Hello! My problem is the following: I am a 21-year-old girl, I have been having sex for about 5-6 years. I've never had problems with men, except that during sex they end in 5 minutes ... I've been with a lot of partners and with absolutely everyone. I have never had sex for more than 15 minutes. I do not want to last 2 hours, but at least 30-40 minutes, but alas ... I have been with men of different ages, from 22-38, but there is no difference in duration. I have talked about this problem with my friends and everyone says that it did not happen to them and it is no coincidence that I am obviously the reason for this. Maybe they are right to some extent, because in principle I have a more perverted appearance, but only to such an extent that they can't last 5 minutes!? There is something else: They don't leave me alone, only once, even if I've been with a man, and then for years he doesn't stop calling me and looking for me for sex. I explain to them that there is no point in persisting, but to no avail. I'm tired already! I am surrounded by men who want me badly, but what of it, after not satisfying me in bed. My question is more about men. I want you to tell me, what is the reason for you to end so quickly, I'm not talking about incidents, but about systemic ones? Can a woman make you SUPER arousing and for you to cum in seconds?!?
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I think you're absolutely right. It was a hit right in the top ten.
"My problem is the following" is wrong. It must be "My problem is the following". "Problem" is a preposition in the sentence, and "mine" explains it - that's why it is written with a full article - mine. "Following" also clarifies a problem, so it should also be written with a full article - the following.
Wow, minutes for advertising. Cumming depends more on the man than on the woman. Men eventually learn to control their ejaculation. Besides, you don't have to go through the actual act right away.
Or maybe number 2 has a problem in the other extreme?!? -Men NEVER end it ... or they can't even start ...
"Men eventually learn to control their ejaculation." - How much longer do 35-year-old men need ???
Well, maybe you're bad luck and it doesn't happen to men who can control themselves. And if you're really that arousing, that might be the reason. On the other hand, does your partner never "repeat" you once (sounds rude, I know)? * Syndrome
Ehhhee, you pretended to be a goddess, boy, that's complete nonsense. And don't think of yourself as good enough to influence ... to delude yourself that you're amazing
Number 2, What kind of nonsense did you write? With such illiterately written stories, you managed to correct this one, and in general it was written correctly. In fact, there are one or two more mistakes and a few commas, correct the whole. But
No, I haven't tried to make a "goddess in bed" in front of people I don't know and will probably never meet. And if this definition means that I will have sex for 5 minutes every time - no thanks ... I prefer not to be a "goddess" I wanted to hear opinions on the issue, about my problem, not reproaches. If I knew 100% that the reason was in me, I would never write on the site
The problem is that you don't have a permanent partner ... Catch someone with whom you can crack 1-2 times a day, let's see if on the 5th day it will end in 5 minutes? Otherwise, if you act on the principle of Gul-i-Ver '- it is normal for the cravings to act on the principle of Chuk-i-Gek ... For me - when I haven't done it for a long time I finish very quickly, but when I get fed up and the passions subside - I can play for an hour (well, not all the time handcuffing de - along with other other games, etc.) And this with the men who have been looking for you for years - come on a little bit :) unless you're the only woman in the village / city, or you don't always come across some super-elementary creatures, without a gram of imagination and a vision of what life is. I think you want it to be like this here more than it really is ...
In most cases, the problem is with you personally! Don't rush so much! Mazha felt that it makes you: to die: boils a lot. fast! It is.
To number 10: These men I've been with, there has been almost no one once or twice. We may not always have sex 2-3 times a day, but several times a week. And if we want to have sex 100 times, it's still for 5 minutes. If it was like that with one or two, I would take it as a coincidence, but in my case it just can't be. I don't know why you think that I'm sitting here, I've taken some time to write complete nonsense and almost try to pretend to be interesting in front of strangers. I also don't know why you take my story as a compliment, because personally I am the most damaged of the whole thing. Of course, not all the men I've been with have been looking for me for years, but at least five still insist. And I ended all relations with them at least two or three years ago. I'm sorry I wrote the story here,
Something serious to say from my experience. The vaginal fluid of different women has a different composition. For some, the ingredient that makes a man finish faster is more. But boy, what more do you want than 15 minutes, that's great. Don't watch what's going on in the porn movies 0there they repeat one scene indefinitely ... Talk during sex, interrupt, change positions, you can light a cigarette ... If they end quickly with a condom, then you act very arousing to them :)
If everything written is true, there is only one logical explanation: None of your partners cared enough for you to exercise any self-control, in the name of your pleasure. Grandpa Torbalan
Grandpa Torbalan, I don't think anyone will care about me. I have had a wonderful relationship with all these men. They respect me. Most people try to satisfy me with French caresses, but the sexual intercourse itself, which I need to feel satisfied, lasts very little. The other day I had sex with an ex-boyfriend who was absent from Bulgaria for almost 2 years. Before he always ended very quickly (in about 5 minutes). The day we met, there was no sex ... I don't know if there were 15 seconds. He is a very handsome man who has never lacked female attention. I'm not the only one who's bent on letting him go and that's the reason. Like him and everyone else ... Up to number 13: We almost always use condoms! You're advising me to break up, but how the hell does that happen, before, before I feel like we're having sex,
I completely agree with Grandpa Torbalan, there is simply no way if you have had a permanent partner for a while not to learn to control himself ..., to feel like coming to him and to break for a while !!! The bitter truth remains that they may simply not have wanted to do it :) Bai Spas 27
Do you know how much a man needs to "finish"? No more than 2 minutes. Smurf and we are ready to turn to the other side and sleep contentedly and happily, like boars. And here come the deeper aspects of male pleasure, not the purely physical ones resulting from rubbing and reciprocating movements, but those between the ears. Sorry if the comparison will offend you, but as you describe it to me, they are making a simple check with you. If a man holds on to his partner, there are dozens of ways to keep his ejaculation. Interrupted intercourse - stops for a moment, feeling that he is coming; Distraction - begins to think about something illibid (care must be taken not to get a complete loss of erection); Tightening of certain muscle groups - scrotum, anus and lower abdomen; Breathing techniques - there are many, but in general taking a deep breath and holding it for 30-60 seconds gives a good effect of deceleration; Swallowing; Physical tightening of the vas deferens - with a rubber ring or simply with a hand covering the testicles; When this technique is applied at the right time, ejaculation can be delayed for hours. I experimented once, and in the third hour my wife was angry. Then we were both rubbed. So if a man wants to satisfy a woman (NOT TO BE SATISFIED WITH HER) and has sexual experience, he will find a way. If the flora in your vagina is really so influential - try anal sex, although men there "cum" much faster, you may not. And you write that you want sex to last "at least" 30 minutes. If you put the love game here, yes. Otherwise 10-15 minutes are the optimal time for the "real" part, whereby both parties to experience pleasure. If they prepare well in the phase of foreplay, I assure you that you will finish not in 5 minutes, but in 50 seconds later. The woman has a longer period of "plateau" during sexual intercourse, so the experienced lover will translate it somewhat with caresses and only then will move to penal-vaginal contact. And if the man just wants to extort, some nice and naive girl - louuup the whole tree by the stove, yeah, wow we spilled the milk and "You turn me on a lot, darling, that's why I finish so fast" ... Grandpa Torbalan therefore, the experienced lover will translate it somewhat with caresses and only then will pass to penal-vaginal contact. And if the man just wants to extort, some nice and naive girl - louuup the whole tree by the stove, yeah, wow, we spilled the milk and "You turn me on a lot, darling, that's why I finish so fast" ... Grandpa Torbalan therefore, the experienced lover will translate it somewhat with caresses and only then will pass to penal-vaginal contact. And if the man just wants to extort, some nice and naive girl - louuup the whole tree by the stove, yeah, wow, we spilled the milk and "You turn me on a lot, darling, that's why I finish so fast" ... Grandpa Torbalan
Although I am a woman, I will completely agree with Grandpa Torbalan. I haven't had many sexual partners, but the ones I did have always tried to satisfy me first. There are many ways to delay ejaculation. And, you know, it often happens to me during oral contact with my husband that I feel the approach of his ejaculation and I just grasp his testicles with my hand and lightly press the base of his penis. During vaginal contact, on the other hand, it breaks, precisely in order to slow down. So, with us, the act lasts about an hour or so, along with the love game. It's hard for me to understand you because nothing like this has ever happened to me. I was with a man 4 years younger than me, I was, and still am, with a man much older than me - there was almost no difference in duration. I'm telling you this detail because I've heard it often, that younger men were more inexperienced and harder to control. (I'm not referring to teenagers). Everything, in my opinion, is based on the man's desire - to satisfy, or to be satisfied? The second thing seems to have happened to you. PP: Grandpa Torbalane, should we congratulate the new member of the family, or is he still on his way? :)
Maleeeeeee, how many competent people are here !!!! Listen to them. And you don't say anything about yourself. However, sex does not start in bed. With what attitude do your partners sleep with you, and you with them?
@ 18 He's on his way, 2 more weeks :)) Grandpa Torbalan
I can't agree with you and especially with Grandpa Torbalan. I have already said that men try to satisfy me with French caresses, but they do not help me. If they made a "check" with me, they would hardly try French !?
From 18: Grandpa Torbalane, I'm keeping my fingers crossed that everything will be fine and that the little man will appear without any problems and "with one effort", as they say here! :)
And what happens when you fellatio them? Do they last longer?
Or you're a bad luck and you really come across men who don't have a gram of self-control. or there is something you save ... with previous partners I lasted from 5 minutes to an hour or so. as long as you have a desire for the other, anything is possible ... otherwise, from your comments and stories I have the feeling that you are throwing yourself in bed (or anywhere) with many people for no particular reason. what's so weird then that they end quickly? I don't know ... I may not understand either, but this case is very strange to me and full of holes: / M.
To number 23: No, on the contrary ...
Author, on the topic: let's put it this way ... if a man has sex with a diva of the Pamela Anderson variety (in her younger years) it will probably end quickly. but if he sexes with it systematically, he will last longer. you if you make some passing flirtations with a lot of men - normal, and if they want to satisfy you. Here's another tip - there are retention sprays. take one and spray on the pussy: D: D: D M.
I don't know, what is not clear to you number 24?!? I don't jump from bed to bed and I've always had some connection with these men. They try to compensate for sex with French caresses, but it's not enough for me, as I already mentioned. For several years I have been seeing a man with whom we had a very serious relationship some time ago, but now it's all just sex, so my thought was that it's the same with him for 5 minutes. It's not like some people here think that they're just "checking" with me because I think I'm smart and respectful enough to allow that. And I don't think it's possible to be with someone for years, to respect and hold on to you and just make a "check" with you. Anyway ... it's clear that I won't find a logical explanation here either, for the simple reason that no one reads what I said, but draws some conclusions of their own,
Look what - what you 'said' doesn't tell us anything ... you slept with some people, God knows how many / what / when / why / where, etc. and they ended quickly. (* - *) I do not do it, no one has so far told it to happen to him; we may be big sex addicts and not admit it, but I'm more inclined to believe it. rapid ejaculation results from two things - poor control or premature ejaculation. it is almost the same, but the latter is supposed to be 'cured'. anyway, a man who understands and loves you and really wants to give you pleasure will try. you mentioned these French caresses a hundred times ... well done, you've come across :))) at least there is some charm! if you want a logical explanation - ask your partners !!! -you have sex with someone and then ask another why your "something-you-are" - where is the logic in this?! ??
Wow, you're a very competent number 29. It's not about whether any of you believe me or not, whether you think I'm saving something or not, the important thing is what I tell you. And based on my words, you can draw some conclusions, not assume.
To the author and everyone else. I read carefully and I will tell you how things are with me. You are not helping the author, you are just attacking her !!! Be better !!! Here is my story ..... with my second husband, we live 14 years, before me he had lovers who "rocked" 1-2 hours. TRYING TO PROCEED WITH ME SO, very boring, we did not end together in sync, our sex was not uniform, I end thousands of times, aaaa ... he did not ...., after I got bored, I asked him the question WHY DON'T YOU FINISH ??? CAN'T I BRING YOU ??? ON THE CONTRARY, HE REFUSED ME, THE WOMEN / COLLEAGUES /, WHEN I LISTENED TO THEM, I WAS IMPRESSED THAT THEY WANT A LOT FOR A LONG TIME. AND FINALLY, NEITHER I AM SATISFIED, NOR THEM !!! WE LIVED TOGETHER, AND .... AT ONE MOMENT / BECAUSE WE ARE VERY ATTRACTED AND LOVE, I TOLD HIM LOOK AT YOURSELF AND COME ACCORDING TO ... IT DEPENDS ....... HE COULDN'T BELIEVE MY WORDS ??? I THOUGHT THAT'S HOW I SATISFY WOMEN SO "I mean ... LONG AND SLOWLY ...... FROM THIS MOMENT HE RELAXED .... IIIIIIIIIIIII ALREADY AS HE CAME TO US ... I WAS QUICK ... SLOW AND GENTLE ... AGAIN IN SYNCHRONOUS ... WE BOTH ALWAYS END TOGETHER TOGETHER .... HE IS TERRIBLY SATISFIED ..... NO WORDS !!! I AM VERY SEXY, BUT I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM !!! EVEN IF I AM SEXY, HE HAS ABSTAINED BECAUSE OF ME AND OTHER WOMEN !!!!! AND FROM WHAT I TOLD HIM, LOOK AT YOURSELF !!! SEX IS THE TOP !!! FAST SEX /, WHICH IS VERY HEALTHY /, WAS SLOW AND GENTLE. MY HUSBAND WATCHED ME FOR THE FIRST TIME !!! I TEACHED HIM TO LOOK AT HIMSELF AND GET A GREAT SYNCHRON !!! FOR 14 YEARS.
For things to happen to you that have never happened to you, you have to do things that you have never done. ~ Makaveli
There is another option - just to attract ... boys. In principle, women with a "perverse" type of radiation do just that. Some children (sexually speaking) who still have no control over their body, or don't even want one. Do you believe that if it were the opposite - mature and experienced (in sex AGAIN) he will look for you after his 5 minutes, in which, I believe, you did not feel pleasure? It is precisely those underdeveloped and selfish children. * Be careful what you wish for - 1 hour shake-shake-shake that after a while you will catch tics. : D