Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl from a big city. I have a friend who my parents don't approve of. He came from a poor family and is very cool and smart. And my family are not rich, they work normally. And his parents work normally and people manage. My parents are constantly beating me on how I should have found a friend from a rich family, watched me, taken me around the world on exotic vacations and things like that. My father is constantly fighting sports to have a nice body and a Brazilian ass, he even hinted to me that I have small breasts, and you see how, possibly for the ball, they would give me implants, and I'm so far from these things. I talked to my friends about it, and I found that they are constantly talking about finding a rich partner so that they can not worry about finances and luxury living. I don't know, I like it already, Every day I am literally told at home, that is why even my two grandmothers are of the opinion that a man of descent should be sought. I feel like a commodity. I believe that there is love and I love my friend.
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Don't listen to your parents! This fights in the minds of our grandmothers, then mothers, and we live in different times. Before a rich man takes you and does not leave you, now a rich man takes you tomorrow he leaves you. It is very relative, be with the person YOU want to be.
You're right. Don't let them change that in you.
As difficult as it is, you are a separate person. Don't listen to them
Well done, girl, you're great. Love your friend and do not listen to what they tell you, money does not buy happiness. If you really like yourself, with a little intelligence and hard work you will deal with all the problems. You will even surpass those who were born with a silver spoon in their mouth.
Years ago, my wife disobeyed theirs and stayed with me. It worked out for us because she was studying in another city and I went to her, and after graduation we got married. If we were in our hometown, our relatives would surely be able to separate us. We already have two children and we live happily, not in affluence, but that is enough for us.
Sooner or later, without realizing it, they make one ... And from there it follows that there are men who are only looking for sex ... And they are brainwashed if you see men have only thought about themselves, etc. Etc .... And what kind of one disappoints them and then we are not the same .. My opinion does not aim at any controversy. I wish you success, although I do not believe that you will not become what they want you to be
They are rich, just waiting in line to pick you up - another time. This only happens in fairy tales. The truth is that people with opportunities have a very large selection of women in their lives. Most likely attracted exactly by their money. But this is not a guarantee of anything! Today you are his favorite, and tomorrow he can kick you out on the street for nothing! So my advice is to look for true "love" with your man. Despite the difficulties, if you love each other you will cope together! Money can bring some kind of "peace" in life, but in no case does it bring happiness and love! Good luck. M. 32g.
So do you think it is normal to be treated as a commodity that should be sold? And these people are your parents, I have no words ...