Hello. I'm a little desperate and I'm writing here to make it easier for me .. 2 months ago I started writing with a boy on Facebook, in general I rarely answer strangers, but after he wrote to me several times I decided to answer him and we signed up. The chat in the beginning was based only on jokes, we had a lot of fun and wrote to each other all the time, I cut it tactfully because I didn't know him, and over time he became quite insistent. We started writing more and more seriously. After 1 month of constant writing, we agreed to see each other. We saw each other, everything was correct. We met a second time, a third. Things were going well. After a few meetings, he invited me to their house, which worried me a lot that he didn't want us to do anything, but I went. Well ... we did some things, but we didn't have sex. Then we saw each other again, but less often because it started working and it was difficult. Our chat went on, but we started to get annoyed with some nonsense and before we saw each other we got annoyed, but not so much. We quarreled from time to time, then recovered. He told me he wanted me for him, he was jealous, but lately something was getting very annoying, from everything. I have the feeling that something has receded, but if I try to talk it irritates me even more. He doesn't offer to see me, he writes again, but now it's somehow "dry". I try not to impress myself and pretend that nothing happened to avoid quarreling, but sometimes I can't keep quiet like a characterless sheep. I don't know if the reason is the difficult and rare seeing, or I'm tired of him or another one has appeared, or he's one of the guys who thinks "I won her, I don't want her anymore", although I haven't shown him too much affection, I keep up . But obviously he doesn't think of getting into a more serious relationship and he thinks of ending them as soon as he withdraws little by little and I wanted to get it, but I think I should stop looking for him, obviously it won't happen, I'm just ruining myself nerves. Before, when I was pulling, he was very insistent, now things have changed. What do you think I should do, should I drop everything?
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Option 1: If he is always the initiator of things happening, he always writes first, he always wants to see you, he always shows his desire to have you ... Yes, it is possible for a person to withdraw, for fear that he may to have annoyed you, and just to wait for your actions and intentions towards the relationship. Option 2: It may be the type of people who, when they receive something, no longer want it so badly, their thrill passes quickly. Option 3: He may have met another who has attracted his attention at the moment ... But I can't believe it because, as a woman / girl, you must have felt it. Option 4: The person may simply be overwhelmed with work, or in a period of some fatigue I don't know: D The solution: For any problems or things you don't like, talk to him, not ABOUT him. (we can't guess what's going on in his head right now)
You didn't write how old you were, I guess about 19. I think you were in a hurry to "do things." Apparently he has lost interest. And this type of unexplained relationship is not to my taste. What are you like right now - chat interlocutors, friends or friends for sex? There can be no connection or word. I think the boy is quite disoriented, my advice is to step back, do not write to him, see his reactions - will he write or will he quickly give up.
Once you did not give him an advance to the boy and you did not give up ... You pretend to be very strong and powerful over the situations, but in reality it is not so. You gave it up on you. This has happened. No more interest. It has nothing to do with you. No sex, no intimacy. Before you attack the kids' child attacks, I will tell you that sex is known as a relationship (big women will understand me). Sorry, but 2 months of just exchanging spit and talking is not a job. Instead of complaining, go here and change something between you. If there is anything left at all ... Greetings, Uzunov Last .. did not say how old you are :).
So am I, I like more characterless girls. You just have to pay more attention to him and share more with him to leave him with the impression that you are only for him and make him happy. I can even bet he's a Leo.
I agree 1, there may even be other possible options that he can't think of. There is no way to know, you have to talk to him face to face and sincerely.
But why do you write to each other if you want to be together. Can't you see each other? In general, I didn't understand people who download in chats. Although I did it once three or four years ago, and I think everything is I don't know if you are already a couple and he / you is abroad or something like that ... write to each other. Besides, I'm not in the chats. I don't understand much of these things and that's why I do everything in a kid's way. .For example, if I want to go with someone I think I would tell him right away.Or how to tell ... I'll tell him right away / if I see that he is also interested in ../ that I like him.This is stupid, I know. But it's better, because one may fall in love and the other not. Or rather, be sure that the other likes you. do you want to "suffocate the man"? / let me ask /. Otherwise ...
He apologizes to you because he didn't know you were bound! He wishes you good luck and positive emotions
I'm 18, he's 20. He turned out to be too proud and very stubborn. We quarreled once over some trifle and we didn't look for each other for 2 days, after which I decided to look for him to fix things. We wrote to each other and everything was fine. He had a day off, and I decided to offer to see him, because he obviously had no intention of doing so. I told him early, but it turned out it was too late ... he already had other plans, although I had hinted to him the day before. This time I couldn't keep quiet because I was offended. When a person wants to see you, he should, having a day off, which is a rarity, be the first to think of offering to see you. So ... I teased him, I told him that if I didn't offer, he wouldn't remember. Naturally, he got angry at the very least and started to get annoyed, asking me what I wanted from him, that I only made him angry and I told him I wanted to know what he wanted. His answer was I don't want anything and we haven't looked for each other since. I don't know what happened suddenly, as everything was going well. I tried in every way to get along with him, but alas it did not work. While I had some hope, I was ready to do anything, but now that he has clearly shown me that he does not want anything, I give up and so ... I hope it will pass faster! I want to look for him, but I don't see the point in humiliating myself, so I'll just keep going. I was ready to do everything, but now that he has clearly shown me that he doesn't want anything, I give up and so ... I hope it will pass faster! I want to look for him, but I don't see the point in humiliating myself, so I'll just keep going. I was ready to do everything, but now that he has clearly shown me that he doesn't want anything, I give up and so ... I hope it will pass faster! I want to look for him, but I don't see the point in humiliating myself, so I'll just keep going.
Don't understand the comments on number 7?
Before I finally left the site ... is she the number 9 author? Number 7, just to ask, which number are you referring to?
We still didn't understand №9 is she the author? What happened next, did you look for yourself or did you give up? Keep us informed of the outcome! And one more thing №7, it never became clear who you were addressing - the author or did you confuse the story?
I just want to ask the author, because the situation is very familiar to me and the boy's age is 20. Is the boy from Sofia? Don't turn out to be the same person in the end.
Yes from Sofia.
Number 8 and number 9 are me - the author. To number 12 - no, there are two different stories, but obviously similar. :) Otherwise we haven't looked for each other yet. Eh this sick pride .... even if he didn't care we could at least talk, explain, but no.
Wait, did he keep looking for you, didn't he look for you, forget it, no matter how difficult it is .. :) We didn't understand the comment on number 7, who are you really talking to in the end?