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It's As If I'm Still Waiting For The Girl To Take The First Step ...

By sams18uk October 02, 2020 2 answers Last updated October 02, 2020

Hello. My problem (if it is a problem at all) is that I don't know how to use my opportunities with girls (women). I am 22 years old and without sounding arrogant, but it has never been difficult for me to take off the girls, especially the older ones. Now, however, it seems that I still expect the girl to take the first step and talk to me or flirt, and now 22 non-whore women like the boy to be the initiator. I realize this is a bit of a moldy expectation on my part, but I don't know why I'm doing it. It's like I'm too proud to go and talk to a girl. On the other hand, many women (just girlfriends and more intimate) have told me that they are "afraid" to talk to me because I look intimate and I will not respond with interest. And the most ironic thing is that every time a woman starts flirting with me, I pretend to be untouchable, and in the end I go home alone again. Otherwise, aside from the appearance that I can be with a different woman every night and I don't know why those around me (my friends) still think. It's like someone cursed me ...

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chloecatnip answered · October 02, 2020

   You are to blame for the situation and the way you respond to women (that you pretend to be untouchable). Well, if you don't want to, why are you pretending ???? Instead of leaving with a nice girl, you nail yourself. Well, are you cooler for yourself ?? I'm sorry if I'm too critical, but you want advice, I'm 22 (non-whore woman). And I've never liked men like you. Sometimes I took the first step, not that On the contrary, think about the fact that in some way you repel women, you don't think you are very proud or that you are the best. There is always someone better than you.

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spaceinvaderzz answered · October 02, 2020

   I totally agree with number 1, I've personally come across this type of boy and believe me, my friend, it's quite selfish - given that he even went on a date with another girl, because I got angry and also I made it bloated to give it back to him. My advice is, if you really like a girl, don't pretend to be arrogant, because then only you will regret it, good luck!