Hello! I am a 17-year-old boy and I am quite closed and rarely communicate with new people and at first I am quite negative towards most people. I go directly to the story and my question. Some time ago I met a girl my age through a trip abroad. We talked to her, we understand each other and I feel how I started to become attached to her and before we returned to Bulgaria we exchanged coordinates. I like her a lot and I wonder how to continue to communicate with her How can I hint to her that I want our friendship, if it can, to become something more serious? Should I invite her out somewhere and if so, where? I have questions about how to proceed with it. I think she liked me too, so I think it's worth continuing. Give advice on how to proceed with it? What to follow from now on? Thank you! Greetings!
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Well, write to her! What do you have to think of him? Talk to her, after a while invite her to see you - go to the movies, picnics, mountains, ala-bala. You will miss the moment out of a lot of wonder and then you will have to think "if I hadn't been furious for a while, what could have happened ...?" In the worst case, it will cut you off. Big leek - will not be the first, will not be the last. You are 17, you lose nothing. Success!
Actions !!! Try it, if he answers you, if you don't stay only fr. Success!
The most important thing is that you both like each other. From there, everything will be fine. Invite her to a meeting, the girls expect the boys to take the first step. In a place that you both like - for a walk in the park, for coffee, for lunch / dinner, cinema. I advise you not to hurry with the confessions. Get to know each other, communicate, understand the most important things for each other. If you notice that her attitude towards you is different from just being friendly, just ask her if she wants you to be more than friends. Success!
Bratle and I are 17 and I was in a similar situation 2 days ago. I fell in love with her on a trip, we met and exchanged coordinates, Facebook and numbers. And now we talk, we write. I realized that she also likes me and everything is going great except that we are 400 km away .... There is no other option be brave, yourself and talk to her to go out. GOOD LUCK!!!
From the author: And how do I know if she has a friend or not?
I'll just tell you that silence doesn't help at all. The boy must always take the first step. There are very few cases where the opposite is true.