Dear readers, I also want to share my story with you. She is a "classic in the genre", if you can call it that .... In short, I am a nice girl, with a good social environment, good friends, and he is a country boy, usually, but at least loving at first. So we decided to get together to live in Sofia together, ie. for him to come to me, we had plans for a separate home .... you know what it's like when a person is in love and lost. And so the months passed, we had a good time together until the moment when he didn't receive a text message "I miss you when you're going home, the nights without you are lonely ... etc." I immediately asked for an explanation, for which, of course, a series of lies began. Accordingly, his actions prompted me to delve deeper into things, and so on until I came to the truth, that when he returns to his hometown he does sex marathons ..... I'm shocked, I still can't believe what I'm learning. It hurts me, it hurts a lot, not for him, for myself ...... I want to experience it, but I know that time heals. If anyone has a tip, I will read it with great pleasure.
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Be strong and don't leave yourself to someone who doesn't deserve to darken your smile !!
My advice is to "give him" the way, if you haven't already. And then - to realize that it's not YOUR fault, to understand that next to you could be a loving and faithful partner, and you to be the same as now - this is very important to understand that the problem does not is in you. Then turn your back on the story and move on.
Hey girl, the moment you tell him to go to the village to k .... they, you will feel like a newborn with new self-confidence :) such men are not even worth thinking about, they are pathetic and only when you put them in place you will feel better;) If you ask me "Beat his jester with a smile, get dressed and go out to celebrate" :))))))
I'm in the same situation ... but no matter how strong I am, I couldn't stand it and gave him a second chance ... let's see, he's doing well so far .... I love him so much and he doesn't deserve it. But the right advice is to forget that it exists.
You are all great and thank you :). To go and graze my ducks and I hope he will be relieved soon ......
I would advise you to give him another chance, because every person (no matter how many mistakes he has made) deserves to be given a second chance. I give you this advice because not in a different way, and not so long ago it happened to me. I acted very foolishly by answering him with the same, although he did not stop showing me how much he regretted his act but I was very hurt and found solace in the same betrayal! It's been 10 months since our separation and with the same pain I still regret that I did the same, even though I saw how much it hurts! If I could go back in time I would have acted differently !!
I'm 39 years old and at Christmas I caught an SMS to my partner - he couldn't believe it, but I left him. Let him now assess what he had. Once he has done it, there is another time. Don't believe his words and promises.
Buy him a ticket for the bus, to return to the village, so that he can push himself into the hay at will! There is nothing to be angry about, shoddy men hurt, but there are decent ones with a little patience you will find one of them. And for such village sticks, don't sleep at all!
All good, but as long as you pretend to be "citizens", you can't stand it anymore! You're funny, people! You never realized that the peasantry is not a geographical concept, but a definition of mentality. The most successful and proven people in the world come from the countryside! And you, the "pseudo-Sophians", where during the weekends you will kill yourself to return to your native places, land a little on this planet !!!