My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months .. we decided to do it for me it will be my first time .. Everything was fine, he was aroused, he was just putting on the condom and he can't do it anymore .. it was probably 2-3 times .. in the end he even cried that nothing had happened, saying that he was very ashamed of what had happened. Tell me what to do .. what to change in my approach to help both ..
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Haha, I hope you didn't laugh. Otherwise - sweethearts. Don't worry, darling, it's happening. You can help him a lot. Don't talk about what happened and from now on you put on the condoms, but first ... first make him teach you to blow his whistle. Say you don't feel ready for sex, there's no hurry. He, even if a virgin, knows his "boyfriend" very well and will show you. After about a month, just grab the condom and put it on. Make sure you apply gel-lubricant beforehand or it has aroused you well. The bad thing is that you have to take the active role in this case, and you yourself are a boy, but women are the stronger sex sexually, as she convinced herself. You will do it!
Thank you very much ... and we both laughed a lot about it later. This is the first time for me to be on top of me and I am quite worried, I want to do it, but he is curled up to make oral love to me and I am uncomfortable somehow .. I don't know .. I'm exactly a boy, even though I'm 18 ..
Author, it should not be the active one, but you after this interception. You make oral love to him that the boy seems to be stressed. Read about the term "petting". I think it's better to wait at least a month with sex and drive her to Petting
And I would recommend you not to hurry, but to emphasize petting. Suggest that he lie on top of you as if on his stomach and put it between the cheeks of your ass (it would be good to anoint them with some cream). So he can do friction like in real sex. We are not talking about penetration! I am convinced that this will be a good "dry" workout for him.
As an old associate professor used to tell me - "It happens that if a woman is stupid she will laugh at you and that's it, and a smart woman will touch you and caress you and the work will be done." Short, precise and clear soul. Be active, caress him, touch him, etc. For the first time, men are so that they don't expose themselves with a big coat and 90% of them don't bother with a coat.