Cheers! I have a problem with my parents because of my friend. I love him very much and we have been living together for nine months. I'm happy! However, the problem is that he is a Turk and my parents have a hard time with that. My mother and father separated and I went to live with him. A week passed and I moved in with my friend. We didn't tell my mother. After a while, they got together and we had to tell her. She accepted him more or less calmly, but began to insult him. They forbid me to deepen my relationship with him, because otherwise they would give up on me. And I love him and I would be his wife with great pleasure. I am the mother of a three-year-old child. His father and I broke up two years ago. Now my friend and I are very well, and my son likes him. His parents don't think they agree with our relationship.
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I don't know if he read my confession "I am a Bulgarian, he is a Turk" .. I fully understand your problem and I sincerely sympathize with you .. I don't know if I could give you advice, since I am also waiting for your comments .. you are at least one step ahead me-you told your parents..and I don't have this courage for almost 3 years..for that you have my congratulations..in the end our life is ours and we have to live it the way we want, right? ..
Are the Bulgarians over ?????
Enough with this "are the Bulgarians over" If you were an American, you wouldn't say that. How are you not ashamed? Who are you to determine the heart and tell it what to feel and what not. My friend is Turkish and we have been together for 9 months. For some, this period of time may be small, but for me it was enough to understand that there are things in life that do not happen again, which, if you miss them, you risk regretting for a lifetime. And what about the fact that he is a Turk, not to be a leper. But before every religion and nationality he is a man. And I can't understand you. She tried a Bulgarian and got divorced. You yourself are an example of the fact that there is no guarantee that if you marry a Bulgarian, you will be happy. Don't let your parents build your life. Respect them, but don't let them make radical decisions about your life. He is only one, and even if there are 100 (which I doubt) this one will never happen again. Leave people's prejudices behind and be happy. There will always be those who will speak, and if you allow them to overthrow you with their words, you will never be happy. I wish you and myself more courage and determination. Success!
BRAVO, EVALLA №3!
A very good friend of mine had the same problem, but on the contrary he was Bulgarian, she was Turkish. They struggled for 3 years and in the end they just moved out, they changed not only the city, but the country. I know from him that this is not a solution for everyone, they have realized that love alone will not be enough for them, because living separately under duress is difficult. But they are happy now, he tells me that only in Bulgaria there is this obvious hostility to racially and nationally different couples, but we are a simple people - fortress peasants. Find your solution, sometimes it is very close. I wish you luck and a very happy life.
If you find love, fight for it and do not leave it! Some never find it!
YOU DON'T NEED TURKS.
There are Bulgarians - who are worse than the Turks. They beat, break, insult, drink. And they even curse their mothers. No respect. I have also been in a relationship with a Turk for a year. I am not afraid to tell my parents that I am with a Turk because it is important for my father to be happy. I was married to a Bulgarian - THANK YOU !!! It turned out that he had married me to take care of him and he could not imagine that he could have children. HE DIDN'T WANT CHILDREN. And at number seven I want to say - who are you to say what we need and what we don't. If they do a study for Bulgarian men - we will probably be in the first place in selfishness, self-confidence without cover, irresponsibility, not to mention morality. Tongue that they are beautiful. But only from the outside. And since he's not the only one with this line, I would tell the others - while you're looking for French women, it will be like that. I'm fat, but I'm ready,
Tell her I have a little problem, I have a girlfriend who has a child, but something my parents don't like about these things and they want us to separate as soon as possible. Tell me what to do? !!!!
Well, live with your man independently and independently! If your child likes him too, if he also loves the child who is not his ... and you say that you are happy ... WHAT IS THE PROBLEM, will you listen to your parents all your life, what do they approve and disapprove of? !? ! ???? Please!
It is not true, not only in Bulgaria we are like that towards the Turks. I used to have a profile on a dating site and I had a few Turkish friends on the profile and an Italian I talked to, and he once told me when we had an argument that I could have Turkish friends on my profile. I was surprised at all, obviously in the west they are not favorites either. I also don't like Turks, but to be honest I had Turkish friends who cost a lot more than Bulgarians and although I don't ask for love for the Turkish people, I honestly don't see what the problem is, if the boy is right. Above all, we are human. And just to add that we Bulgarians are not racists, we have just been under Turkish rule for 500 years and it is normal to have such feelings for this nation knowing what happened in the Bulgarian lands and what they did to our ancestors.
Parental opinion is important and certainly influences our decisions, consciously or not. BUT, if you are happy and he is a decent and good MAN, then what the hell are you wondering. For the heart there is no race, age, even gender ... I have a 4 year relationship with a Turk, we are engaged and will soon live together, I have never felt happier. There are many people who will not like him and insult him. Ultimately, however, choosing a partner is one of the most important in our lives. Because as bad as it sounds, parents are up to date. If the man is smart and respects and loves you as you are, you don't care who says what, you are the one who will be with him, not the others. You can't please everyone. Good luck
If this is the person for you, don't let anyone or anything bother you. live your life here and now and only for yourself. what race or religion is not so important is the person and how he treats you. your child likes it this is good because children are the truest indicator of what a person is like. that they will be angry and grumbling and that people will talk
If this is the person for you, don't let anyone or anything bother you. live your life here and now and only for yourself. what race or religion is not so important is the person and how he treats you. your child likes it this is good because children are the truest indicator of what a person is like. that they will be angry and grumbling and that people will talk
Calm down! What if he's a Turk? He speaks Bulgarian. Here we are all citizens of Bulgaria. f. Bulgarians. Bulgarian Turks are cultured / no matter how much they admit it / and have nothing to do with a Turk who lives and has always lived in Turkey. Be happy and don't let anyone bother you. When your parents see that you are living well, they will smell. They only think good of you, but they can't fight their prejudices. The most important thing is not to be afraid. Success!
to 11 I suppose that this Italian is familiar with Bulgarian history and knows that Bulgaria was under Turkish slavery. Only we do not respect our history ... Everywhere else this is important, but not in Bulgaria. And to the author (maybe she has already made her decision but still) if she is a good person, if she will look at your child as her own, then he is your person ... Good luck