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Jealousy Is A Disease I Can't Cure!

By erinheathertonlegit October 08, 2020 11 answers Last updated October 08, 2020

Hello! I have been reading stories for a long time and some tips have helped me a lot, for which I thank you! Now I want to share with you my problem, and it is jealousy, I am terribly jealous. I have a friend of 1 year and 2 months. I'm 16 and he's 21. I love him as much as he loves me, but I don't stop being jealous of him. Although I know he wouldn't do it to me. But I don't stop being jealous of him. He is the sweetest creature in this world, he loves me very much, he does everything for me, he has proved to me that he will not cheat on me 1000 times, but I do not stop being jealous of him, at least we fight, just to look at someone and we start arguing, I'm just very jealous of him. And he's jealous of me a lot, but it's not like me, I just go crazy and we drive all day. I understand I wouldn't do it, I trust him, but ..... When I'm a teacher and he's not at work, and if he has to go somewhere, for example, to drink coffee with friends, he will call me to ask me, and if I'm in it, he doesn't go out without me, we're always together, but tell me why I don't stop being jealous of him Thank you in advance :)

Answers 11

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allianz answered · October 08, 2020

   Can't do without jealousy! This is love, try to overcome yourself and cope! With a little effort everything happens! Good luck from me.

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lisa_helson answered · October 08, 2020

   Being jealous does not mean loving someone. Jealousy is a kind of selfishness. If you fight over your outbursts of jealousy every time, he may soon get tired of breaking up. Be jealous, but don't show that you're jealous, it's easy. My friend is very jealous, darling, but with his jealousy he suffocates me rather than loves me, and love must be moderate freedom. I know many couples who broke up because of this. Are you selfish ?! I believe your answer is no, keep that jealousy in a cage for a while and explain to your boyfriend what you don't want him to do when you're around him. If he doesn't fuel your jealousy, everything will be fine. Good luck! Puntina

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ckmodell answered · October 08, 2020

   (The author) Hello, first I want to say that I'm not selfish: D, I know that the day will come when he will get bored, but what can I do, and I know couples who broke up because of this and I'm afraid not to I lose, but I just can't stop being jealous of him, I'm just afraid that he can find another :( :( :( Although he tells me he doesn't want another :( :(

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scotch_official answered · October 08, 2020

   You lose it if you don't change.

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elblogdeaceber answered · October 08, 2020

   If you are at the beginning of your relationship, it is good for both of you to show that you love each other. But dear, I am a victim of this jealousy and I can safely tell you that if you want to keep the person next to you do not show him with scandals or other scenes - you push him in this way to a point where he will get tired of these shackles and will leave you. It is not some thing bought by Bitaka. As he came, so he may go.

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MistiqueAnn answered · October 08, 2020

   I'm very jealous Make You Sick HAVE CHVSTVOTO, I'm crazy PLEASE HELP US, WE HAVE A CHILD OF 5 G.NO can not sleep, HRANYAOBICHA TO ME BUT I DO CONSTANT altercation followed him constantly, and I'm nice, I HAVE NICE WORK, MONEY BUT THIS JEALOUSY KILLS ME PLEASE HELP BUT THERE IS NO ADVICE ON HOW TO BE BETTER I SHOULD GO TO A PSYCHOLOGIST .......

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mmm_eva_ answered · October 08, 2020

   To number 6: If you don't want to lose the man next to you, do something. If I were in his place, I would throw such a fight at you and drive you crazy in turn out of jealousy, even in the form of a theater. Nobody wants to deal with psychedelic women. Keep in mind that the child can take it from you, you definitely have a problem and the court will protect him. When you are so jealous, where did you go to get married - to have been alone all your life. That way you wouldn't have reason to be jealous.

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MisssPerfectX answered · October 08, 2020

   Abe, woman, don't you understand that because of this jealousy you can lose both your husband and your child? Obviously, you need help, go to a psychologist. Let your husband go a little free, try to trust him. You obviously don't trust him, since you even went to follow him ... And the worst thing is that you can hurt your child due to the frequent quarrels and quarrels ...

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sunangell answered · October 08, 2020

   I'm the same, but my head already hurts, stop thinking such things, because it's no use. and even though I tell you this, I myself cannot stop my jealousy. Good luck

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lauracutex answered · October 08, 2020

   The woman must treat the man like a dog - to feed him and drive him out! :)

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allison2169 answered · October 08, 2020

   Hello! please advise me I roar a lot my friend