or later everyone will dump you. You can't be a real friend. You determine people by what clothes they wear and what restaurants they go to, which speaks extremely badly about you. Not everyone's parents have money and no one can choose their parents. not to write here. You buy some replicas for 20 leva and you think. that you are a big deal. You're a complete joker! I'm telling you honestly. You stand out what kind of things you have. but I can tell you as a person who has both expensive and cheap clothes. that I prefer to give 1000 leva for 100 clothes and be different every day and then throw them away. instead of just taking a branded T-shirt for that money and just going with it. Something cool you got into the movie. Sooner or later everyone will dump you. You can't be a real friend. You determine people by what clothes they wear and what restaurants they go to, which speaks extremely badly about you. Not everyone's parents have money and no one can choose their parents. but I can tell you as a person who has both expensive and cheap clothes. that I prefer to give 1000 leva for 100 clothes and be different every day and then throw them away. instead of just taking a branded T-shirt for that money and just going with it. Something cool you got into the movie. Sooner or later everyone will dump you. You can't be a real friend. You determine people by what clothes they wear and what restaurants they go to, which speaks extremely badly about you. Not everyone's parents have money and no one can choose their parents. but I can tell you as a person who has both expensive and cheap clothes. that I prefer to give 1000 leva for 100 clothes and be different every day and then throw them away. instead of just taking a branded T-shirt for that money and just going with it. Something cool you got into the movie. Sooner or later everyone will dump you. You can't be a real friend. You determine people by what clothes they wear and what restaurants they go to, which speaks extremely badly about you. Not everyone's parents have money and no one can choose their parents. You can't be a true friend. You determine people by what clothes they wear and by what restaurants they go to, which speaks extremely badly about you. Not everyone's parents have money and no one can choose their parents. You can't be a real friend. You determine people by what clothes they wear and by what restaurants they go to, which speaks extremely badly about you. Not everyone's parents have money and no one can choose their parents.

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AmyLin answered · November 04, 2020

   You write that you have high self-esteem with coverage. Where the hell is your cover? Did you make that money yourself? You are not. Are you some 17-year-old genius who can make them on his own? You are not. That is, you have no coverage, you are just a child in a rich family. Although 1 is right that you are arrogant and judge people only by their appearance, in my opinion at this age many people are like that and you will still have the opportunity to work and correct this country to become more open to all layers and classes. of society. If you want friends from this environment of yours - you should obviously reduce the "branded clothes" and become more humble and most importantly, look for OTHER topics to talk about, besides clothes and coffees. If you decide, in my opinion, you should be able to return to Sofia, after a lot of pushing your father, and have fun with the other more arrogant ones. I recommend you whether you return to Sofia or stay there, to look for hobbies, some activities that will encourage you and help you develop. For example, a musical instrument, a sport or something else that engages your mind and / or body, and will accordingly create topics for conversation with others.

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triawanmunaf answered · November 04, 2020

   1. I buy my clothes online from Farfetch, but you obviously don't know that there is online shopping. In Bulgaria no one wore originals? Hahaha you don't understand anything. Who said that clothes are bought from Bulgaria? And how I will be arrogant as I neither insult people nor brag. You don't know me and you define me as I am ... And if you haven't read, I'm from Sofia, I have a home there. And why am I a joker? I don't care what clothes you have. If you want to buy 1000 cheap clothes, that's your problem. I won't wear cheap rags. In my opinion, the stone should weigh in its place. How are you going to tell me what to wear and what not? 2. And why "should I reduce branded clothes"? I can wear whatever I want, complex souls are not my problem and it does not mean that I have to wear rags just to be happy. And in this small town what activities to find ... I prefer to be alone than among bad people who envy and insult me ​​without doing anything. I was gay, transvestite only because every 2 weeks I have a different hairstyle. I haven't said or done absolutely anything and they say they wouldn't be my friends because I'm bloated and spoiled. And how do you define a person without knowing him and talking to him? I am the author

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Jaromrx1 answered · November 04, 2020

   I am an author like you, only I live alone I buy branded clothes, but with the difference that I live alone and I am 25 years old