A year ago I met a boy, we started going out, of course, with his friends, we were going to party all night. It was very nice ... but then I just perceived it as one of the company. We started writing to each other on Skype, he wrote to me every day, about all sorts of things ... we also had serious conversations, but mostly jokes ... I could write to him all day. I started to feel closer to him ... he became very nice to me. My feelings got worse every day .. I went to bed thinking about him .. I woke up thinking about him. Because I know that my chances of being with him are very small, I tried to suppress these feelings. Well, I succeeded, but for a short time..then I wanted him even more .. I did not have the courage to admit to him how I felt and things continued as before. Gradually we stopped going out, I rarely saw him, but at least we kept texting on skype ... and so for almost a year. Since I know him, he has not had a girlfriend ... he is still alone, and so many girls want him. I think he has feelings for my best friend, who doesn't pay much attention to him, but just sees me as a friend ... nothing more. Now he has to go to work in another city, and I won't see him for months .. my heart is breaking ... he's always in my head .. all day, I just can't get him out of there, but as I saw him and something in me trembles ... just to see his smile and I become so happy, and he doesn't even know what a storm is in my heart and how it hurts to see him and not be able to hug and kiss ..... .. I know he appreciates me a lot, but I don't just want that. I'm ruining ... I can't recognize myself, I can't tell him, because I'm afraid we won't be able to talk like we used to, that it won't be the same. Now he's leaving and we won't hear from each other for months .. I don't want him to leave, it ruins me and I can't do anything .. Tell me how to forget him, I can't forget him, it's an impossible love and it hurts me and it burns from the inside ... I don't want to feel that feeling. How can I tell him that I love him ... I don't have that courage. You know: It's all games and jokes until one falls in love, and then I don't talk anymore ....... I don't have that courage. You know: It's all games and jokes until one falls in love, and then I don't talk anymore ....... I don't have that courage. You know: It's all games and jokes until one falls in love, and then I don't talk anymore .......
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Well, I don't have much experience, but from what I read, one thing is clear to me - you have to reveal your feelings to him. I know you girls almost never take the first step and that's very bad, but if you don't do it then you can be annoyed for a long time that you didn't do anything. Reveal yourself to him and this may even make him stay, and if he still leaves, at least you will no longer be just friends, but something more, and one day he will return to you. Success!
I know what it is :) Actually I'm experiencing it right now! But anyway. The only advice I can give you is to find courage (something I can't do) and reveal yourself to him. Better to cut you off than to whine and wonder what would have happened if you had been direct with him. Success! I will follow your story :) * Syndrome
Well, boy, invite him to go out alone, for a walk, for coffee, no matter where, as long as your story goes. Direct the conversation to love, relationships, etc. And don't forget to mention to him that it's good when he's close to you and you'll miss him when he leaves. So, subtle hints, if you don't want to reveal your feelings 100 percent. Men are sometimes able not to see something that is under our noses :) I guess he will feel what it is about, but does anyone know, you say that at first you perceived him just as one of the company, you do not know how to they perceive it after a month for example. I wish you luck. But
Bad job and I'm in such a situation is a little different, but I also burn an impossible love .. And I cut off a very good friend of mine and for 3 weeks we do not talk for some reason why;))) I think I should you tell him purely friendly about your feelings, if he is serious and you think he could understand you;) Good luck darling!
You definitely have a great chance to be with him. now I will share my opinion, and you as you choose. For as long as I can remember, I have been alone. I miss that one, my partner. You know when you come home to have someone to hug, to calm down to become a darling, to feel someone next to you. I'm on the other side. I am a boy who does not dare to reveal his heart to the girl of his life. Look, I don't stand a chance. We never talked to her about love. We have known each other since we were 6 years old. Our relationship wasn't very good then, and I don't know how it all grew into such love. Now I can't think of anyone but her, and that stops me from filling the gap. I have my hands tied. Maybe I won't share it with her until we finish teacher, and everyone goes their own way. I can't go through rejection now. The problem is that we will be in the same class for another year. I am lonely, no matter how many people there are around me. a man without his partner does not live happily, no one just admits. He must be sad that he doesn't have a partner. Share your feelings now, there is no time to procrastinate. Maybe that's what he's waiting for.
Once you understand and write to each other, I think there is a chance "your impossible love". I think you should tell him directly how you feel, without hints, because very often hints confuse things even more. You must be afraid that he will cut you off or ruin your relationship, but think how you would feel if he felt the same way ?! Isn't it better to take a risk ?! If it's hard for you to gather courage, tell him on Skype - it's easier ... Or if you are left alone ... just kiss him (I did so, but in my case things with apo-complicated: D) Act boldly! Success :) Meg *
I do not understand this with the first step. It does not work. I've always thought that only children directly admit which girl / boy they like, and adults get things in a completely different way. Please those with past connections to share how things actually turn out :)
Number 7 and I am of this opinion.
This guy seems to be gay and that's why he doesn't want you
He's not gay: D I'm sure ... but I don't know how to tell him
from the author things are still the same, even though another year has passed ...