I don't know what's going on .... I have a feeling that I'm losing myself, the problem is that I believe in eternal love and I love my boyfriend ... but he doesn't seem to want to put up with me anymore I LOVE HIM, and if he leaves me I will die ... I have no strength ..why I am like that, why I believe in eternal love, when nowadays there are no such people .... WHY ... Please help me to realize; (
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Death is the only sure thing in life. Don't think about it. Most girls, even little ones, only think about love. They wonder if it will work out for them if a certain boy likes it. A friend of mine got lost like that and she is still young. If it has not been written to you, no matter how difficult it is, you will separate. Don't look for love, wait for it to come to you. We must accept things as they are. It is difficult to change one's destiny. Apparently your true friend is somewhere out there, among others. Just wait and he will come to you himself, and if this boy you are talking about is your man, you will be fine. Just don't ruin your life for it.
The more you run after a man, the more he runs away from you. Leave things to their own devices, don't obsess over him, be the way you are, don't try to please him in everything, even if you have to start being a little cold to him to provoke his somewhat dormant feelings for you. Don't ask too much of him, don't bother him with constant phone calls, if necessary make him a little jealous, but don't overdo it. It can help. Put him to a little test to find out what he really feels for you. If it doesn't help and his feelings for you don't return, it's better to end the relationship. I know it will be very difficult for you, but it is better than trying to be with someone who no longer loves you.
Keep your head up!