Hello, I am 20, my boyfriend is 27. We have been together for 6 months and our love is really very strong. In the second month I moved and lived with him. His home was like a bachelor's apartment - there was only a bedroom, in the morning, at noon and in the evening we went out to eat. I didn't tell him anything, but he saw that I was uncomfortable and took a loan from the bank (20,000) and is currently making repairs, just for me. But since I'm still studying (I'm a student), I don't work. I have already applied for several vacancies and am waiting to be approved for an interview. But the salaries are 1,000 each, and I don't expect more. Judge me as much as you want, but I will tell you the truth. I'm used to a lot more money a month. When my father took care of my financial income, I got a lot more money, I drove in nice cars, I drove a nice car, I could afford to go to a hairdresser and a make-up artist, to a spa, on procedures that maintain my appearance, I went out to more luxurious restaurants, even the food I ate was more expensive and high quality, food that my friend can not afford at the moment. Every year, and I repeat - every! I went to the sea because we have an apartment in Greece, this year (for the first time in 20), I did not go to the sea because my friend does not have the financial ability to go even for 2 days. But my father and I quarreled a few months ago, precisely because I didn't go home, that I didn't even pick him up (I was blinded by love) and he "turned off the tap." He took his car and stopped giving me money. And you may think of me as a pamper, I say again - I'm just honest, but at the moment I feel very miserable. My boyfriend and I are constantly arguing, I don't trust him, I cry every day ... sex is very nice, I love him very much, but I'm starting to feel worse about it. Does it make sense to keep being in it, or is everything lost ...?
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If the story isn't made up ... Now you're on your way to working on yourself and securing the lifestyle you want. Men, we don't owe you.
Find a rich uncle. That way you won't make much. Or he reconciled with his father and went to Greece.
1000 levs for work without education are not small. I am given 600, with a university degree in the specialty. Daddy won't always be there, the man next to you is ready to change something for you, and she didn't eat expensive food or spend money. Get ready to support yourself and see how the patriots make a living, the man is not obliged to feed you, etc. In general, you are already big and you have to get better, your father did well.
I hadn't read on a fake topic :) Sewn with white threads, next time practice this brain a little more.
That's right, everyone starts somewhere. You will endure ten years, study, advance in the profession and you can still ensure a good standard. After all, you are a great person and you take responsibility for yourself, including financial responsibility.
There's no point. Find more affluent. The present is doomed.
See now when you're small it's easy. You wait for your parents to take care of everything, but after a certain age it is time to take care of things yourself and your standard of living depends on how well or badly you are doing. So even if you're not with this boy, it seems like it's time for you to grow up and take responsibility in life, and alas, it's quite difficult sometimes. Your father will not be with you forever to satisfy your every need, and the sooner you get back on your feet, the better for you. No, I'm saying it will be easy, or that in a year or two you'll reach the standard you had when you were "Daddy's Princess," but everyone starts somewhere. And it already depends on him how far he will go. So instead of grumbling, be thankful that your friend is doing so many things for you,
The theme is fictional, it is felt for miles. But even if it's not, number 1 is right. Both men and women make their standards.
Haha, and how many idiots do you think will be tied to your stupid fabrication? If you try yourself on the literary front - it's not worth it. Otherwise, you portrayed the newly rich daughters very well.
I support number 4. This is one of the dumbest stories possible. At least put a little effort into making people believe you.
You are a great pamper. Leave him from now until he has spent those 20,000 on you and is looking for his uncle's money. But with your requirements you may not find it so rich. Otherwise, rich men are not dumb and will not be attached to you. In life, one should fall in love, not just seek money from boyfriends.
Will you dump him just because he's not wealthy and doesn't please you as you're used to? ... I wish I could curse you
Well, you're spoiled, but you're not a bad person. Just start over. Very few people in your class have the chance you have right now - to live like a normal person and move forward, thanks to your own efforts. If you do, believe me, one day not only you but your father will be proud of you. You can show everyone that money does not make a person.
Unfortunately, your parents taught you to expect everything from men and to experience yourself as a princess. Nothing, life will teach you some difficult lessons and you will become wiser.
I'm sitting here and I have so many things to say, so many lectures to give you. I don't know if it makes sense. Run back to your father, to maintain your standard of living. A man needs a woman and support next to him, not a spoiled pickle, where he wags his tail at the first misfortune. G30
So many things come to my mind to tell you, so many lectures to give you. But I don't think it makes sense. Run back to Dad, to keep your standard for life. I know one such case. A man needs a wife and support, not a spoiled little pick, who wags his tail at the first misfortune. G30
Your poor friend. If he knew what kind of user he was catching. I'm not judging you - you're just like that. If one day he doesn't dump you, or you don't dump him, you will end up with someone who will give you money but your life will be based on matter. I will fix you, fix you, fix you, until you wither and kick you, because people like you are looking for one and are there. There are 2 types of people .. some look inside, others outside. You're only 20 years old and you're pissed. You have never been alone. You always relied on money from your mother and father. I am wealthy and what ?? I have a lot of money and it is good that I see such topics confirming my experience. I wouldn't take one like you. If I take a woman with whom I will share my standard of living, it will be a woman who is educated, ambitious and wants to achieve something either individually or together. These things are understood later. Tongue that your friend of 27 thinks about settling. Older men who are looking for a fit for this is not good to catch up with so young because you are not for us. At this age you deserve to be fixed, fixed and beaten by a jester until the time comes for you to settle down. When the time comes, you will catch someone like you to fix you, fix you, until you wither and he doesn't kick you either. Hopefully your friend will feel it especially after you blew him 20 bucks, given that you will never be satisfied anyway. We don't owe you men, but nothing! A user worthy of a toy ... you will whine someone like you to fix you, fix you, until you wither and he doesn't kick you too. Hopefully your friend will feel it especially after you blew him 20 bucks, given that you will never be satisfied anyway. We don't owe you men, but nothing! A user worthy of a toy ... you will whine someone like you to fix you, fix you, until you wither and he doesn't kick you too. Hopefully your friend will feel it especially after you blew him 20 bucks, given that you will never be satisfied anyway. We don't owe you men, but nothing! A user worthy of a toy ...
From the author to number 4: I don't know why you think and believe that the story is made up and "fake", it's very real. I'm sorry if this is foreign to you and it seems unreal. As much as you want, the "white threads" are not fake. To others, thanks for the advice. Each one is useful to me. :)
And why do we care about you? It is clear that you are mercantile, that the boy will suffer when you throw him away, but you will make the decision yourself - either back to Dad, or you contribute to the "family" budget / so, you live together /.
Why does someone have to provide it for you? You want your dad, who is at least 40, your husband, who is 20, but to have the same income and standard of living. Either get a wealthy uncle your father's age, or finish, find a job and create the standard of living you are looking for. Young and wealthy, he will most likely be wealthy with his parents, which means tolerating an old mother-in-law. I don't know if you're aware, but you also sound like Daddy's princess and you may not get along in the end :).
Now is the time to hope (if this story isn't fake) that your friend reads the topic and, as he is deeply concerned about his well-being (which will melt faster like ice cream in the heat), advises him to dump you right away! :) And to you as a good girl, I would give you advice to repay the loan with the salary, do not engage others with your claims, you do not owe it. A presto;)
Live with Daddy then.
If you are very beautiful, you will undoubtedly find the perfect sponsor. If not - be ready for the labor market, let's be a little realistic Bulgarian women. I am a 34-year-old man with good financial opportunities, thanks to myself and my purposeful development. I am constantly the object of sympathy from ladies who are pretentious of kisses, and cover for snacks. It's even amusing to me how women over 30 can muffin and have requirements, like, say, Svetlana Vasileva, when in fact they are some old-fashioned middle-educated and hopeless individuals, to whom someone has instilled that they should have a husband. to watch them like little children
Don't you think that everything that flies is eaten? If you want money, go abroad !! There, instead of leaves, there is money on the trees !! I really hate girls and women like you. It doesn't matter that my income is BGN 1,000 per month 10 times, but I am a bodyguard and my boss is a foreigner. Supposedly I take 10 vouchers a month, drive cars 2018, but I'm not an inflator and I hate girls like you. They call you gold diggers. Do not take offense, as I told you the truth, so I tell the truth. M22
It's not bad to want a high standard, everyone wants it. I just didn't understand why you were waiting for someone to provide it for you. Get caught, work, do business, make money and go to Hawaii in a month and drive the S class 2018.
It's probably a fake topic ... but it's not like there are no such girls / women.
I hope he has a good repair because the only good thing about this relationship with you will be just that - the repair.
Doomed story, find someone else, if he starts making real money it will be years from now by then you will be bored countless times and he will probably leave you, at least you will remind him of the past ... simple psychology
You prove that today's love is not love and that everything revolves around money! Me
And why do you think someone owes you anything? Great man, get well.
I am very glad that NUMBERS 1, 4, 8, 9, 10 and 23 do not believe that the topic is real, even some call it a fake. I'm the next one to tell you that the topic is an absolute FAKE. I don't know how many times I have to tell you that this author writes only fictional, false topics. I have said it and I will say it again that I know this author from another site more than 6 years ago. The same fictional topics were on the other site, but there was a registration and she never entered her topics as a commentator, but commented on the topics of other authors, including my topics, in the most arrogant and grandiose way. We argued with her there many times and she showed the same inflated EGO as here now. I said she was a pathological liar and if she didn't lie she couldn't live. And the fact that in this topic she presents herself as a 20-year-old is an absolute lie. She's a grandmother, which will turn 62 at the end of November. She is also a lonely grandmother writing fictional topics, so she gets some attention from you and this is her entertainment. No man pays attention to her in real life, so she writes topics in which she presents herself as a young, beautiful girl from a 14, 15-year-old teenager to a little over 30-year-old woman, and in her "relationships with men" she always blames men for everything. She is so fake that if you actually know her, you will be disgusted by her character. If you don't believe me, read her topic in "Others" "Why am I alone?" And her topic "How do you deal with such idiots" in "At work place ". I also want you to go to the topic: "Why do most Bulgarian women have an extremely wrong opinion of themselves?" In "Love and Infidelity". See her comments 114, 123, 152 and 169. Read also my comments 116, 139 and 158. In her comments, she introduces herself as a doctor who cared for about 3,000 Roma children and bought them bicycles as gifts. Do you see what "generosity" he just shows. She is neither a doctor nor has she donated bicycles. Have you ever heard of a doctor giving away bicycles? But I tell you again that she is a sick pathological liar. She cannot live without a lie. Moderators, please post my comment. You see, many people accuse her of lying, and she has no intention of stopping. nor did she donate bicycles. Have you ever heard of a doctor giving away bicycles? But I tell you again that she is a sick pathological liar. She cannot live without a lie. Moderators, please post my comment. You see, many people accuse her of lying, and she has no intention of stopping. nor did she donate bicycles. Have you ever heard of a doctor giving away bicycles? But I tell you again that she is a sick pathological liar. She cannot live without a lie. Moderators, please post my comment. You see, many people accuse her of lying, and she has no intention of stopping.
Whether the topic is real or fictional, such cases hurt. And the comments are nice to see. But I will tell you something that is the truth itself. Love, not love, let every frog know its goal. If this is the case from now on, it will get worse in time. Love will fade anyway, but only the bitter taste of misery will remain ... and why. The class stratification of ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls is increasingly beginning to be felt. And it is normal for a parent to want the best for their child. I don't have a daughter, but if I did, I would never be happy if she married a miserable man. I will not try to separate them, but I would not be FOR either. In many cases, the poor also come from simple families. Yes, thousands of people are penniless and intellectuals, that's true, but most penniless are also total simpletons. I'm not related to them at all. So what is the conclusion, which of course is NOT a GUARANTEE of HAPPINESS, but everyone should be oriented to people from their rug - and by gender and origin, and money, and similar professions, if you will. A poor girl for a rich boy is much more OK than the other way around. At least because the man's ego and self-esteem fall to the floor. If the chick's parents humiliate him once or twice and he finds out what it's about, he won't be able to do work even in the evening. Unless he's some kind of super fat moron and tolerates everything. So to the author, if the topic is real: Either fix the relationship with your father, who will give you money and make a good love with a dude until you get tired or lose it now. It won't get any better, because you can't have any future with such a person. Things can't improve to your previous level, unless he is a super promising young man who is known to succeed in the things he does or does. The truth is bitter, but let's tell it. A 45-year-old man
This standard you are talking about can be provided by anyone, but not your friend. Choose restaurants, luxury or love. Dad and mom are up to date, it's time to achieve something on your own and build a good life for your children. If you are waiting for someone to give you everything ready, then say goodbye to your self-esteem. You can see for yourself that if your parents don't help you, you're nothing special. If you want luxury, either achieve it yourself, or rely on your parents and live in Greece or accept the troubles with the poor boy. Answer the question can you live on BGN 2 a day and BGN 200? A woman wrote to you, who spent BGN 1,000 in a boutique a day, and now spends the month with BGN 1,000 and two children and a husband.
The comment on n38 is the most accurate, I would write something similar. I will add only one thought of Marilyn Monroe - "I have to be good with a man, I can live badly on my own." It is your decision. F19
Was your father rich?
I see interesting comments. So everyone thinks that not having money is being a "normal person". You can call yourself ordinary, poor, average, but normal is slightly biased. First, there are quite a number of rich and even richer (millions around the world and tens of thousands in Bulgaria) - they are obviously abnormal. Second - everyone seems to be striving to "succeed", ie to get rich, and if he sees someone with money, he considers him abnormal. Now imagine that you were born into a "crazy" family with money. What are you going to do? Will you throw away the money you have? Will you run away from the houses and want a salary and a salary of BGN 500? When your parents die, will you distribute all your wealth to the poor and live "normally"? Wake her up and think more soberly. The girl decided to pretend to be on her own, catching the first one she liked. Her father knows the realities and teaches her a lesson with the financial faucet. She quickly understands the truth. Whether a story is made up doesn't matter, it actually happens thousands of times.
Fiction. Alpha, b. 29 years old
Girl, if you're telling the truth, you have two options. To find a job best as a receptionist or waitress or maid in a hotel, they are relatively lucrative for people with low education. If you are good you can get up and you can look for a secretary if you are beautiful and organized the boss will quickly notice it and from 1000 or two thousand levs you can get up at least twice in a short period You will find a home and you will get better and then you can also find a rich man. If you want a lasting relationship with children you need to know the conclusion Money when money goes. A rich man with a rich woman. It's not like a man used to work now. They also see the lady. And even at the time when they worked mainly Men, they were looking for rich girls that if something happened and they were stuck to rely not only on their parents but also on their father-in-law.
In fact, my daughter is 20 and she causes me a lot of problems with rich boys. One of them was driving drunk with a bought book and making scandals. Every night I was worried if she would come back healthy. He spent a year with him and they broke up. Then he got caught with a bisexual restitution at 30. He, in addition to having money to buy 4 cars, even tried to sleep with a man and at that age he did not get married, but got married to my 19-year-old daughter. I told her: Look at him as he is, provocative, shaved everywhere ... his appearance is irritating and can't protect you. And she: he has money and he protects me. They broke the glory of God. For a week now, he has been seeing regularly with a more normal boy of 22. He is not rich and is evident in his modest thinking and behavior. Security guard in SOT 161, about 185 cm tall and almost 100 kilos. He has been training martial sambo from the age of 17 until today. What will they do to my daughter with him? What do I care that he has a salary of 700-800. I want to have healthy grandchildren and protected children. This with the bisexual and metrosexual was invented by the bourgeoisie in the West. Balzac, Zola, and Dickens described the lives of wealthy degenerates in their books. Today, most of the rich are destroying values and incest and incest around the world, and the poor are too busy making money. Not all rich people are destructive, but they are not few. However, among the poor simpletons are the gypsies and people from deep backgrounds. But, in reality, today in Sofia the wealthier are from exactly the same deep province, so ... Zola and Dickens have described the lives of wealthy degenerates in their books. Today, most of the rich are destroying values and incest and incest around the world, and the poor are too busy making money. Not all rich people are destructive, but they are not few. However, among the poor simpletons are the gypsies and people from deep backgrounds. But, in reality, today in Sofia the wealthier are from exactly the same deep province, so ... Zola and Dickens have described the lives of wealthy degenerates in their books. Today, most rich people break down values and commit incest and incest around the world, and the poor are too busy to make money. Not all rich people are destructive, but they are not few. However, among the poor simpletons are gypsies and people from deep backgrounds. But, in reality, today in Sofia the wealthier are from exactly the same deep province, so ...
Girl, you are not looking for a male partner in life, but a copy of your father to satisfy his whims. But your father doesn't do it anymore, realizing what can be done to you with this pampering. You can't be Daddy's princess all your life, it's time to grow up and learn to take responsibility. As for Monroe's line, it is true, but it is also true in the other direction, that not only a woman should be happy but also a man in a relationship. Otherwise, a man could say with a woman I should be fine, I can live badly and alone. That is, there must be taking - giving in both directions, otherwise it does not happen. And when you're not feeling well with this boy, why did you go with him? You are unhappy, don't make him unhappy.
42, you almost didn't understand the idea. It is NOT a question of whether you are poor or rich, but whether you are waiting. Of course, everyone wants to be rich. But it is one thing to work for your dreams, it is another to be a preparer and think that the whole world owes you.
When a country is economically incomparable with other countries in Europe, a large part of the population is angry and illiterate, it is normal that it is abnormal to have rich people. Because this means that there are some cadres and brains here, but there aren't any. Conclusion. Enrichment through inheritance of land, connections and schemes, drawing loans. Such people live in Bulgaria. And it's sad that women are looking for that. My friend was cruelly enslaved by such a man. He inherited various things from his father and bought them, bought various things, until it was time for them to get bored and for her to want to leave him, and for him to pursue her and not let her breathe. He has been trying to end his relationship for two years, but to no avail. Cars and clothes and let's be a slave all my life. I do not devour it to any woman, but it is good for others to experience it to sober up.
I love troll themes, Dad. A tear of pleasure flowed down my face. Won't any of you men come to the girl's aid? Pass your jacket, get it in the car (Moskvich, 89th), take it home (the box under the Eagle Bridge) and finally tell it to tie it and do whatever you want with it, finally explain it to her how the Federal Reserve works and why Uncle Trump's wall will not stop immigration to the United States. Give her a standard of living!