Hello! Girl, 19 .. The truth is that lately I feel worse and lonelier. So far I haven't had a boyfriend, I haven't even kissed a boy. This weighs a lot on me because everyone around me has someone. When we get together with friends and we are a group, I am the only one without a partner. At first I kept telling myself that in time the right one would appear, that things would happen when the time came ... But alas, there is no development. It's harder for me to make new acquaintances and communicate with boys. Maybe in my quest to please them, I'm screwing things up. I'm not ugly, but I'm not claiming Miss World either. What I like most about myself is the big blue eyes, blond curls and breasts. Naturally, I have complexes caused by other parts of my body. Maybe that's where the key lies - these complexes do not allow me to relax completely. Sometimes I have the feeling that I will remain an old maid. I know you can't help me with a magic wand, but it's nice if someone reads my love torments. And not to mention the comment :))
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You are 19 years old. Now is the time to change boys, work, cities, meet new people and embark on new adventures. Life is ahead of you. And appearance is not a factor in a relationship. It creates only physical attraction. You may feel lonely after 26, for example, if you are still alone.
You are not an old girl, what are these stories !? Don't worry, you are only 19 years old, you have a whole life ahead of you. Where are you in a hurry? It is normal to weigh and think about it, because you are surrounded by couples in love, but do not overdo it and do not worry. No one is perfect, everyone has a defect that catches their eye and they don't like themselves. People around us rarely pay such attention to our defects. Some like fuller women, others thin. For some, a straight nose is repulsive, while others prefer it to a chip nose. There are passengers for every train, people have said that, and there is a lot of truth. Never worry that your body will repel a person you hold on to each other. Love is not like that and there is no disgust in passion either. Your thoughts are very extreme for your age. Go out with friends and talk freely with everyone. Either they will like you or they will not. It is not a pain to die. Rarely is someone so rude that they start attacking from the first greeting, so don't be afraid. To keep you calm, I will admit that every kiss with a new person is like a first kiss. You are excited, a little worried and sometimes very strange. It doesn't always go well the first time, probably the boy you will kiss for the first time will not understand at all that this is your first kiss. As for sex, I've only been with one person and I don't have the experience to tell you what it is. I was almost 19 years old, happy and I didn't hesitate. After that I felt wonderful and I never regretted it. I'm glad I hadn't done it before. My girlfriends, who lost their virginity at the age of 15, felt fear and then shame. They were afraid that their parents would understand, they doubted that they had done the right thing. They were afraid of getting pregnant, they were not fully aware of the precautions. These are the risks you take when you start having sex before you grow up emotionally. You are already big, sensible and understand that sex is just a part of life. Don't take it too deep. It's nice, yes, but it's even better when you feel it right and you don't have to worry. Don't suffer unnecessarily. And your time will come. You are now entering an age when boys are more understanding and sensible, they don't behave as much as kids. There are many who would even be glad that you have no previous experience. Read a little on the site, you will be convinced. Look at it comically, without malice towards the young boys and girls, tell yourself that you missed participating in a slimy scene between two teenagers on a bench :). Don't worry, everything will be fine, you're not old. they were not fully aware of the precautions. These are the risks you take when you start having sex before you grow up emotionally. You are already big, sensible and understand that sex is just a part of life. Don't take it too deep. It's nice, yes, but it's even better when you feel it right and you don't have to worry. Don't suffer unnecessarily. And your time will come. You are now entering an age when boys are more understanding and sensible, they don't behave as much as kids. There are many who would even be glad that you have no previous experience. Read a little on the site, you will be convinced. Look at it comically, without malice towards the young boys and girls, tell yourself that you missed participating in a slimy scene between two teenagers on a bench :). Don't worry, everything will be fine, you're not old. they were not fully aware of the precautions. These are the risks you take when you start having sex before you grow up emotionally. You are already big, sensible and understand that sex is just a part of life. Don't take it too deep. It's nice, yes, but it's even better when you feel it right and you don't have to worry. Don't suffer unnecessarily. And your time will come. You are now entering an age when boys are more understanding and sensible, they don't behave as much as kids. There are many who would even be glad that you have no previous experience. Read a little on the site, you will be convinced. Look at it comically, without malice towards the young boys and girls, tell yourself that you missed participating in a slimy scene between two teenagers on a bench :). Don't worry, everything will be fine, you're not old. when you start having sex before you grow up emotionally. You are already big, sensible and understand that sex is just a part of life. Don't take it too deep. It's nice, yes, but it's even better when you feel it right and you don't have to worry. Don't suffer unnecessarily. And your time will come. You are now entering an age when boys are more understanding and sensible, they don't behave like kids. There are many who would even be glad that you have no previous experience. Read a little on the site, you will be convinced. Look at it comically, without malice towards the young boys and girls, tell yourself that you missed participating in a slimy scene between two teenagers on a bench :). Don't worry, everything will be fine, you're not old. when you start having sex before you grow up emotionally. You are already big, sensible and understand that sex is just a part of life. Don't take it too deep. It's nice, yes, but it's even better when you feel it right and you don't have to worry. Don't suffer unnecessarily. And your time will come. You are now entering an age when boys are more understanding and sensible, they don't behave as much as kids. There are many who would even be glad that you have no previous experience. Read a little on the site, you will be convinced. Look at it comically, without malice towards the young boys and girls, tell yourself that you missed participating in a slimy scene between two teenagers on a bench :). Don't worry, everything will be fine, you're not old. Don't take it too deep. It's nice, yes, but it's even better when you feel it right and you don't have to worry. Don't suffer unnecessarily. And your time will come. You are now entering an age when boys are more understanding and sensible, they don't behave as much as kids. There are many who would even be glad that you have no previous experience. Read a little on the site, you will be convinced. Look at it comically, without malice towards the young boys and girls, tell yourself that you missed participating in a slimy scene between two teenagers on a bench :). Don't worry, everything will be fine, you're not old. Don't take it too deep. It's nice, yes, but it's even better when you feel it right and you don't have to worry. Don't suffer unnecessarily. And your time will come. You are now entering an age when boys are more understanding and sensible, they don't behave as much as kids. There are many who would even be glad that you have no previous experience. Read a little on the site, you will be convinced. Look at it comically, without malice towards the young boys and girls, tell yourself that you missed participating in a slimy scene between two teenagers on a bench :). Don't worry, everything will be fine, you're not old. who would even be glad that you have no previous experience. Read a little on the site, you will be convinced. Look at it comically, without malice towards the young boys and girls, tell yourself that you missed participating in a slimy scene between two teenagers on a bench :). Don't worry, everything will be fine, you're not old. who would even be glad that you have no previous experience. Read a little on the site, you will be convinced. Look at it comically, without malice towards the young boys and girls, tell yourself that you missed participating in a slimy scene between two teenagers on a bench :). Don't worry, everything will be fine, you're not old.
Emmy, if you have blue eyes and blond hair, it's very nice - you're very pretty. I guess you don't get along with men because you're looking for love, not sex. Come on, don't bother with nonsense, when it's written to you, you'll catch a boyfriend, nothing good will happen by force. Good day.
Thanks a lot for the comments. They helped me feel better because until now I had the feeling that something was wrong with me. Simply because I want to experience what my peers have already tried, but I can't go to bed with someone or kiss lightly ... Without feeling anything. I want it, but I don't want to feel like a rag. So I'll stay on the platform as long as it takes to wait for my train, haha.