Hello, I want to share with you what happened to me in the last year with the girl I am with. I'm 25, she's 23, we've been together for 5 years and in those 5 years I happened to cheat once because she lied to me (or as she told me she tested me) that she cheated !! It was nothing special, no feelings just quick sex with a woman who wanted the same thing. I made her know she did it and hop her infidelity isn't too late! She also cheated on me about a month ago, but I accepted things as they are! I also came back to her when I cheated, she accepted me, now she came back I accepted her too! We love each other, we want each other a lot, we have common topics, we go out, we take frequent walks, our sex is great, but now we have something to argue about all the time and I think it's becoming something more serious until I realized last night that her infidelities are many, and then as I understood she asked me to swear to myself that I didn't fuck her friend, I did it because there really is nothing between me and her friend, then I made her swear that the men she was with were 3 in number (which I know for sure + me including), and I was surprised, she just told me that she didn't want to do it because there was no point in it, but asked me to do it and I did it. Now tonight we have a new conversation and I do not know how to approach because we are already in trouble and there is no way, or we will be or not but the question became fundamental because I think I lived with her in delusion .. give advice and please without Hate I do not needed right now!
Thanks! J. G. then I made her swear that the men she was with were 3 in number (which I know for sure + me included), and I was surprised, she just told me she didn't want to do that because it didn't make sense in this, and asked me to do it and I did it. Now tonight we have a new conversation and I do not know how to approach because we are already in trouble and there is no way, or we will be or not but the question became fundamental because I think I lived with her in delusion .. give advice and please without Hate I do not needed right now! Thanks! J. G. then I made her swear that the men she was with were 3 in number (which I know for sure + me included), and I was surprised, she just told me she didn't want to do that because it didn't make sense in this, and asked me to do it and I did it. Now tonight we have a new conversation and I do not know how to approach because we are already in trouble and there is no way, or we will be or not but the question became fundamental because I think I lived with her in delusion .. give advice and please without Hate I do not needed right now! Thanks!
J. G. either it will be us or not but the question became a matter of principle because I think I lived with her in delusion .. give advice and please without Hate I don't need it right now! Thanks! J. G. either it will be us or not but the question became a matter of principle because I seem to have lived with her in delusion .. give advice and please without Hate I do not need it right now! Thanks! J. G.
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Are you in the manger? She "tested" you (as if the league has such a right), you immediately take revenge. You are both immature, you need a lot of maturation. My advice - cut and that's it. It doesn't make sense unless you experience the same episode again.
Let me point out the obvious - these "tests" that you do to each other will not help to stabilize and strengthen your relationship, on the contrary. Unless you become a "swinger", it's fashionable :) But as I see it, the seed of doubt has already sprouted in your mind, so there's no point in explaining it to you. To know next time what to do, and most of all - what not to do. And what to ask the next one, so that it doesn't turn out to be "common" :)
You are both in psychiatry, please do not have children
What are these children's stories? You are great people and you play "who will get it back first"? God, God! Even if they really cheat on you, you don't fall so low, because if you're going to be angry that they're cheating on you, why would you reach out? You just get up and leave, you are very toxic.
As I look at your mind, you are 15 and she is 13. No advice helps such guys;)
What does the number of infidelities matter, since they are already a system, it is pointless to dig. And you don't fall down, you fit in, drive like that when you like it. Didn't they invent such a relationship lately, how was it - an open relationship or something like that !? You even have sexual communes, get together in several pairs and have sex with each other. Wrong matchmaker, and you want order in life !?
I could tell you what I think, but that "hateless" startled me ... Still ... It's time for a new relationship. Women are very vicious, if you cheat on them, they have been Shibat with other HDs all their lives. Sorry, but it's your fault for this degradation if you hadn't slept with someone else. And what are these principles you are talking about? Leave that nonsense ..
If this man doesn't think you're his mother, tighten him up, let him take part in childcare and housework. Leave him without dinner a few times, without clean clothes, let his child watch while you do your things, then let's see if he will have time to chat and if he will be bored. I think it's your own fault for everything to get here. You have taken on all the responsibilities and obligations and the gentleman is bored. Find a hobby!
It makes sense to cheat on you. You have been together for 5 years. i.e. she was 18 years old. She didn't make a living. He wants to try with others. But yours is also a child's work - cheated because you thought she cheated.
And how come we didn't think of saying "tests" to sex?
№10, are you in class, read the topic again! They did not understand the topic, but they give advice, this is the Bulgarian !? I don't know how it should be, but it's not like that !?
Don't judge them! They are not "infantile idiots from kindergarten" as it may seem at first glance, but just very young souls. Even as people, they don't have much life experience ...