My problem will probably seem very stupid but it is really unbearable. I am 15 years old and I am 180 cm tall! I've been so since I was 12 and thank God I haven't uploaded since, but even if I don't crack anymore I don't know what I'm going to do. It has always been a big problem for me, before going to school when I was walking down the hall I only heard a horse, a hose, a giraffe, some animal sounds and to put it mildly. I didn't want to leave the house, I developed such complexes, every time I heard someone laughing or smiling I was always sure that they were making fun of me. I started to bend my legs, to bend over, to wear terribly uncomfortable painful shoes just because they were very low. But in the last 2 years my classmates started to grow up and even in the class came 2 girls who were taller than me, and my best friend became no more than 2-3 cm shorter. And in fact, I enjoyed going to school, even though I still feel extremely ugly and repulsive. Even if it is not so now, I have experienced such harassment every day, not only mentally, there was a period in which it became physical that I am now sure that even 300 kilograms will have more self-confidence than mine. About a year ago, I got stretch marks (not because I'm overweight or anything, I'm even too skinny) on my breasts because they grew a lot in a very short time. They are not who knows what with a blouse with a neckline to be invisible you have to look (at least that's what a friend told me) but I know they are there and they respond to me. And here is the problem I decided to write about. About 3 months ago we moved to England and here at least everyone is educated and at school thank God no one insults me (there are regular comments about growth, but at least they are not insults) but here without any exaggeration all the girls are the same height and he is about 1, 58-9cm. I stand above everyone, like Gulliver. At least a few of the complexes that had slowly but surely returned are returning. Please tell me some way to make me feel better that I now feel like a circus freak.
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Better higher than lower;)
you are you :) recently I watched a video on youtube in which they interviewed a model of victoria secret. The words? were the same. She often heard mockery as she walked down the school corridors and was absolutely the tallest. She had big complexes, and look at her now! She walks on the catwalk and everyone wants her legs and body in general ... what can I tell you, things are changing! Success! :))
1.80 is not so much ... will the two-meter boys look for girls at 1.60? It's funny to see such a couple. And so you don't think I'm just trying to be nice, look at it from the other side. Taller girl = longer legs. So what man can mind that?
Well, what can I say, I'm 13 and I'm 1. 60 tall, but everyone calls me short because they're half a nail bigger than me. But I don't care, I'm who I am !!! I train, play sports and everything. So, don't complain that you are tall. Come on, good health!
everyone is a freak in their own way, everyone has pros and cons, it is important to show people and your other traits to make friends, you can be a freak but you are their freak who is their friend who they love and respect. If someone doesn't accept you as you are, you don't need them
There is a girl in my teacher, she is 10th grade and she is approximately 2 meters (I'm not kidding). But she walks around and doesn't care. Don't care what they say behind your back. There will always be stories. Everyone is different, we cannot be the same. Some are low, others are high. Some weak others - full. Don't you think how stupid it would be if we were all 1. 65 - 50 kg? That's why everyone has a different taste. Be glad that you are different from others, do not accept it as a disadvantage.
Hhaha some people pray to be tall and you to be short. Girl you can become a model or a super model that's great!
There is no reason to feel bad and develop complexes. There are short and tall girls, not everyone can be the same height. And in just a few years, be sure that no one will make fun of you, because these jokes are currently child's play. At school, some people make fun of him for being tall, others for being short, others for being fat or thin, for others for having big ears and all sorts of things, but when you get a little older, you will see that he is quite different.
So what if you're tall? There is nothing wrong with that, and it's not your fault !! People of all heights can be beautiful - facial features, figure, not height are important. I was also ridiculed for my height, only I'm 154. But am I to blame? I started playing sports and I improved my figure, no one insults me anymore, just for fun, but I often see how they look at me. So, if you have a nice figure, nice face and good character, don't care at all what they say ... it can often be out of envy. If they start with offensive comments again, make it a joke and that's it. I know girls who are as tall as you, they were very pretty. Don't worry, like yourself!
Like yourself the way you are. If the parable made you like that, then it should have. And in my opinion, to be very tall!
I'm 1.75 tall and I've been insulted too - how much I've been affected is just not true, but I don't care at the moment. Accept yourself as you are. And I stick out above everyone most of the time, but what can I do ... you don't have to spend your life with things that burden you!
You are different from them..What's wrong with that?
You are different from them, so what? This can only make you happy.
I'm pretty short. But I think being tall is awfully beautiful. I have never mocked anyone for this because it is pointless !!!
Once you accept your shortcomings, no one can use them against you:); )
I like tall girls! Every girl is beautiful in her own way no matter high or low! It is quite sad that most are divided into high and low, weak and full.
I'm 14 and I'm 1.77 :) And they called me a giraffe and what of it? At one time I was affected, and at the moment I don't care at all! To this day, there are people who make fun of me for it. But the people who love you will not care that you are older than everyone or something like that .. they will like you because of yourself, not because of some size: D So ... Don't take it to heart!
I'm very short and my best friend is very tall. Standing next to me is like a mother to me haha; D In a sense, it's good that you've found people who perceive you. For example, I don't care that it sticks out over me or over most of it and it's charm :) That's exactly what makes you different somehow
And I'm above all quite awkward: DDD But what to do now we are like that. Some are high others low hah. In a sense, we should not spend our whole lives looking at our shortcomings. In fact, it is not a shortcoming. It is somewhat, but there is a good side - the same for the low!
Look at it from the good side of things! There are many taller than you
Dear girl, why don't you sign up to train volleyball or basketball? There, growth is an advantage, it may even turn out that you are not tall enough :-))) Your teammates will be of your caliber and you will not feel like Gulliver, and when you improve your self-confidence it will only come :-)
Dear author, make fun of them, that they are the little ones ... What's so great, try yourself as a model, then see what anger the little ones will feel. Don't worry about stretch marks. Your skin is obviously predisposed to them and with the changes in your body they have appeared. Now that you know that you can have more, take measures with special cosmetics, it will not remove them, but if the skin is properly hydrated, I hope you do not have more, that in a possible pregnancy, your skin may look like a moon surface. Fuck everyone, keep them alive and well! Watch the world above their heads !!! :)
The fact that you seem to be the center of attention can be a mental disorder - social phobia, paranoia or something similar that is a better option than everything you say about yourself to be a reality.
I am small and it was very complex for me to stand near a much taller person, especially if she is a girl. Here I sang to the maximum, in a desperate attempt to "bring" another centimeter, here I shrank, so as not to be noticed at all. Over time, I learned to like myself, even to take advantage of my height. when something is high for me, he extends his hand and a man gives me whatever I want next to mine. sometimes I even pretend I'm not there .... it depends on who's around to help me;)))) The little ones ... um, maybe a lot like me quickly learn to use this positively;))) I've noticed that over time the higher ones acquire a self-confident view of the type "I am high and I don't need anyone" which is also a kind of manipulation. I want to say that it depends on you how those around you will accept you, on what you broadcast. If you behave like a weak victim, weaker brains will use you for a "trash can" Turn what you consider a defect into an effect! Raise your head proudly, sing to your full height and smile. those who tease you .... just look at them alternately from top to bottom and vice versa. This has a depressing effect on us little ones. If you feel better, cut once: Surely there is a reason for you to be ... shorter (emphasize the word) than me! It's nasty, but at least they'll leave you alone If you feel better, cut once: Surely there is a reason for you to be ... shorter (emphasize the word) than me! It's nasty, but at least they'll leave you alone If you feel better, cut once: Surely there is a reason for you to be ... shorter (emphasize the word) than me! It's nasty, but at least they'll leave you alone
I'm short, I'm 164 cm, and my friend is a little taller than me. My advice is not to worry so much about your height, and stretch marks almost all women have and unfortunately almost do not go away, but they do not bother me so much, nor my boyfriend. It is strange how people have always treated the different from them, but there is nothing wrong with the different, on the contrary. Make your "flaw" an advantage and ignore fools who are degraded enough to judge someone by their appearance. Besides, I'm sure at least most of them envy you.
Honey, I'm 17 and I'm 180-1 tall ... I'm taller than all the girls in the class and so what ?? the complexes regarding the high altitude are provoked by the envy of the low ones !! It is much better to be tall as a model, you are different from the others ... YOU ARE NOTICABLE !! And those who comment are just jealous! believe me .. so head up! not everyone is lucky to be tall and thin, / and with a good bust size /! You only have reasons for high self-esteem! I don't understand why you get so complex? !?
Every time you think you're tall, remember that one of the requirements to become a professional model is to be over 1.80 meters. Are they ugly?
Height is the smallest problem, you don't care. In general, even girls who are taller are considered "stronger" because they have longer legs, and there is nothing sexier than a long, cool female leg. And those who spit on you, probably envy that they are butt plugs while you are tall, slender and beautiful :) F20, 1. 60 tall; D
I read the comments and I can't believe how many limited people there are. Since when is being tall considered a disadvantage and something abnormal that was very different? Are you serious? I am 1.75 and wherever I have traveled outside Bulgaria I have always received many compliments for my long legs, only in Bulgaria people make fun of people like us. Here people are massively short, especially men, it is normal for them to kill their complexes on you, dear author, but you have nothing to worry about. I'm sure you're beautiful, so always walk with your head held high and don't be impressed by what people say. You learn not to live for people's opinions.
eh you are ideal for me I am 1.85 to 15 boys: D
Don't complain that you are tall, some of my classmates are 1.30, and we are 5th grade !!!!
From the author: I haven't thought about this topic for a long time, thank you very much for the comments. Some of them actually helped me a lot and gradually I try to get used to my height and I think I succeed :)