So ... I'll start with the fact that I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend before. I'm charming, they look at me, I'm liked ... every girl is happy to be liked, and I don't seem to be happy ... meaning not that I'm not happy, I'm just feeling a little jealous of myself. Very nasty feeling, I want to get rid of it. It may be normal to feel this way after not having intimate contact with a member of the opposite sex, but I wonder what your opinion is Why do I feel jealous of myself? I'm not a narcissistic muffin, on the contrary ... but I just ... I have the feeling that if someone likes me and wants to get to know me, they will suffocate me and sooner or later they will disappoint me.
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Very interesting wording :) I had not thought that really very picky and narcissistic people are jealous of themselves. They like, so to speak, to allow someone else to their own perfection, they do not let him enjoy. Well done, I liked this discovery!
Number 1, I think you're wrong. Or at least that's not the whole truth. It sounds to me like a fear of life, of disappointment. Don't do that, you're young! You have to learn to fall, get up, shake the dust off your buttocks and move forward briskly! Life is not for cowards, believe me! Talk to a psychiatrist, maybe it's best for a child, even though you're 18 - there are some in Alexandrovska. Talk to your mother, tell her how you feel! If you are not close, talk to someone older who is kind to you! Learn to trust, but not blindly :))
I don't know either, otherwise I agree with both. I feel jealousy for several reasons .... one of them is that I have the feeling that if someone looks at me or likes me I will not be able to get rid of it after that ... iii I still think that sooner or later it will stop to like me. I'm not used to people liking me. I look arrogant, sometimes timid, but I'm not some bastard ... I'm even annoying. Everyone is afraid of life, but what I am most afraid of are the disappointments ... I can't stand them. I'm a very spiteful person ... but a lot and when someone hurts me it's hard to get along with him after that, not to mention at all. It's just that my contacts with the people who hurt me are a thing of the past and that's it.