Hello, I am a girl who does not know what to say to her friend and I would like someone to help me. The story is as follows. She is 13 and is my best friend. A few days ago she went to the village and met a boy who was 22. After a while they left. She says she loves him, but she still can't figure out if it's true love. Her first kiss was with him and she is very attached to him. He says he's not with her for one fuck, and I think it's because if he wanted to do it by now. He also claims that he loves her very much. She left the village because she had to start school. They are still together but their distance prevents them from seeing each other and also that he works. Maybe they will be seen but rarely. So I told you all this about my girlfriend to ask you if it is better for her to separate from him because he is very big. Does age interfere with a healthy relationship Please help me so I can help my girlfriend too. Thanks in advance.
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Hi. don't worry about your girlfriend after all she is 13 nobody said she would marry him and they will hardly be together for a long time when he sees that she doesn't give him what he needs he will dump her goodbye.
At 13 and a friend? Is not it too early? At 17-18 I would understand, but at 13? Ah, children, children, where, where are your parents? Then they roar that their child has become a drug addict, a prostitute, that she did not study, that she was ashamed, that she failed .... The parents are to blame for everything - some of them do not give any education to their children, but no complete freedom.
Do you happen to be your girlfriend and ashamed to admit it?
For number 2. I'm 14 and I don't understand what your problem is at all. I have a boyfriend and I'm an excellent student. Just because I like someone doesn't mean I have to do drugs or be a prostitute. If this is the case with you, this is your problem. And next to the author - I think that the friend is either really in love with him, then there is nothing wrong with that, or the friend uses it, which will be understood later. She must realize this herself. The problem is that if he uses her she tells herself it's nothing special and so she will be left alone. And the end is coming
What a relationship she was still a child, and he is a great man! Of course, he just wants to use it, what else would a mature man want from a little girl! What's wrong with today's children, at 13 I was still playing at children's games, reading books for the summer, watching my studies and I didn't think about boys at all, let alone sex? !! I liked a friend of mine, but everything was innocent as a child, or we picked junk or went to swing on some swings. Yesterday's pickles with the milk in my mouth started to deal with boys! Tell your girlfriend to stop doing this and start watching her lessons, you, my girl, have written your story just as illiterately that you have nowhere to go, and an external evaluation is waiting for you!
Number 1 and the author, learn to write that an external evaluation is waiting for you, then don't roar here again, that you have 2 on BEL and they haven't accepted you anywhere!
I do not mind 13-14 year olds to have boyfriends, but to be with people from their age group - also students aged 16-17 at most. 20-year-old boys to go with 13-15-year-old girls is a bit wrong in my opinion. This seems to indicate that they do not know how to communicate freely (or at all) with girls their age! From which we can immediately conclude that they are lame and other things in their lives.