Hello, I am a 14-year-old girl and I had an affair with a 17-year-old boy and we lasted 5 months, but we broke up because the problem in our relationship was trust. We didn't talk after that, he changed all sorts of things, and I still love him even if we've been separated for half a year. Yesterday I saw him by chance and he called me alone. He took my hand and wanted to kiss me, told me he loved me. He offered it to me and I accepted it because he was the only one who made me feel loved. However, the day after we got together, I didn't like his demeanor. It's as if there's nothing left to say. He went with the other girls to forget me, but he couldn't ... He kept telling me how beautiful I had become, various other nice things while we were together, but when we wrote to each other he didn't pay attention to me ... and I didn't know what to write to him , I'm not comfortable asking him about his ex, how was it, etc. A friend of his advised me to make him be loved, I love him but I don't know how to do it ... tell me what to do! Is there a future in our relationship since I have been his great love in his life!
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1. This is not a connection 2. I will answer your question> No this has no future 3. Everyone uses their weapons to the maximum to get into the network 4. Don't be a fool 100% he only wants sex. And don't tell me how much he loves you ... please, I've heard these stories 100 times ... $ TIME $
From (bitter repeated) experience - do not bother! Ex-boyfriend = book read! Once you have failed to build something together with one person, you are unlikely to succeed the second time. Lack of synchronicity, of resonance, not that you are both bad ... There is even a very high probability that things will end the second time exactly as they ended the first. But you know! Maybe a miracle will happen to you ...
Trust the older and more experienced of you. No relationship is a real relationship once you have "supported" each other. And he, not that he could not forget you, but he could not forget his failure to pass you, now he has waited half a year and he hopes that you are already deceived enough to let him go. If you are stupid now, in 5 months you will write through tears "but I gave myself to him and he left me".
It happened to me, but after 7 years of separation, he wants us to get together ... Just because he didn't pass me then. Beliefs, kind words, how much he adores me, how he regrets that he hurt me .. How he was blinded, and now he was a new person ... And on top of everything, to be together, he wants me to return to our hometown, and he couldn't help it ... And we were 15 ... But here, the years fly by .. We have something unexperienced ..