Hello. I am a boy of 16, very confused. Unsure of what I want. I do not feel sexual attraction to the opposite sex. Of course, you can guess that I'm aroused by the male sex. I didn't want it and I don't force the fact that maybe (probably) I'm gay. I don't think being gay is a bad thing either, but I don't know how others would perceive it. I would very much like to have a boyfriend (girl), but unfortunately something doesn't work out and even if a girl ever falls in love with me when the time comes in bed, what will I do? I just don't know ... I go to school and still I'm sociable and I have a good friend who talks to me constantly about girls (look at her ass, isn't she arousing?) Accordingly, I answer around or I make an impression on a lot of people. interested, etc. I like girls, but they do not attract me sexually I can not say that I am proud of who I am and I hope that you do not reproach me but that you advise me even if you are hetero / bi sexual. I am very much asking the moderators to publish this story of mine because it is very real and I need help. I just want to know what to do in the future. (Thanks in advance :)) Also if someone wants to talk / sign with me if they can leave contacts. Thanks again ....
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There is nothing wrong with being homo, I am too, but the problem is that in Bulgaria homosexuality is not well accepted in society. But don't worry about being yourself. In the end, no one chooses anything, and he doesn't think about the problems in bed until now. I'm glad if I helped you :)
Accept yourself as you are. Different people, different preferences. Look for others with your sexual orientation and do not worry about anything. I know it's easier in words, I realize it, but I really have no other way to help you. And you are happy .. so many such topics, and you are 1 of I do not know how much, which is accepted, does not impose and does not dramatize. When you are different, things are more complicated, but when you realize that you are not so different, everything becomes easier. Good luck, I sincerely hope it gets easier over time. :))
I am also a homo, although a woman and I support you. I will be happy on your behalf if you find an environment in which they understand.
:) I'm grateful for your support, but I don't know how much I want to be accepted as I may be. I wonder if there is no chance for change, if I can't just adjust my mind so that I don't think about boys. Even if there is no chance, the end of the world has not come :)
hey listen to your heart and not your mind :)