I am a young man, I have not had a girlfriend for some time, but I have already started to feel lonely and I lack company. I need to find a girlfriend. How? So far, I have always dated girls who have been introduced to me by mutual acquaintances and we have been in common company. But let's just say I don't have friends anymore and I don't want to go out with them. I'm alone like a dog. The only thing that goes through my mind is to go out and meet girls I meet on the street, in the mall, in the park or anywhere. I have no idea what we are going to talk about, I will say whatever comes to me at the moment. I've never been a downloader of this type, but I have no other ideas? If any of you have more experience, say if it's worth it. To emphasize that I don't have Facebook, I don't have Instagram, I don't have Twitter, I don't have any social networks, I'm not a fan of internet chats,
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Are you crazy? Invent at least some "filter" to sift these babes at least a little bit? How are you going to count any directly from the street ?! For example, go to a dance course, or yoga, or something psychology, esoterics, mathematics if you will ... To be able to get to know and judge them in an informal setting, and without necessarily getting closer, what they have in mind, how spiritual they are etc. Otherwise, it's like traveling by train, suddenly opening the door of the kenef and knocking on the first one you cook inside ...
If you are not a fan of internet dating, then you must (as you say) start stopping girls on the street. I've been stopped several times and I can tell you this - don't be an asshole, but don't be too shy. Behave normally. Don't get fat, but be polite and show that you have an interest in the girl. You can have a short conversation (acquaintance) and then ask for her number (for example). However, keep in mind that love does not happen by force and it will be more for you to gain experience and self-confidence than anything else.
Stopping strangers on the street is a bad idea. Few, if not insignificant, of them would react positively. First, it speaks of great despair, as the most extreme possible option for acquaintance in the eyes of a large percentage of people. Second, the chances of coming across your type of girl are not in your favor either. Number 1 gave you good advice - enroll in a course, no matter what. You will meet a lot of new people without being embarrassed and wondering where to start the conversation, as it would be with a complete stranger on the street.
People on the streets are either in a hurry or walking and want to rest, not to bother with annoyances. Enroll in a course, go to a bar or disco.
Create an environment again, sign up for something, go somewhere, rest, this or that.
I quote number 1 ... or yoga, or something psychology, esoterics - this is by no means, you are guaranteed to come across a psychopath, mega-vegan or ultra kuku. On the street - better. This is a classic.