I am a 13-year-old girl, but my boyfriend is 29. I know this is a very big difference, but I have been with him for more than 7 months and we are very happy together. It was my first time with him =] ... So far, more or less well, but a week ago our people found out that I have a relationship with a man 16 years older than me. They made me very much and punished me not to go out . We only see each other when I go to the teacher, he sends me, and sometimes when I come home, but not always ... That's 20 minutes maximum. I can not go on like this. We don't have time for anything! Please tell me what to do? Thank you in advance! :)
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hello;) and my parents reacted like that when they found out that my friend is Turkish. they locked me up at home, made me break up with him, they even wanted to take me to a gynecologist .. I had collapsed from this pressure from them .. it was good that it was my friend to support me :) be patient and everything will be fine. they won't keep you locked up for the rest of your life :)
You are a child of 13! I don't think your relationship will develop. And this is not about the age difference, but rather about your age limit ... You are not yet shaped as a character, psyche, physics ... He is 29 years old, it's time for a family, a career, children, and you can't give it to him!
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Now only the hormone shakes you. If you were 18, if you want, you can get married in 16 years. But think about whether he has a family - he may be lying to you. You can marry him only when you are 18 - in five years - he will be 34. During this time he can get married. Your want to protect you from disease and pregnancy. Working with a Turk is quite different. Yours should not forbid you, but sit with you, calmly and gently explain things to you, make sense of them and then you will realize that you are mistaken. Here's an idea - ask for his ID "so you can see it in the picture there". See on the card what it says - unmarried, married, divorced ... If he doesn't give you the card, think about it. Keep in mind that she can live with another without marriage, and even have children. Ask yourself if you are not his next toy. You've only been with him for 7 months.
I think it's better to separate as early as possible, because then only you will suffer;) you really can't give him what he needs and it's very likely that he will dump you in the worst way. .
I am the girl who wrote this story ... I turn to number 4 ... He got married at 22 and divorced at 26 ... I didn't know about it, but I already know and it doesn't bother me ... children and is adamant that there is no other ... And another ... Yes, 7 months is not much, but really he is not like the others ...: (((
I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 28 ... we love each other a lot, although sometimes we fight quite seriously. There are thousands of problems with such connections! I say all this from personal experience, because for me the story is hot to the point .... I just want to tell you that if there is love, everything is overcome!
You are young and green. You are now at the age when the biggest mistakes are made. Don't be mad at yours. They have watched you for so long and love you so much that they want to protect you from the likely consequences of such a relationship. See this person when feelings are still raging inside you, but don't let him get pregnant or obsess over you. In this case, your "friend" is to blame, who is fully aware that he can blind you and enchant you. To him, you are a plasticine that he can model, because he already has the accumulated life experience that you do not have. If I were your parent, I would see him in person and chat pretty seriously. Why not catch up with a girl of his caliber? Because it is obviously not a flower to smell and a mature woman would appreciate it quite quickly.
He's a pedophile, dump him!
Aww ... no ... and for 3 years at most they call me a pedophile: X !! I don't know what to say here, but for me personally the difference in your years is a lot, because he must already have a family - a woman, children etc.! And you have a few more years until you become a woman and nz ... that's what I think. As for the man in question, with whom you are, I don't think he's a pedophile, he just doesn't do well with relationships with girls his age ...!
I didn't know that I was a pedophile - we are in love with a girl who is 20 years younger than me, and I am 41.
In order to be a pedophile, the difference in meaning is not important ... 20-40 the difference is 20 years, but you are not a pedophile, not by law, but to be 10-30, why? Well, very simply one is not of legal age. So on the topic it is not so much about the difference in your years as in the age limit, you are at different stages. Not to mention the way of thinking. And don't be angry with your personal people, but if I were on them right now, you would be afraid to go out so you wouldn't see him, and he would have serious problems with power.
When I was 15 I had a relationship with a 24 boy. It was my first time with him, the difference was not obvious to us at all, because I looked more mature than my sets. We were together for 2 years and more, but the more I matured, the more I realized that our relationship has no future, you will understand it, although your difference is much more striking (I hope you understand it not after the second year :)) . Your parents are rightly worried about you, you are still very small ... I always thought that the first time was too early for me, but what about today's children? Are you 13? Well, the first love - of course ... but why not with one of your classmates, but with a divorced man? Eh, darling ... you need a conversation with your mother!
If we catch up with someone as big as my father ... they will send me to a boarding house .. even yours are very good parents .. is he a pedophile ?? this is not normal and I am 13 .. and at most 3 years older .. better leave him .. he is already a mature man and you are still growing and developing
To number 11- In my opinion this is not pedophile, after all it is already big. She has a built character, she knows what she will do with her future. While in the case of the author I just don't know how she started dealing with such a big man. Yes, there are no limits to love, but with her things are so different. You are 13 years old. I was 13 years ago. and I've never thought about boyfriends and the like. Especially for men over 29. (yes, now the author will be quite big, but I'm interested to know what happened :))
Whenever my mother and father do something I can't get rid of, I'm very angry with them, but they actually do it for my own good. I always understand after that that they were right. So listen to them - they don't think evil of you, they will only protect you from ruining your future. IzI
I don't want to offend you, but ... at the age of 13 to date a man so much older than you. He said it was your first time with him. Aren't you small yet ?? If I were your parent, I would definitely talk to him ... he's a pedophile (sorry). Be very careful with it.