Hi, I'm a girl of 20 and I need advice. I know an eighth grade boy, I liked him before, but things didn't work out and he even blocked me everywhere. For several months (almost a year) we communicate again and I see that he has sympathy for me, behaves in a completely different way (compared to before) takes the first steps, seeks intimacy, see you .. one day I raised the topic of,, liking, So to speak, answer me that it is not a topic for chat (it works and does not have much time), but we will talk. But something strange happened today ... he told me that he didn't care about me or anything, that he ended a difficult relationship soon (well then why does he act like he needs me? He even told me that a lot time has passed and I have been with at least 5 other boys and that there was no way to write to others) I care a lot about him, I see that he too, but he is obviously afraid ..
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I think you should talk, don't give up !!!
You are his "spare tire" so to speak. When he is dry, he thinks of you, but as soon as one appears on the horizon, he throws you aside. Beat his jester and run away from him and people like him. You are valuable and do not deserve such treatment. You will find a decent person for whom you will be the first priority. Be brave and determined, you will succeed!
Fight if you don't fight now when? When you're 40?
He looks insecure and cowardly, and you don't need a man like that. If a man makes you feel this way, it's not worth it, believe me.
This boy is quite confused ...