I am a healthy man, 30 years old, my genitals are of normal size. But when I have sex it doesn't work, I can't satisfy the woman next to me and I feel like a big idiot. Even after the first 15 minutes I get tired and I can't go on anymore and I feel like I can't finish and this happens almost every time. I went to the doctor and he told me that the problem was mentally developed from some childhood trauma but I can't believe it. What do you think, give advice on how to make the woman next to me feel wanted.
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What are your normal sizes?
Go to a gynecologist immediately.
Number 2, what kind of gynecologist is chasing you? !! Come on! You don't go to an andrologist if you're a woman, do you? Dude, I'm a woman and I want to tell you that 15 minutes is enough for me. In a sense, the actual act. In my opinion, trying to keep your erection longer causes you the problem. My husband used to say that there is a peak in the act itself, when you are hellishly aroused and if you manage to keep ejaculating, then you can flatter yourself for hours and not be able to finish. Try a longer love game first, until you feel that you are both very excited, then act and when you feel that you are done, do not try to continue the act longer. You finish that much. Try this. If I understood you correctly, I think it will work :)
Normal intercourse (until pleasant) is up to 15 minutes. So the duration in this case is not a problem. In women, unfortunately, the most sensitive part (clitoris) is "out of the game" during intercourse. Just help with the hand / tongue of the woman next to you to finish. Few women experience a vaginal orgasm. In most it is clitoral. Success!
Number 2, you're very bad! What gynecologist? The author should not be a woman to go to a gynecologist. ;) I should rather go to a urologist! ;);)
There are some very cool belts with members, you put it on your waist and when you're done, you start with the artificial one, but you also need to grease it a little. So the wife will be satisfied and you will be happy that you are satisfying her. Compromises must be sought in marriage in order for everything to go smoothly. Talk to her and suggest it, say that not everything in nature is as we want it and where something is lame we need crutches. Tell her that you love her, and if it was up to you, she would drive for 5 hours, but against nature, sometimes we are weak.
You say you get tired quickly. How are you physically? Do you have heart or weight problems? There may be a problem. I ask because I trained for 6 months for a running competition. I had enrolled in the amateur class and had to run about 30 km in several stages in one day. I lost from 99 kg to 87 kg in 5 months and felt that my tone jumped many times. Like you, I got tired in 15 minutes, but with training the fatigue evaporated and I could last more than an hour without straining. I wish you success!
You don't mention anything, but already BG men have big bellies and in general they are proud to be over 100 kg. with pink cheeks - a symbol of prestige and good lifestyle. Still, it is possible that you fail due to too much effort
Probably really on a mental basis. Try to think positively and when you start the act, don't just think about the fact that you can't satisfy the woman next to you, or that you still can't finish. Try to exclude all negative emotions and indulge in sex. On the other hand, the woman next to you must understand and support you. This will probably help you the most. The closer your wife is, the better. This way you will be able to tell her how you like her the most, as well as she will be able to tell you what can drive her crazy. I'm a girl, I've been engaged for a year or so, and until recently I kept quiet about what I like. Ever since I started guiding him, things have changed dramatically. Success!