Hello, I am a middle-aged woman, I am currently single. Last summer I had to go to the doctor. At first, the doctor was completely professional, but over time, because I needed long-term treatment, I noticed that the doctor started flirting with me. At first I thought it was because of the money, because it's about dentistry. But it turned out that this was not the case, because at one point he stopped taking my money, it was supposed to be something small. I felt that there was great chemistry between us, but at some point it had to end. The last day he shook my hands and hugged me, he was very worried and sad. I also often think about him. I want to see him again and invite him for coffee, but I don't know what it will look like in his eyes, because I don't know anything about his personal life - whether he's engaged or not. Well I look forward to opinions and advice, thanks.
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Well, I don't know if there is no Facebook, there is definitely interest in it too ... Go again for an examination or I don't know exactly ..
Off, are you a woman / man again? Now you imagine that he had feelings, and you wonder if you should invite him for coffee, and in the previous story, she had invited him, but he avoided you, he didn't even want to treat you. Don't you have a job other than making up "stories"?
You're confusing number 2, I'm different, obviously dentists are such flirters, but still, maybe it's different here, that's why I want to hear a different opinion.
You better keep this as a fond memory. It is quite possible that you misunderstood it, and the chemistry between people is not always a guarantee that a serious and harmonious relationship can be reached. However, if you know his name and both use Facebook, you can try to add him and see if he shows any interest. Or if you have a friend or relative who needs dental care right now, you can take her to see him as a pretext to see him again. But these tips are more to make it clearer to you if this person really has anything more to do with you than the doctor-patient relationship. Otherwise, a warm attitude does not always mean something like that. Every good-looking and nice woman evokes a warm and positive attitude from a man, but when you think about it, this is no guarantee, that there may be something between you because it depends on many other factors besides primary chemistry. I don't know, if you are really very impressed with this person and you are sure that there is something, study things, try to contact him, but not in such a direct way so that there is no misunderstanding.
I support number 2, because the "big coincidence" in shared, to write exactly about dentists, and not for a certain period of time, and the two topics differ by 2.3 days, so you can not dissuade us that the story you are identical and real. I urge you not to comment much, because this story is a fantasy.
Everyone, no matter what they do, looks at how to spin the other to win him over as a customer. Apparently men rely on flirting to gain clientele. The women, on the other hand, smear themselves and gossip together while drinking their coffee with another of their clients, and their clients double. Life is arranged in such a way that your bread depends on the other. So, he didn't flirt with you, because if he did - he would have taken the initiative to take you on a date at least a long time ago!