Hello, everyone! I will ask you something quickly, because I need a competent opinion (preferably from the male audience, as I think men will be more knowledgeable on the subject). So let's move on to the problem ... if I can call it a "problem" at all or it's all in my head and I'm imagining ... A 20-year-old girl. I'm, my boyfriend is also 20. We've been together for more than a year ... in the beginning he had a really big desire for sex (we did it 3-4 times a day, all at his request), even the first time I went to bed with it was his wish, a kind of only he wanted, not that I had no desire (I was with other boys before him), but I could not relax, I was like a tree and he still wanted ... To this day date - a year later, I am the more active party, constantly I want ... sometimes being tired and not wanting,
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Heat, work, stress, tension ... If you ask me, there are many factors. I know from experience that it's not like we don't want to, but sometimes it's up to the possibilities :) * Syndrome
It's not work, stress and tnt. It will sound nasty, but I'll tell you straight - you're tired of him in bed.
And how did you know, number 2, that this is not this and that, but that?
And I think you're tired of him ... not just in bed ... You say "we love each other", but that's just your point of view. I know that when a man loves a woman, he wants her. Contrary to all clichés on the subject, passion does not diminish with time, and love disappears. A year has passed ... more or less the first thrills, strong hopes, expectations pass for so long ... in one year you see the person next to you and get to know him. If this acquaintance has not led to greater passion and love, to new desires for development both emotionally and sexually, withdrawal begins. And what does it mean to be together non-stop ... where is his thrill like that. You are always there, at arm's length, glued to him ... this can repel a lot, not only men, but people in general. Plam PS My above statement excludes the possibility of having problems with money, work, relatives, friends, etc. and to want to just withdraw a little from the world and shut himself in to solve them.
you don't know what he will offer you every day, you are curious ... now it seems like there is no time for such things, you know the person next to you, you know what to expect and it's just not interesting anymore, the only question is how to keep love? Apparently it's just a problem that we're a little bored, it's different when we haven't seen each other for 2-3-5 days, for example, and we are happy with each other, there is something to say ... Give some advice on how to diversify the relationship, how to ignite it again as when in the beginning :) you don't know what he will offer you every day, you are curious ... now it seems like there is no time for such things, you know the person next to you, you know what to expect and it's just not interesting anymore, the only question is how to keep love? Apparently it's just a problem that we're a little bored, it's different when we haven't seen each other for 2-3-5 days, for example, and we are happy for each other, there is something to say ... Give some advice on how to diversify the relationship, how to ignite it again as when in the beginning :)