Hello, I'm a 25-year-old boy ... I've had many boyfriends, and I haven't spent more than 5-6 months with any of them ... I've never had a problem with sex, but my problem is that sometimes like I really like a girl and in the relationship I become hellishly nice .... at least 4-5 girls have withdrawn for this reason .... I do not know, the first 2-3 months everything is great and I get attached and start to get up super "good" .... I call them baby, sweet, I fulfill all their whims ... I constantly compliment them, etc .... I thought that all girls want such a boy, but obviously not ... a little less they move away and become cold .... I don't understand what's going on, maybe I'm getting bored and they want something interesting and new, I know ... and in the beginning even they take me down, then I behave normally even a little cold. ...but once we start a relationship I quickly fall in love and just succumb to my nature, and it is constantly showering compliments on the girl next to me ... tell me is this a problem, because obviously 99% of the girls did not want the boy next to them to do everything for them ....
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Women want their friends to love them, to respect them, to be kind to them, but they don't like anyone to cling to them and not be able to breathe. Everyone wants more or less personal space, and so the thrill disappears. You look like a towel tied to them and they decide that I can achieve something much more. You're annoying them. there are such women, even very often there are such.
Make sure you have money. It is.
Well, don't give in to them one hundred percent. Keep your territory private, make them jealous from time to time. To know that they can lose you ... so they will appreciate you more. Otherwise you become easily predictable and they are not interested. And there is something else - we are taught to love by our parents. And they not only praised you, they also criticized you, they made remarks to you, didn't they? That is why we are used to associating moderate criticism with love. It is not natural to praise a girl incessantly, and a man at all.