And so, dear girls, what are you constantly grumbling about, that men were what you are You choose us for yourself. Someone makes you drag yourself around with idiots? I live in a small town and you can say that everyone knows everyone. Well, it's not true, but in general ... There is a girl I like very much. She is beautiful and does not suffer from a lack of interest from men. It is not easy, however. For 10-12 years she had 3 relationships. Yes, but ... The first one did not allow her to move anywhere without him, even if she drank a coffee with friends. She beat her steadily. I have seen her beautiful face so much. bruised that efforts to cover it up with a lot of makeup and other ointments were in vain. When I found out that she had somehow broken away from him, I met her and invited her for coffee. However, she did not want to. I was late. He already had another one. However, I understood that he often insulted her. He only hurt her verbally, not physically. The idiot went to prostitutes while he had this beautiful girl for a girlfriend. She broke up with him after about a year and a half. This time, however, I invited her out again and she agreed, but only in the presence of a mutual acquaintance, because she was worried. And so we drank the three coffees and talked. I behaved absolutely normally, I didn't question her much (she's shy, isn't she) so that she doesn't think she was cross-examined :) She did well. I decided to wait a day or two and call her and invite her to go out alone. However, I go to a disco the next night and watch the shy woman kissing some oligophrenic. A shaggy, bearded, fickle super ugly guy. I was so dumb I can't describe. I turned my back, but it was too late because he saw me. Dumb, dumb, but I decided to call her the next day. I apologized for not greeting her because I saw that there is company and I did not want to intrude. She just said, "I'm fine." I wanted to say something like, "He took me down, but I don't like him." Alas, it disappeared. I asked her how she was again: -I'm fine. We talked a bit on general topics and I wished her a nice day. Worse could not pass the conversation I think. It didn't just work out. However, after 3 weeks the information reached me that something had not happened with that guy. I thought - there is a god. I called and we talked, I invited her to go out of course. She refused. And she was studying and there were really exams for me and her. I decided to let her prepare for the exams and just texted her. I asked her how she was, I wished her success with the preparation, etc. The session ended, I called again and he refused me again. I don't remember what he said, but it seemed plausible. We met by chance and talked quite normally. She didn't avoid me. I started calling her again, but she didn't pick up anymore. I called often, but he didn't like to talk to me, and I finally gave up. Now I see her going out with a drunk. I'm not talking by heart, he's a drunk. Girls who know him say he is a complete idiot. In addition, the teeth left in his mouth are black. I want to explode. I'm a normal fucking person. With education, a good job, I play sports. I always treat women properly. I have a lot of friends too. I drink very rarely without overdoing it and I smoke within reason, I will even soon give up smoking because it is incompatible with sports. I'm not saying I'm perfect on the contrary. Everyone has their weaknesses, but if I can't win a girl who knows that I really like her, but to prefer to be beaten, insulted and treated badly with her, I can't accept it. And I'm wondering what to do now. Should I become like the other oligophrenics and have a girlfriend? It's been a long time, but I can write for hours and give examples of how stupid it is to yell at sweet girls that men are not a commodity, but think about it, because you (don't) choose us. I constantly read stories about injured girls in love from drug addicts, drunken women and all sorts of losers. I laugh when I read something like: -He drinks a lot and does not take care of the child, otherwise he is decent and I love him. It's your own fault, so don't complain that I'm tired of fools !!! Have a happy holiday and hopefully improve your judgment. because you choose me. I constantly read stories about injured girls in love from drug addicts, drunken women and all sorts of losers. I laugh when I read something like: -He drinks a lot and does not take care of the child, otherwise he is decent and I love him. It's your own fault, so don't complain that I'm tired of fools !!! Come happy holidays and hopefully improve your judgments. because you choose me. I constantly read stories about injured girls in love from drug addicts, drunken women and all sorts of losers. I laugh when I read something like: -He drinks a lot and does not take care of the child, otherwise he is decent and I love him. It's your own fault, so don't complain that I'm tired of fools !!! Have a happy holiday and hopefully improve your judgment.
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I think you are absolutely right, but not all girls are like that. You just came across girls who do not know what they want. One day you will find the girl for you, I'm sure, do not despair. Good luck. ;) Flowers
(You're right when he drinks and beats you, leave him, look for someone else, because don't explain that there are no decent girls and boys, there are but you should look for more and after someone beats you to run away from him immediately, even if you love each other, If he touches you once, he will do it again.) Regarding the roaring girls, it's not funny that they cry - not to mention that there are a lot of roaring men - I've personally seen them cry in front of my eyes - I'm a girl and I don't find it funny, nto strange to cry - it is easier when they hurt you deeply !!!
Well, I'm right to tell you. So I chose to be alone until I find someone who doesn't fight, doesn't drink (one bottle a day prophylactically), and so on. Happy holidays to you too!
Well, you're right! I am a girl of almost 17 years. from a small town and I only come across drug addicts, garbage, etc. I can't make a decent long-term relationship; (I want to be able to share the things of life with my loved one, but alas, it's not going the way I want. It's really our fault, we choose them and we just believe that he will change. for the chick, she obviously didn't deserve you .. there are more girls don't despair! I wish you to find yours :) And don't forget that miracles happen at Christmas; )
And what are you writing about, who cares, to some friend and beat her ... Such under the road and over the road, millions of beauties, for everyone beauty is in different things. The women in this room are grumbling, and aren't you grumbling now?
Well done, how did you summarize! On this site I had written something like: "When a man treats the woman next to him like garbage, beats her, humiliates her, cheats on her, she runs after him and hangs on his neck, repeating how much she loves him and how he's the only one. world at her feet, they are lazy, incompetent and boring "Think very well, dear women, of what I say and of what the boy wrote:" ... you choose us yourself. Someone will force you to drag yourself with idiots ... "
A bow to the author of the post, as well as to number 6 !!! Just to mention that I'm not very deep in love and I have no experience in life in general - I'm only 9th grade. That day we had a topic about the differences between a man and a woman in a psychology class. There a girl muttered why the boys didn't understand her feelings. Well, I told her, if you can't solve your problems ALONE, why do you live?!?
I support the boys. In general, they are very straight, of course not for all women but there are many. That, even men are like that. Most men, for example, like women who listen to them and don't talk much. I personally am bored with such .... then my head hurts amaa ... :)))) It is very bad person without character and own opinion. Ralph
I agree, but not completely .... And I, like you, can talk about this topic for days, I experienced too much, I came across quite bad and dishonest people, but I think you have to agree that people in the beginning are some, and they show their true nature over time. Do you remember that in order to attract someone to you, it is necessary to be kind to them. And then you show your "horns". However, it is a little late, because you are already in love with this person and it is almost irrelevant how he treats you .... From my experience so far, I am convinced that we are subject to our heart .... And you saw, that this girl is not interested in you, why didn't you give up on her, and yet you waited for every convenient moment in which to look for her again and again .... Do you see that it is not so easy?
Look man and I'm convinced of the same, the better you are to a woman the more you will regret! I have already passed the principle of not respecting them much and there is an effect of a week I started to turn 2, 3
Well that's women are very different I'll just tell you one thing. NEVER TRY TO UNDERSTAND A WOMAN THERE IS NO WAY. IT HAS BEEN PROVEN THAT WOMEN HAVE 4-5 TIMES GREATER INTUITION AND ARE VERY CUNNING DO NOT TRY.
In my opinion, just good boys and girls are not so interesting. I'm a boy and just the good sensitive girls who sit at home read romance novels, go to yoga and would be willing to do anything for me because they love me, they don't attract me ... I guess the situation with women is no different . But maybe women expect their husbands to change and when they don't they are disappointed and therefore grumble until the men realize what they are getting into from the beginning and accept the consequences :)
Women love bad boys, but for a while, then they look for security, support
For women, bad boys are much more interesting. The others you can have when you want, they are ready for anything for you .... it's just you lose interest. But as number 13 said, it's all up to time .... Another issue is that if you marry a bad boy, hoping to change after marriage, the chances of ruining your life are high, then grumbling is all you can do. to do, because things are already complicated ...
Well, I'm a woman, I don't lack men's attention, but the bad guys don't attract me, so she's next to the man.
Are the bad guys interesting? From 13 to 19 may be a "big mystery" or the ladies here are infantile .. Number 10 did not respect them and turned 2.3? God forbid! How is everything categorized and things are black or white, all women either "they listen" or they play? There are no other options? This is not an action in which the good is clearly distinguished from the bad and whenever you include the film, you understand who is the positive character and who is the negative one! Doesn't the author have a terrible "judgment" and so far he has only come across mentally retarded individuals?
I want a boy who appreciates me and on the issue, if I had such a boyfriend to beat and humiliate me I would not sit with him;)
As unfortunate as it is, there are women who like (consciously or not) to hurt them :-(
If you could imagine how much I would like a boy like what the girl has missed .. you have no idea just..as about every person and I have allowed myself to be humiliated naturally, once was and was soon less than a month ago and I do not want more to deal with idiots. If anyone is worthy to write by e-mail: [email protected]
MY BOY, HOW CAN A PERSON RESPECT YOU AFTER YOU DON'T RESPECT YOURSELF ??? DO YOU KNOW WHEN I WILL RUN AFTER SUCH GARBAGE ??? YOU ARE PURSUING THEM / THE GARBAGE GIRLS /, YOU MAKE THEM FUN, BY PAYING YOUR ATTENTION TO THEM, AND AFTER THEY READ YOU A ROUND ZERO ??? DO YOU REJECT THEM ?? DIDN'T YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT GARBAGE YOU HAVE TO WORK WITH ??? YOU ARE STILL YOUNG TO EAT BREAD, BUT, ABOUT THE GIRLS, ????? MAY YOU FEEL THEM ??? Well, WHY DO YOU MISTAKE YOUR JUDGMENTS THEN ??? BE A MAN TOTALLY, NO, DON'T HUMILIATE YOURSELF.