Hi, I know I will not receive meaningful and positive comments, but I need help. 2 months ago I met a friend who was working on call back then, I love her very much and I care about her. Now we live together in another city and I didn't have enough money for anything, she had money every day, and I was "catching flies". Two weeks ago I started working as a prostitute, but not with her. For these 2 weeks I saw myself in a miracle and I still have no money. Now I want to give up and go home to ours, but I don't want to leave her. I have a feeling that something bad will happen to her, and she likes it that way. I am asking for advice.
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If she doesn't want to leave, you can't force her. And you go home to yours and think about your health and yourself.
ABE GIRL, HOW OLD? LEAVE YOUR FRIEND WHEN HE WANTS IT TO WORK. BETTER GO BACK TO YOURS.
Dear girl two weeks are not much life is ahead of you. Don't think anyone can blame you - I don't know if you know the story of Mary Magdalene - Jesus told those who wanted to stone her that only he who has no sin can raise his hand against her. It is good that you think about your girlfriend but she has made her choice and try to save her by denying her this dangerous life and not by condemning yourself to such an existence. I am sure that if you try you can find a decent job and live better to have a better future - a family of children ... I wish you to find your way in life and make the right choice - the best for you to you are happy. Fate sends us difficulties and we must be strong to overcome them. There are worse things than being a prostitute for 2 weeks - you didn't hurt anyone, you only hurt yourself. I wish you success.
It's good that you realized not to go on. Try talking to her to stop, but you don't go on. Remind her that if she is now (maybe 20 years old), in time she will not be that old and will not be able to turn back time.
What are you selling like that girls? I also don't have a big income, but I didn't go to become a bandit or a thief. After all, we live a life and we have to live it with dignity, right!?!
Just go home to yours and save your life! Your girlfriend will take an example from you!
You've made the right decision ... to go home, and if your girlfriend doesn't want to and she likes it that way, that's her problem ... or rather her life, and once she's decided she wants to live it OK, but that doesn't mean you have to keep going because of it. It is commendable that you are such a good friend and you think about her, but shouldn't you think about yourself first .......
"forced beauty does not happen" :) and you try to give up quickly while you can that I know that then it sinks a lot !!
Run while you can because then there is no escape!
Well, girlfriend, girlfriend, but the bottom you see that you get there quickly. And again, the money is not enough. Take your luggage with your sweet girl.
Well ... it may sound silly, but I think if you threaten her that you tell her parents about the things she does, she will have no choice but to go with you ... Maybe there will be quarrels, but if you're so worried about her, I think that would be (even if it sounds childish) a good solution to your problem. Otherwise, if that doesn't work in the end, as selfish as it sounds, think first of yourself and then of others. And your girlfriend, if she has managed so far, will continue to do it and probably, if there is any problem, you will be the first to know :) Good luck and I hope you make the right decision! :))
There is no advice for this. You just have to act on your conscience. It is no coincidence that there is a saying "what you get together with - you become" ... This is what we are talking about. Either you want it and you do it, or you give up and start a whole new life. You can't get in the mud and not get dirty. It's just up to you to sell your soul or save yourself. You have no responsibility for your so-called girlfriend. She chooses how to live. And excuse me, but it seems to me that you are not convinced enough that you do not like it ..... and you are looking for reasons to justify your presence with your girlfriend. You say yourself that she likes it. Be sure that if he manages to keep you by his side, you will get into incredible mess and it will be very difficult for you to return to your normal worldviews and understandings. FORMER DRUG ADDICTS, FORMER ALCOHOLISTS AND FORMER PROSTITUTES ARE NOT - and that's very scary. I wish you luck and keep your heart and soul pure. Don't allow yourself to be weak.
What are you interested in your girlfriend ?! Do you even know what you're talking about? I became a prostitute in two weeks - you are either a prostitute or not, the fact that you are greedy for money and nice rags is another. question .. Everyone chooses the path to follow, no one can be an obstacle to others. Either you leave this "teacher" of yours (who gave you a good example) or you don't. The point is that I think you like the life of an elite or not so elite whore, because if you wanted to leave you would do it without wondering, right ?!
I returned home 10 days ago, my mother enrolled me in computer courses so I could find a good job. I will never repeat this mistake and I will never let anyone know how I made my living. Your comments more or less made me think about my life and what I saw I did not like at all. Maybe soon I'll write a story like "two weeks as a companion" and describe in it the things that happen while you're doing this. I'm sure there are girls who are interested in understanding the lives of prostitutes, but I'm sure they won't like it at all. God, I hope there aren't more girls like me, but there will be and always will be.
Congratulations! Congratulations! Come on, live your life with dignity now!
If you can help your girlfriend. However, if she does not want to, save yourself. Think for yourself. Is it worth ruining your life for her?
You're a weak girl ... tighten up and start thinking! Find a job and start living a normal life! This is the dumbest thing you could do! How can you sell your body for money? This means to me that you do not have a gram of dignity! And what was he thinking? That your lifestyle will be super light? Fool.
Studying is a student, and once you have feelings for your prostitute girlfriend, nothing prevents you from continuing that friendship. Prostitutes are also people like us!
Hello. I don't know what situation you are in anymore. Are you still doing this. I did it some time ago, but I forced myself, because my friend always had money (her parents helped her), and she kept telling me that I didn't have it, that she had supported me. So, I decided to take risks and called such a club myself. She didn't stop me, on the contrary, she supported me. (What a friend, eh ?!) I was lucky to find myself in a decent club where I didn't have any problems. I started to spend all my money on my "girlfriend", to pay for the accommodation. I was selling all day, and I didn't dare buy a garment. Because she kept hinting. I had become a slave. With the help of my colleague, I resisted and left the apartment without paying the last rent. She was furious. He threatened to kill my parents. He later told my mother. But she didn't believe her. Gradually I got out of this profession (I found a friend to whom I told, he understood me, we live together). I still have nightmares with my famous girlfriend (and we were really close. Remember that the money you make with this job is damned. If you're going to do it, do it for yourself and don't let anyone run it. Be careful not to suffer from Excessive sharing.
If you're still a prostitute, call me, if you're pretty and you don't take it expensive, I can fuck you.
Run, get out as fast as you can !! Your friend will forgive it. Save your life !!
Come on, start living! Find a friend, if you don't have one, start a serious job, try for a secretary or whatever you studied and start a family, be a full and happy person.
I also care a lot about my girlfriends and I suffer for that, I didn't believe that there are other fools like me, I always repeat to myself that I have to care for me first and then for them, but I'm sorry, it's your tip to want to go home with ours, but how can I leave her, and on top of everything, she liked laughter in the hall, hey girl, don't ruin your life, I'll just tell you this, tighten up until it's too late.
If you were happy with what you earned, you would continue, wouldn't you? But you don't seem to want to give up. I just don't understand why you pretend to be Mother Teresa and put the reason on your girlfriend ??? Stupid.
I don't know why everyone writes that it's an unworthy job. Who told you and why did you decide so? Leave your girlfriend as soon as she feels happy. Let people live their lives and do what makes them happy. If you do not want and you have chosen another path, it does not mean that your path will be the best for her and she should also want to live your way. I was too and it was great. There is nothing wrong with that, nor is anything unworthy. Leave her, this is my advice.
Tighten it up and find a decent job, get out of there while it's time without caring about anyone or anything.
My advice is to give up both.
28. - you sent two prostitutes straight to the field to earn a living .... The author has decided to finish, but let her leave her friend to drag her back. However, it has been proven that the reintegration of prostitutes is almost impossible - once they have easy money, they are always tempted again and again ... I hope the author succeeds anyway
one piece of advice: a whore can't be your friend if you're not one! Leave her! Success!
Wait now, I can't understand why you don't have money? I know this is the most lucrative profession. And as you say, your girlfriend has. Why don't you? Do you work a little? Do you work cheaply? Let's say you get BGN 50 per session. Let's say that you serve only 1 client per day. 30 days a month, let's remove 10 days of cycle and nonsense ... 20 days at BGN 50 = BGN 1000 How will you not have enough - at work for 1 hour a day ... That's enough. Don't sell for cheaper- Become a VIP. If you're going to do something, do it like people do. I am very interested in the topic. If you can write: How did it feel the first time you did it for money? Were you sick? Did you have an orgasm? Has anyone been rude to you by the customers? I'm really interested, please write See,
My dear, I will only tell you to leave while you can because in this business you start voluntarily but you do not leave whenever you want and there is nothing you can do about your girlfriend if she likes it and you can't stop her from doing it, believe me. Good luck from me this is my advice
Author, what happened to you so much for these 2 weeks, write a topic that I'm curious and I did it for money, but only with people
RUN FROM THIS JOB !! if she doesn't want me to bargain, leave her. then she will regret this BIG mistake of yours, and you run while you can! this is my advice to the majority !!
"... there will be no smoke" and right next to yours! If she enjoys it - let her stay, you save yourself. It's not worth a blade if you don't make money from it! Apparently the prostitute market is oversaturated. Go home!
Be fucked
If you want to work, work. If you don't want to, don't. I do not understand what is so complicated?