Hello, my friend and I have had a full sex life so far, but suddenly it started to soften. We both wonder what could be the cause and how to fix it. It is soft in the beginning, after stimulation it becomes but half, we start to do it and within a few minutes it decreases. After about 5 consecutive fouls, he started to get depressed, he was quite worried, he took him really seriously. He is a young, healthy and active man. I am sure he is stressed, although when it happened to him it was a vacation and we were on vacation, where we had more than a pleasant time. Are there men here who have had it happen and give advice on how to cope, how to react in this delicate situation
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It happens when one does not feel things at all. When he thinks about something, even if he has focused too much on specific details in sex instead of relying on instincts. Try to reassure him that it is not a big drama and not to think about it. And it's best to just push yourself before you have sex, so that other thoughts fall away on their own. From then on, if things don't work out, you can try a sexologist or Viagra to regain your confidence.
It happens to me, but to people on the first date. After going so long, it means either watching great porn or being healthy. It could also be alcohol. Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. Don't suffocate if his answer is yes. At least you'll know it's something between you. If not, it's obviously healthy. To start training something, fitness, tennis, running, boxing ... something. he needs to improve his hydration, hence his libido.
You won't have sex much.