Hi, I don't know where to start. I am 22 years old and I have already suffered so many losses. 3 years ago my boyfriend had an accident and died, last year my father died, and yesterday one of my best friends, I just can't realize, it's so hard for me. And I have so many other problems, I have no peace of mind, why some people live their lives throwing a lot of money to the wind, while others try to make ends meet and suffer constantly. I don't think anyone can help me with anything, but I need to share.
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I know how nasty it is to lose a loved one, but think about whether he wants you to suffer or would like to move on!?! This with money is really not fair, but everyone pays for their sins - they say that when a person has been a wasteful and selfish person in life, when he dies he gets what he deserves, and those who suffer during their earthly journey receive their reward! I don't know how true it is, but I'm calming down! And I don't think there is no way to help you! I even hope that this comment will give you at least some strength and motivation to move forward! I wish you a lot of happiness, luck and love for the future!
I sincerely sympathize with you, I know it's hard for you and I want to help you, as number 1 said, at least with moral support. Sometimes after every evil comes good :)
Life is a spiral. We all went to the same place, but some roads are paved and others muddy. Some serve on heels and socks, and others on tsarvuli, but still we are all SERVANTS. Keep your head up.
In 2 years I sent three loved ones, so I fully understand you. I was desperate, but I found meaning in many other things that managed to distract me and somewhat dull the pain. Try not to constantly think about how unhappy you are, but find out how many other important things are around you. Success!
Sorry for your loss! I know how hard it is to lose a loved one ... and I have gone through that, but life goes on .. the future is with you ....! I wish you a lot of success and I hope you are very happy in the future!
I'm sorry for everything you've been through, I lost my girlfriend a month ago in an accident and I don't know if I will find the strength to continue
I somehow recovered, or so I think, remembering the people I lost in the present. The examples are, he is she. I never say YOU WERE, HE WAS, etc. Somehow in my head I denied the thought that I would not see them again and so I'm better not that the pain passes but for now my well, better. I'm sorry for your pain. And don't forget the past is beautiful and the future is as YOU decide.
That's right. I sympathize with everyone who has a difficult fate, like mine. In my life, I suffered a lot of pain and suffering, losses. My path is full of many obstacles. I've always wondered about life. But he is just so cruel, cruel and ruthless to any human destiny.
I can't really understand why good people are deprived of what they need and love, and bad people are always smiling and left with impunity - I don't see the point - so everyone gets angry sooner or later and hates life or goes crazy. more is true for good people ... I keep telling myself every evil for good, and it's as if sometimes life makes a mess and sends a new evil. I really want to have another life there after death and this evil that happens to us to be a payment from a previous life, but ... I hope that the author has recovered and found happiness and that which inspires her to live and joy!
number 9, you are absolutely right .... And yet there is retribution and everyone gets what they deserve ... there is no way evil people can go unpunished. The question is good people, why do they suffer? Rhetorical question
Number 9, that's right, you're very right! The worst combination is visibly ugly and internally one! Bad people are ugly, they have a nasty nature.
I do not understand why bad people have to pay their children and say that it is because it hurts the most, but there are also "parents" who do not love and do not really care about their children, but only have them for duty and use. ... The feeling of being unwanted and harassed by the people who created you is so deadly and lasts a lifetime.
Now I think - it seems that all good people are here just so that the bad ones can live better and serve them ... because I have really seen so unpunished cruelty, impudence and so many unjust and ugly things .... Some say here on Earth was Hell - it seems to be true, and heaven is for the bad and the rich and the successful with evil, lies and deceit here, but it's just absurdly unfair. What is the lesson and progress of all this nonsense? !! I'm sorry that I slightly deviated from the exact topic of the story, but they still say you had to think positively, it's good, but how blow after blow, in this ugly and sad reality, it's like we become blind and unconscious, there's no way! Obviously, to be born good is a curse for life):