Hello :) I am a 16 year old girl. I want to share my story with you. It all started when I was in 6th grade, I liked a boy from the next class and over time things happened we left we broke up many times, then about 3 months we didn't get together then we left again and we were together for 1 year in that one year I saw what is he. First he is too jealous, angry about everything I could not look boy. We were together every day, we stayed either in them or in us. He made me swear that I would be with him forever, etc., after the 8th month things got worse, he allowed himself to attack me at school and in public places, I think he did not cheat on me, I am not either the problem was that I was very much in love and I couldn't even think of leaving him, it was just the end for me. Shortly before we made a year apart we had no contact for at least 2 months after that we saw each other and could not contain our feelings I told him that I had not forgotten him and he too, then we saw each other about 4 times a month. The last time we met he complimented me that I am very beautiful then he asked me the question why I am writing this here for advice from you .... He asked me if he had treated me well before so far if I would have been with him ... I told him that if he had behaved well with me before I would have been with him by now and he answered with aham because we were no longer alone and the topic was over. Do you think he still loves me and is a factor in his life as far as I know he has a girlfriend but they don't sleep together, he spends the weekends with me at least on Saturdays but he didn't limit her as much as I did and he is terribly jealous and it's not with her that calms me down somewhere, but I don't know. And my question to you is whether he loves her or loves me (I want to give you an image in the situation she is bigger than him, but I am many times better than her), I would be very happy to understand your opinions on my question which is whether he still loves me Thank you in advance ❤️
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"my only love" - nonsense on wheels! What if she was born in another city, in another country, on another continent, would this be the "only one"? One cannot live alone (unless one is wrong), one is programmed to form a couple. So wherever you are, from a certain group of people you will always like one and fall in love with it. Here are yours now if they move abroad, and you are obliged to follow them, and there in time you will like a boy and love will ignite. Will she be "the only one"?
How could I read what was going on in my mind? How can you not be annoyed by a living person next to you. With a married macho, I have never experienced such horror at the emotional "wealth" of someone with whom I have allowed communication. One lives best in ignorance. There is only one consolation and it is in sex. Nice sensual sex in which a man and a woman want each other equally, whether they know each other or not.
My only love now is a huge uniformed man, probably about 30 or 35 years old. I haven't been so impressed in a long time. I haven't seen anything worthwhile in a long time. My infatuation requires physical pleasure. There must be a family. I almost have nowhere to put such a huge person otherwise. I want to get and I will. Here he was told that he had been handsome before. And now they were belly ... Spring has come, storks, I had not thought that a temptation would come for me. I want him in his uniform, to button me up and make me scream.
does he love you I don't think he would have been with her if he loved you, and as far as not being jealous of her, he obviously realized his mistake
If you, who know him, don't know ... What's left for strangers on the Internet. ;) I want to note something though. Strong jealousy is not a sign of love, but of a sense of possession. Unfortunately, very often this feeling kills love and settles unnoticed in its place. I advise you, whatever your feelings for someone, do not stay with him if he is harassing you mentally or physically. When someone has real feelings for you, they will never do something like that. Success! F29
Don't deal with it anymore, believe me, this is not love
He has feelings for you, but he doesn't know how to deal with those feelings. I have no other explanation. Most people loved, were jealous, slightly obsessed, and were angry and hurt by trifles, but found a way to behave maturely and properly to their partner. No matter how angry you are, the way is not to reach out. As much as you want someone for yourself, you can't tie them down and limit them. Your ex-boyfriend is a future abuser, a person who has no self-control. You can be happy with it for another year, but not for life. If I were you, I wouldn't go on an adventure with him, it's like putting a noose around your neck. It's not your only love, it's just your first love. Your thoughts and feelings are something completely normal that many people have been through. Just because your love is strong doesn't mean that you will never overcome it and continue. Now you don't believe, you may not believe for a long time, but this is the truth.
It's all about self-confidence. Victor 420