Hello! I am a 20 year old girl and I decided to write to you about my problem because I have no one to share it with, but I really need advice. I met a boy 6 months ago. It was an amazing experience, it was exactly what I always wanted and always wanted. I fell in love. We had been together for a month when I found out he was trying to tell me something, but he didn't know how. After long conversations, he admitted to me that he loved me, and I responded with the same. Everything was going well until one day he forgot his Facebook page open and I peeked inside out of curiosity. He had taken down other girl's stars in exactly the same way as me, he had told her that he loved her ... The problem is that we talked about this many times, shared, promised and what not, but I can't to swallow it, because I have been lied to too many times (for my age) and after everything I have experienced I can no longer believe his words. And I want so badly to clear my mind, to know that he is honest with me ... I would like to ask you, if you were in my place, how would you regain his trust
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Not!
What trust to return? He has lost your trust in him. But anyway - FORGET IT. This one is not good!
If he wrote the same things to another as to you, then don't expect him to change. Create a fake profile and write to him so you will know if he is honest with you or not. I had 1 such friend who said he loved me, that he wanted us to be together and he told a lot of other girls when I told him I knew he said it was ours and so on and I dumped him.
Forget it. He does not deserve you. I am angry with such pathetic people. -Death_Blade ^
Ah, dear author, as you have been lied to and hurt by men before, can you not conclude what will happen in the end? What do you expect? Even I understand what's next - you will hint to him about that girl and what he wrote to her, he will say that he does not love her and wants to be with you, "those were just words without feelings", "he doesn't even know her", "just flirting on the internet", etc., etc. will lie and chic. If you don't believe me, check for yourself. :) You have the right to all the requirements and criteria when you start a relationship with a man and if the man does not follow them you have the right to find what you are looking for. It is better to lose six months with the wrong person than to tolerate behavior that offends you and you find unacceptable. You are young - you will find what you are looking for, do not be satisfied with anything. But,
Welcome to the club! My friend is the same womanizer. Everything else in our relationship is perfect, but he writes to various girls: Hello darling! You are a very sweet duckling! and others like that! I don't know why I haven't been a jerk to him yet! It happened to me one night we had sex and he went to the bathroom, and I decided to check my fb and hop! You see! He doesn't know yet, but I regularly hint to him to feel it but alas! It's just that men are thugs! I stay with him hoping that he will soon get bored, nooo hardly! I do not know what to tell you! We are idiots, we tolerate them like that!
That's right, number 6 - you said it yourself - you idiots. It's not true that men were drummers, you just chose them and that's your problem. My husband is not a drummer and I am not an idiot. You make your own choices in life and bear the consequences.