Hello readers of spodeli I have been dating a girl for about two weeks, we liked each other a lot, we have common interests, views, even dreams. Everything is fine so far, but there is one BUT, she is 21 and I am 33 years old. At first, when we realized the years, we were shocked, but since then it has not been a question, nor is it obvious in her behavior and that she is smaller, she thinks very soberly, a smart girl with diverse interests. She begins to fall in love, but I feel that I feel it too. I'm worried about the age difference, are there people here from you who are in similar relationships and was the bigger difference a problem for you? So far, I have been in a relationship with a maximum of 4 years difference, but this, as you can see, is not a guarantee of stability in the relationship in the future. Alive and healthy!
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You will not lose anything if you try. Age is not a problem if you like it. But you have to keep in mind her age, don't expect her to be like you. Success!
There are couples whose age difference is more than 20 years, but the partners think and feel in a way that brings them closer. There are also couples with a negligible difference in age (several months from the birthday of one to that of the other), whose relationship does not survive even a year. If something prevents you from connecting, it will not be the numbers, but the difference in your life experience, visions and needs, and most of all selfishness and unwillingness to build together. If two people are trying to understand each other, to really get into a situation and help each other, nothing is impossible for them. Neither the years, nor the months, nor anything else will be an obstacle to their love. Success!
I agree with 1. When I was 28 I met a girl who I really liked, but she was 18. She looked more mature. I ended the relationship because of my age, but now that I think about it, I shouldn't have done it. Try it, you have nothing to lose.
Age does not matter when people are adequate and mature enough and like each other :)
I always think that such a young girl will always deviate from the right path, whether after 5, 10, 15 years, but the probability of this happening is high, still she is 28 (young, and if she is beautiful) you you will be 40, a young uncle and she will start looking younger, about 30-35 years old and will beat her with a whip. Such a difference hides risks, not a guarantee, noooo ...
Grandparents were 12 years apart. They lived together for 48 years ... After a certain age, it is not the age difference, but the worldview that is important. If you have the same views on life, I don't think age is a problem. Well, if you're both adults, right. Because here was a topic from a 14-year-old girl in love with a teacher at 25. It's different, but since you and she are over 18, I don't think you have anything to worry about.