Hello, in short, my story is so sexual, I've been with a boy for 10 months now, we sleep together, we go left and right nooo .. but I fell in love with him, I really love him .. and he knows it, he accepts it But she tells me that she doesn't see anything different from the other girls ... which is not the case (in my opinion). I don't date other guys, I don't even write to others, he knows my phone password, I do absolutely everything in front of him, I show him to be sure so that he can more or less realize that I'm his girl and that I won't hurt him and surrender. And with him is that the girls have always fucked him and hurt him and now de facto "Everyone is the same" is yes, but no. He admitted to me that he was afraid .. he was afraid to relax Sometimes he treats me very badly, he made me cry a lot of times,
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Run. This person may be wonderful, but he is not yet ready for a relationship and is not able to give himself to you. There is no fairy tale in which the good girl changes the bad boy and makes him enter the road. Such things rarely happen in real life. You can be glad that you came across a man who is at least honest with you and admits that he was hurt and no longer has faith in the female class. He will overcome the problem, one day he will recover and he will be able to start a serious relationship. Pain is inevitable in love, she hasn't missed him either, but that doesn't mean he has to hurt women now who really care about him. In the name of your good, leave it. You will not get what you want at this stage.
I bet the problem with his former relationship was him, not the women in question who "hurt" him. Many men immediately after a relationship shrink into a new one so that they can get support and attention, and if they can get rid of their former demon - ideal. He does not want you, but what you give him. Have you heard of narcissistic disorder and relationships with such people? Please pay tribute on the topic, both in English and in Bulgarian. There is a lot of literature that will help you understand what is happening to you and why I am talking about it. In general, these people look at you this way: - You are perfect = At this moment, I like everything about you and with you, you are doing it right. - You are insufficient = At this moment you do things so that they do not suit me and I do not get what I need to feed my self-esteem. Honors,
He is not unique, but a manipulator. He plays and watches results. You fell in love and became entangled. No one has an excuse to be rude to someone! And don't justify it, you have girlfriends go out with someone and then ask her to give you an opinion, as a bystander. She will see things you can't.
I recommend Susan Torres' book, Men Who Hate Women and Women Who Love Them.
Well, get away from him, flirt a little with someone in front of him in two words, make him jealous. In this case, he will either understand that he wants you and only now realizes it, or he just really doesn't care about you and you don't need him.
Thank you for the comments .. but I really can't leave him, I don't want I have no one but him .. my family is very far away, my father died 10 months ago only he is me ..