Please write girls and boys who have had a similar situation. Thank you. My story is as follows. 4 years ago I fell in love with a girl. We had a relationship for a year. We both said a lot this year. We experienced the best moments. We have never been hurt. It was amazing. I couldn't even imagine life without her for a day. But here that day came. She left me because I wanted a very serious relationship that she doesn't have time for now. And that we need to think more about the future. It's very long and I can't write it. 3 years later I don't stop loving her. I fought for her for a year. After that I have no contact for two years now. But I'm still very, very much in love with her. I've done everything I've tried, believe it all. I haven't looked at another girl in 3 years. I haven't even met anyone. I'm not unattractive. On the contrary. I am a wanted man but I simply either refuse or do not respond to messages. I want advice on what to do. I miss him terribly. I miss every moment with her. Every smile and every hug. I even cried a lot for her. I love her and I don't know if I have to take serious measures for that because I can't do it this way anymore .... I just don't want to suffer anymore and I don't see any other way out but the most extreme one.
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Well done to real boys like you, unfortunately you are naive and do not understand that these girls are not worth the time and attention. As a girl, I tell you that if she loved you at least a little, she wouldn't say she didn't want a serious relationship and would find a way to be with you over the years. Stop paying attention to her and you'll see how she will run after you, but I don't think such girls are worth it.
The cure for love is love, but in the end everything ends again, sooner or later, respectively, love does not exist, but is a deceptive feeling of attachment and you think that everything ends, but it does not - life goes on in a slightly different way . With a broken heart several times, incurable emotional wounds and a lot of pain, you start to not care and no longer believe in her.
I've had my heart broken twice, so I know how bad it is. At least you are attractive and sought after, unlike me ... Find a woman, even if it is not for a serious relationship, start with the small and go to the many. For now, your first goal is to look for SOME substitute for this woman, no matter how good ... Pass one or another "piece", even if nothing serious comes out, at least you will make a "cake" and it will be easier for you. Because 3 years without a "cake" is something terrible for the psyche and the body ... And I don't want to hear about the "final outcome". It's not worth killing yourself for a woman, even if she's the most beautiful in the world! Male, 20 years old
Everyone makes mistakes sometimes it takes years of patience and there comes a time to share your feelings with everyone (a mistake we make in people's mouths) because you have been silent for too long. The truth is that you understand everything late. A fairy tale with an end
P. s. When you're playful, cunning and you've been through everything, it's a pity
No, no. In time, you will only forget and be able to continue. Sometimes you will remember and it will still hurt so much, but the more time passes, the less often it will happen. So keep going. This is the only choice.
I would give anything for someone like you. She just doesn't deserve you.
Many people (including me) have come up with the idea of the "ultimate" - and what, to whom will you tilt the cap, what will you achieve, will you see the result of your actions ??? You are probably small and you do not know that in your life you will meet many more pussies untouched, if for each one you commit suicide you will not have lives to play the game to the end, and the game is definitely interesting and the end comes when you see the final inscription ( END, END, END of the screening) - do not pretend to be a director, it is stupid to put a full stop at the beginning of the sentence! Ah, how I want to slap you, but you're not at hand - realize, I'm not saying not to cry, but for something fragrant to smell your life just is not worth it!
As I read you, I imagine my boy, with whom the same thing happened to us, even as years and everything is absolutely the same as with you, I even thought about not being him, but this cannot be so. We haven't had contact in years, I even think he may have hated me to forget me, but I can't know. He has no idea that I love him very much to this day and that I am sorry that we broke up, but he was young and it was time for him to live and develop, not to commit himself to one. woman, I didn't want that. I did not have the opportunity to share with him. All this bothers me too. I think a lot about him, I dream about him, I feel sad. At the same time, life flows, I have duties, responsibilities, another person next to me and I look at reality. Everything can be idealization, fantasy. It's completely different when you live with someone. However, the first three years are the best in a relationship. We've been with these people for a year, that's not enough to understand a lot of things, and that's why we idealize them to be the best. People change, life grabs them, we can't know how they have changed. Here, the fantasy is already developing, the strongest and you start to tell yourself again that the person is top and everything was top. Everything is unexperienced and has become a beautiful fantasy. As of today, I can't ask for anything from him except to see him. I need, I want to talk, I want to clarify these things, even jokingly. Then I will humble myself. This may not happen, but as I said, I try to be in reality. People say that at an old age you can tell who your great love was, I understand them. Everything evaporates with everyone, feeling then a boy. He is my first love. For the second I will grow old and only then I will understand.
There is no cure for love. It can only ruin your health. And without love it is not easy, but with a broken heart it is even harder.
The only true love is between the parents and the child. I love only mom and dad, and I know they will love me forever and unconditionally. I am not a child or a teenager. I'm over 25 ... I'm. These are the only people you should love.