Hello everyone! I am an 18 year old boy. I have a problem with a person very close to me. It's about a friend from my class. She and I have been extremely close since I entered high school. We were like brother and sister. Everything was going great until the end of 2017, when unfortunately I fell in love with her. She is, without exaggeration, a great person, kind, caring, cool, but also very good and vulnerable and a lot of people use her for that. I got angry every time she cried after someone harassed or insulted her. When I found out that I was in love with her, I was very scared and disappointed in myself. I felt like the greatest traitor in the world. I wanted to get out of her space because I felt terribly bad around her, I was being eaten inside by thoughts of her without her even suspecting it. Finally on holidays, no matter how hard I tried to distance myself, I looked for her and we wrote to each other, she was relieved that we chatted a bit. But then something happened to me and I became paranoid that I was nobody to her and we did not congratulate each other on the holidays, which saddened me even more. We went back to school and I decided to delete her from my life because I didn't want to go through any dramas and I thought that she didn't care about me.
She wondered why I was doing it, but I never gave her an answer because I would disappoint her a lot. I kept running away from her and my problem! However, everything became super unbearable and I tore inside because I care a lot about her, and I punished her with this silence (maybe I didn't just like her anymore, I loved her). I hurt what I love! Now I recently wanted to talk to her, why I ignored her and found out, that I had actually hurt her a lot and it was extremely painful for her to be erased from me and my life for no reason! And she was absolutely right to be mad at me. I felt terrible and wanted to cross myself from the face of this world, but I couldn't tell her that I had done it because I was afraid I would lose her and that I thought I had betrayed her with my thoughts of how much I loved her. !! Now that I look at our friendship, it is irreparably damaged not to mention anything more. However, I want to be completely honest with her and tell her that I love her unconditionally very much, even though it might ruin our relationship forever. What should I do? because I was afraid that I would lose her and that I thought I had betrayed her with my thoughts of how much I love her! Now that I look at our friendship, it is irreparably damaged not to mention anything more. However, I want to be completely honest with her and tell her that I love her unconditionally very much, even though it might ruin our relationship forever. What should I do? because I was afraid that I would lose her and that I thought I had betrayed her with my thoughts of how much I love her! Now that I look at our friendship, it is irreparably damaged not to mention anything more. However, I want to be completely honest with her and tell her that I love her unconditionally very much, even though it might ruin our relationship forever. What should I do?
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There is a way to give you what you want. I've never seen people pursue their desires like that. If you think everything in the world is worth it, I'm determined on everything. You're right, boy. How much can I repeat to you. Why don't you believe me that I tried unconsciously. There is a way. The only one, but there is. You have nothing to fix. She will take care, you count and by denying
You complained anyway, tell the girl! She deserves to know about your feelings, whatever the sword shows! She'll always be tormented if you don't tell her.
There is a chance to say goodbye. I drank for a hug in which I hid from everything scary. I drink because he will never hide me. I can't help but be guilty. However, wedge wedge kills. One without the other comes in its place. It is a pity that nothing good awaits my relatives. I'm tired of indulging. It is not difficult to get drunk. Hey, computer language. To finish it and I will wear it. EEE yes. Amy is not mine, but they will see the anointed one. I'm anointed.
Do not give up, be honest with her, but at the same time do not rush, do it gradually. If she cuts you off and tells you that she has no feelings, forget about her. There is no eternal friendship between a boy or a girl, at least one (if not both) falls in love and cannot continue as before. This is the truth, and if you do not want to believe it, you will only sink into anger, rage, envy, and the fact that it has not returned.
I do not set myself over-goals. One has to come to terms with one's failure. But it doesn't stop me from preparing a surprise, I know it's not expected of me. yes, it will probably fail me almost in the end, but these days what I imagine will happen from my idea will help me. From me the organization. Participation is not appropriate. There is a person who is special for the occasion. The only way to be able to behave like him, to excommunicate someone, is feasible from the status of the deceased. Only this has not been tested. One takes and takes seriously and bad work.
Oops, as I write in shared I also gain "sympathy". Only one of us has the right to do this without consequences ... Yes. The Quit button follows. Another space that is too personal for people like me. Is not it? As in life, there is room here only to enrich my personal profile. I'm not so important that it's worth being analyzed at such a deep level. I'm the one to think about who I am. Who cares what I am? To the pastry chefs. And on Boreto.
Be honest with her.