Hello! I am a girl of 14, from a small town. My mother is a teacher with 3 higher educations. He has been working at the local high school for 10 years and his salary is about 600 leva. She has generally taught economics through computer science to English. This year there were two eighth graders with intensive English language instruction, as only she could take a big hour out of those classes (the previous lady came out on maternity leave in a year and a half) took 12 hours from one class and 10 hours from the other. Wow, only 600 leva for 22 hours a week, right? We have always had a "gentleman" in English, they say he is too young to take these classes (rather he is too lazy to move his ass, with an apology, so he is a man of 30 years !!! ), so we have always, but absolutely always been very afraid of this gentleman, I don't know why, maybe that was his fame, but I don't know how, because it literally looks like a soft wrist. I think that after the first class he had (they hated him a hell of a lot, as we did, but I don't know why we listen to him and we're afraid of him, and they always did it for nothing) he became this disgusting monster. , which I don't know why EVERYONE in this shitty, miserable city gets fat, it's like he's a king or I don't know what, if he had money - well, I understand, if he had power, I still understand, but he's some kind of jerk from which is all they fear. He is also my 5th grade teacher, and this year I was 8th grade and my mother taught me 12 hours and he taught me 4. I was sick of being listened to as if he were a god and my mother was making her for two cents, after she kindly let the students learn something from her, and that drone is sitting on Facebook and Skype in class, he lets us do some exercises in the textbook, and he tugs in the headphones and listens to something. I don't know how such a person inspires respect for someone. I really didn't enjoy it this year and I was planning to move to a slightly bigger city next year, not far from mine, but today something literally disgusting happened. In principle, our stupid headmistress is constantly attached to this "gentleman", she is allowed to shout at her while she has shrunk the corner, but this is "normal", isn't it ... So today I came home a little earlier from mom and as always I went to bed to watch TV. She came back a little after me, crying. I didn't ask her what had happened, I decided to let her cry to Grandma and Daddy first, and then to tell me, but only if she decided it was important to know. Well, about half an hour later she came and told me she quit her job, because the aforementioned maternity teacher is back and can't do anything (um, sorry, but she shouldn't be back until September, why the hell is she coming back 10 days before the end of the year, maybe to make a mess of Mom, they never liked her because she was always better than our whole teaching staff and she always knew more, she could do more, she went to many more places around the world, just like me, maybe they hate me for that) . I was very sick, so my mother was one of the best prepared teachers in her field, and they should treat her like garbage, as always. It was clear some time ago that there is nothing to do here, in this city everyone is intriguing, but something else keeps us - grandparents, we can not leave them alone, they are old people and can not cope alone . I have always said that we should move to a bigger city. I have no problem, I will always find friends, no matter how much I miss the old ones. It's not that she left of her own free will that made me sick because there are so many, really many other English teachers in our high school, but that she should be fired because she is the most ambitious. I don't understand what kind of people these are, guided only by money. I'm very annoyed. Another thing that weighs on me is my class. Ah, this class, I hate it, they're all kind of bloated muffins with confidence in the sky, but no cover. Wow, everyone is so disgusting and dumb that there's nowhere else to go and they hate me for mom because I wrote them couples sometimes, but sorry 1st I have nothing to do with these grades and 2nd as they talk in class, they play on phones and so on will suffer the consequences. I only have one friend in the class and she can't be called that, I just hang out with her because I don't have anyone else. I'm dumb on the other hand, because I started to get used to this class (most people here are from my former class and we were inseparable, but when the muffins appeared and my "best friends" left me and became artificial, ugly and dumb, I can't recognize them anymore) and it would be dumb for me to get used to a new school with brand new people, a huge school, etc. I don't know what to do. My mom told me not to worry and that she would be fine and find a new, better job, but I know she says it just to reassure me. In fact, I'm going to handle the new situation, I'm just wondering how we're going to do it financially, because Daddy has only one bookstore that doesn't make much money, and now that her mother is unemployed, she will be given only BGN 300-400 per month by the labor office. Also, what I forgot to say is that I sing, I really sing very well, but they never took me seriously, they always waved me when I want to sing something, the answer from our only music teacher is: '' I'm not sure about you , sorry, but you haven't said yourself on stage in a long time. '', I'm sorry, but how can I get on stage after they don't let me in ... Exactly in this city, everyone is intriguing, thank you for your attention. PS Please, admins, let this story go, because I'm very nervous ... when I want to sing something, the answer from our only music teacher is: '' I'm not sure about you, I'm sorry, but you haven't said yourself on stage for a long time. '', I'm sorry, but how can I get on stage after they don't let me in ... Everyone in this city is intriguing, thank you for your attention. PS Please, admins, let this story go, because I'm very nervous ... when I want to sing something, the answer from our only music teacher is: '' I'm not sure about you, I'm sorry, but you haven't said yourself on stage for a long time. '', I'm sorry, but how can I get on stage after they don't let me in ... Exactly in this city, everyone is intriguing, thank you for your attention. PS Please, admins, let this story go, because I'm very nervous ...
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If you move to a bigger city, let your mother start teaching in a more elite school, even if it is possible to be in an art school, but I don't know which city you will move to and what schools there are. I study at an art school and all the simplicity, superficiality, frivolity, great self-confidence without coverage, etc. are minimized. However, people of the arts are at a higher level, and children in general know their place, have some respect for teachers and aim to develop the specialty they study. It will be perfect for you too, because you want to do singing. If they don't need teachers there, let your mother study the schools in the city and check where the children are better, because you know that some schools are supposed to be "elite", but when you go there, it actually turns out that it is not. just like that. Success!
Child, not in this city of yours, in the whole of Bulgaria it is like that. The law of the jungle "the stronger eats the weaker" is already in full force! That's it! Learn to be strong, ... one day you will have to "bite" and you, if not, you will be crushed. Your mother is an adult, she will cope. You are not burdened with so much negativity. It is good that you support it, you protect it. There is nothing better than a cohesive family. And you obviously have it. So, you are really lucky;))) One can save on food, electricity or clothes, but when there is support and love at home, everything else is secondary. Stop being angry because of the poor brains of some of you, and rejoice in what you have!
Personally, I, from the whole story, did not understand who is the arrogant one? Who, of all people in your entire small town, owes you something to your family? I understand, it's not nice for your mother to lose her job, but she still knew she was in this replacement job. For a salary there is also something to comment on 22 working hours a week are 4 days 4 hours and one day 6 hours a week? For 4 hours of working day, how much salary do you expect your mother to take? Or take a big salary because of the many diplomas in your country? On the other hand, you are looking for an excuse for your behavior in the face of your mother. The children don't hate you for your mother, they hate you. No couple can beat a good friendship, but if the friendship is not there at all, any couple can be the reason for its absence in your eyes. You tell what happened, but it doesn't show from your story, what do you think should have happened so that people don't look impudent in your eyes? One can only assume that in your opinion the school management should have kept your mother at work and not taken the old teacher, who has been a mother until now? Isn't that insolence on your part? Don't you think of the young mother who will be left without a salary if your mother is detained? What about the baby you want to leave with an unemployed mother? Do you think the children should have been your friends despite your own behavior and despite the fact that your mother is the teacher who writes couples? They just have to, don't they, and if they don't, they're insolent? Maybe I'm brazen now that I'm not defending you and I have a different opinion from yours? But you are no longer small and it is time to realize that no one in this life owes you anything. It's time to realize that life is a struggle for both work and true friends. And you can't blame people for being rude when you're on the losing side. This is life, you just keep fighting forward looking for a new job or looking for new people for friends but know when you find them you have to constantly fight to keep them. Good luck and stop getting angry at people they are innocent in this case.
Number 3 get blown up! First, do you know what it's like to be a teacher these days? Do you know what those 22 hours are? Do you know how they make money? Do you know how insulting it is to take BGN 420 for them? Do not know. At least from what you wrote I judge. And you could give a shoulder to the girl. It is at an age where it is easier to impress. And to be honest, to think about his mother, about reality, rather than pretending to be a muffin and drooling like his classmates. Author, I understand your pain very well. My mother was also a teacher and as such she is retiring, I am also a teacher now and I know very well what it is about. I will tell you only one thing - you and I cannot change the system, we cannot change public opinion and thinking, and all we have to do is live our lives as we see fit. You will move to a bigger city, your mother will find a job, be it something other than teaching. I sincerely wish her. You will find new friends and hopefully a more normal environment. Think good things and they will happen to you :) Good luck and have a nice summer!