Hello! Please publish my topic. I'm a 19-year-old girl, I turned them 3 months ago, and I'm a virgin. That's how the circumstances came about - the boy I liked after I was ready didn't want me, and who likes me, I don't like them. It's a big complex for me and I'm thinking of opening up on my own. If, so to speak, I manage to expand enough and when it is my first time I behave naturally, will it be clear that I am really a virgin? If so, how do I cover it up, I mean in terms of behavior, etc.? Thanks in advance. :)
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I completely understand you, because I was a child until I was 22 years old. That you are ashamed does not come from the fact that there is something shameful, but because our society imposes it. I also thought like you and thought that childhood was a terrible thing to get rid of. When I turned 22 I caught a friend and it turned out that he was a child and I decided that this was my big chance. Yes but no. With my look at the moment I would say - this was my mistake. Then I forced myself to sleep with a man who is not to my heart and I do not trust him and to this day I wonder how to get rid of the complexes I created. If I were with that thinking then I would just wait as long as necessary. I really know what it's like for friends to tell you - and what's so great, grab someone by the ears and you're done .... but you really, but how so ... don't you want to .... and what not like or how in the company it is about sex and suddenly you feel out of place. Believe me, you are not defective and every real man (not the little boys or women who will be angry that their number will not pass) is the man who deserves it, will look at you like his diamond and will appreciate you 3 times more, because you are only his. My advice is - don't do nonsense, don't forget that the people who make you feel this way don't care about you, let alone think well of you. Invest time to enrich your personality and keep your head high and you will see that one day, if you are 25, a miracle will happen. Please don't make my mistakes because I still can't get rid of the stress during the act. And for people - everyone has the right to talk and think what he wants for you, but you do not have to listen Believe me, you are not defective and every real man (not the little boys or women who will be angry that their number will not pass) is the man who deserves it, will look at you like his diamond and will appreciate you 3 times more, because you are only his. My advice is - don't do nonsense, don't forget that the people who make you feel this way don't care about you, let alone think well of you. Invest time to enrich your personality and keep your head high and you will see that one day, if you are 25, a miracle will happen. Please don't make my mistakes because I still can't get rid of the stress during the act. And for people - everyone has the right to talk and think what he wants for you, but you do not have to listen Believe me, you are not defective and every real man (not the little boys or women who will be angry that their number will not pass) is the man who deserves it, will look at you like his diamond and will appreciate you 3 times more, because you are only his. My advice is - don't do nonsense, don't forget that the people who make you feel this way don't care about you, let alone think well of you. Invest time to enrich your personality and keep your head high and you will see that one day, if you are 25, a miracle will happen. Please don't make my mistakes because I still can't get rid of the stress during the act. And for people - everyone has the right to talk and think what he wants for you, but you do not have to listen that their number will not pass) it is the man who deserves it, he will look at you like his diamond and will appreciate you 3 times more because you are only his. My advice is - don't do nonsense, don't forget that the people who make you feel this way don't care about you, let alone think well of you. Invest time to enrich your personality and keep your head high and you will see that one day, if you are 25, a miracle will happen. Please don't make my mistakes because I still can't get rid of the stress during the act. And for people - everyone has the right to talk and think what he wants for you, but you do not have to listen that their number will not pass) it is the man who deserves it, he will look at you like his diamond and will appreciate you 3 times more because you are only his. My advice is - don't do nonsense, don't forget that the people who make you feel this way don't care about you, let alone think well of you. Invest time to enrich your personality and keep your head high and you will see that one day, if you are 25, a miracle will happen. Please don't make my mistakes because I still can't get rid of the stress during the act. And for people - everyone has the right to talk and think what he wants for you, but you do not have to listen who make you feel that way, they don't care about you, let alone think well of you. Invest time to enrich your personality and keep your head high and you will see that one day, if you are 25, a miracle will happen. Please don't make my mistakes because I still can't get rid of the stress during the act. And for people - everyone has the right to talk and think what he wants for you, but you do not have to listen who make you feel that way, they don't care about you, let alone think well of you. Invest time to enrich your personality and keep your head high and you will see that one day, if you are 25, a miracle will happen. Please don't make my mistakes because I still can't get rid of the stress during the act. And for people - everyone has the right to talk and think what he wants for you, but you do not have to listen
Look now, I know what's wrong with you, because I was a virgin at your age, too. What I did when I met a decent man was to "hide" my virginity by telling the boy that it was my last day of the cycle.: D The number passed me, but don't. Be sure to tell yourself that you didn't do it or at least you are not very experienced, because if you do not do it will not be as careful as expected for the first time and it will hurt a lot (as it was with me) it may ask you to change your posture and then you will be more Until now you have been in pain, and now you have to be active: D Be honest when you meet the person :)
I don't understand why you have to hide that you are a virgin at 19. You very nerdy young people. There's nothing shameful about being a virgin at 19. If you were 30, it would look weird, but at 19 you're still very young. Don't do nonsense. Even if you open up on your own, the first time you are with a boy, you will show that you are inexperienced. Sex is 90% practice and 10% theory. Just when the time comes tell the truth and that's it.
And "opening up" on your own won't help you behave that way. I was with a girl who claimed she was not a virgin. He behaved normally, naturally and pleasantly during sex. I was the second. Only when he went to the bathroom I saw my penis with blood. Her first failed to tear the hymen, and I tore it. But the fact that I took the virgin skin did not make her behave differently. It's just a zipper. And to break it, what will you change? You will not become more desirable. Or you will change the way you behave or think. If it bothers you so much, lie. When the boy is ready to enter you, tell him. Do not press nature. It is not strange or ugly to be a virgin. Or you can find the first and real man who wants to be with you as you are.
As a man, I don't find anything wrong with a girl being a virgin (nor vice versa). But if she's a virgin, I'd definitely rather know than not want to hurt her (it's clear that some discomfort is inevitable, but still). So - I would say don't push yourself to "open up" because of stupid public prejudice. But if you hold so much ... Appropriate attributes pain, just follow hygiene - washing, and even better a condom on the "tool". But even if you deal with anatomical virginity, you can't hide your psycho-emotional thought. However, I still think that if you catch a man, not a boy (and no, I don't mean age), I see no reason to be afraid of your virginity. Now ... I really used to worry that the girl was a virgin (I was 17, it was my second sexual experience at all and the first time with a virgin and I really fell into the category of "boys") .... And while figuring out what to do, the girl solved the issue radically, just taking the initiative and threw herself on top of me ... So that, even for annoying gentlemen there is a way ... If you find the right person - things will happen. Don't think so.