Hello. I wanted to present to you one of my stories that happened to me in the last two months. I met a man on a dating site. Everything was completely normal in the beginning. We talked a lot on Skype, then on the phones for 1 month. He ended up with a child and his wife died in an accident. He is also a boxer and his lifestyle is radically different from mine. He has lived through it since his childhood. All the time I thought he was a man who knew what he wanted and how to achieve it. We started going out. He is not from my city, but this was not a problem for him, because the distance is about 30 minutes. We saw each other for a month, not every day, but we talked about it constantly. We shared many things. But later, during the meetings, I felt that he was saving some truths from what he was doing. I felt he was hiding things. He was also in prison twice for beating, which he admitted. He admitted that since the death of his wife he had no relationship with a woman, etc. I believed him in these things. But I started watching everything he does and says ... The movie was starting to get full. It started to get pretty criminal for me. He shouted at bodies, threatened. And I, for my part, ask him what's up, and he kept saying that this is a pig business and he can't help but have such a tone on his body. He went to boxing matches, which he made me go to, but I refused. After a month of walking, he became more and more confused. I no longer knew if I wanted a serious relationship with him, but we still wanted a lot and we did.
Was great. The next day it was gritty talking again, he said he was very much in love and so on. n. as before. We were very happy. At least that's what it looked like. But still, I decided to do a test because of these doubts about what kind of person he was constantly worried about me. One day I decided to join him on Skype, under a different name. I introduced myself as a girl from aha (by the way, we had promised before not to write to people from there and he promised me that we would not write to anyone anymore, after a scandal, of course). He tied himself up. He said he was alone, that he had no relationship, etc. He even said he divorced his wife, that she did not die in an accident, etc. I no longer know what is true and what is not. I was affected by the fact that he said that he had not met a decent person yet, and this was not the case because he told me that he had found something wonderful in my face, he promised many things, he said that he fell in love with me, that he wanted to we have a common future it. n.
Eventually, he found out she was my friend and I told him it was a rehearsal. He began to explain that he knew he had spoken on purpose, and so on. Of course, I didn't believe him. I said there was no point in calling me again, and he said ok. He doesn't fight after that or anything. He obviously saw how emphatic I was because I told him we would either be honest with each other or we wouldn't be together. He had some rumors about some of his lies, and he knew that if there was another blunder on his part, we wouldn't be together. And despite the fact that he is guilty, he did not call and did not fight at all.
After seven, he called me and said that he missed my voice, etc. I spoke in general and so on. Nothing since then. And I keep wondering what it was all about. Did he just use me, why doesn't he fight for me anymore? I do not know. What do you think? I'm very confused. I know he's not human to me, but I miss talking to him. When you think about it, all the people on these sites are lying a lot about whether he's one of those people, who, when they achieve what they want, run away? In the end, what I did is good, because it could have lied to me for years. I miss. I'm sorry I don't know if all this was real or not? What do you think...???
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"He was in prison twice for beating, which he admitted. "Darling, light a candle in the church because you got rid of it lightly and softly. You even had good sex. Forget about this man, because not every guy like that is so harmless - be glad he didn't beat you. It's gotten so much better, don't look for him and don't answer his calls, etc. Hope he's actually found another fool if you don't want to be his full-time punching bag. And I hope you've learned - don't trust these guys anymore, for God's sake. You are very naive and the web is full of guys who use fools like you! If the sex was OK, rejoice - at least they didn't use you in bed. But if you want more than sex, you have to change
Drop it. Everything he tells you is a lie, in my opinion. Moreover, when you wrote to him under a false profile, he told you other things, that he and his wife were divorced, etc. They may indeed be divorced, and she did not die. And even so, you don't know what he's doing or anything. You just know some stories from his past, and only he knows how much truth there is in them.
From the Author: Honestly, he didn't do anything bad to me, although everything around him is quite suspicious, even criminal. His brother was also in prison for drugs, but now he is out, and his father was one of the best boxers of his time .... And I think they are involved in some mutinous things .... About unfortunately he is hardly one of those who is not involved. He has lived in Greece for 15 years and has worked there and says that he is not involved in the things his brother is involved in ... But he has been in Bulgaria since his wife died and works with him .... Although I says he's not involved in anything suspicious ... I don't believe him .... And about whether I'm a naive ... No, I don't think I am ... I don't want to get into some pointless relationship, that's why I told him I didn't want to think about the future because he did. I wanted to get to know each other better before I got into something serious. Unfortunately, I'm one of the people I'm attached to and now I'm a little naughty about it all. I know he's not the right person for me ... I'm just tired of doubting every single man I date ... It's exhausting ... The whole point is lost ... From the beginning everything was doubtful ... yes that's right .. but I just wanted to get involved with feelings in this connection ... So I did, I closed my eyes and everything was very good ... but still I couldn't do it all the time, that's why I did the test, on which he caught ... The interesting thing about all this was that it was something forbidden ... that it was something radically different from everything that had happened to me ... After it was all over, I wondered if he was entering again. this site where we met (aha. bg) ... well yes he is there every day ...: "He even added a new girlfriend ...
You do it yourself! Tomorrow, as you turn to death, just remember that you are to blame for this situation. You just like to be lied to and made into monkeys, that's it. If he's a dude, punctual and treats you right, he won't be interesting.
Are you a teenager or are you just so stupid? !? There must be 20 more with whom he communicates and lies and anoints them ...
From the Author: I am 28, he was also my age. In general, what do you think about the links started by a dating site? Can serious relationships be made or is it a waste of time?
Comment number 4 completely overlaps with my opinion! This is the truth: women like bad guys :)
The author, you ask if a serious relationship can start from a dating site. In my opinion, not or very rarely. One is that most men are there to seek only sex, and second, no matter how many women start a relationship, they always know that the site offers more and more and sooner or later start digging there again. Just because they know there is, it doesn't matter if they know what they're looking for. That's why they take relationships lightly, especially with women from similar sites. I'm not surprised by the lies of the person you started a relationship with. Almost everyone on these sites is lying in disarray. In addition, almost all have registrations on several other such sites. It is a lost cause, because first of all, the trust in this person is lost. How can you ever be sure that he will dump sites, that he doesn't date other women, that at some point he won't start again, if it has stopped for a while? What will you build when the most important thing is missing - trust? And always be vigilant, harassing, angry that he doesn't want to stop this. Ask yourself if this is what you want for yourself. Drop the virtual and go out into the real world.
From the Author: I agree with you number 8. And I came to the conclusion that this type of dating does not lead to anything serious, although at first I thought there were people and people ... But it is not. Very rarely do real things happen to people from such a site. I'm one of those people who doesn't lie .... I just have nothing to hide ... and I thought there were people like me there ... But I was obviously wrong .... Everyone is hiding something ... which is great stupid ... But this is life ... Unfortunately, people are very ashamed of what they are .... But this is at their expense .... Man, if he is not real in their relationship ... What is the meaning? Everything is lost .... From the very beginning of this relationship (in fact it is not even a relationship, but a relationship) I wanted everything to be 1 to 1 ... sincerely and honestly ... But apparently only I wanted this ... He said he had trouble sharing, that he always had and for that he saved some things ... But isn't saving wood a LIE? Oh ... horror .. everyone has some wrong theories about what is true and what is not ... But for me the truth is one and sooner or later it comes out .... He seemed to expect to lie as much as he wants .... but it didn't work out for him and as a coward he couldn't defend himself like people ... hihihi ... But the most important thing I want to say to all girls and women .... don't trust max ... Judge good man next to you ... If it's worth it only then embark on a real and beautiful relationship .... :)))
So your illness is called JEALOUSY
Drop ... decent guys don't hang out on dating sites. My ex met him this way and told me the game. It wasn't lies, it wasn't writing and dating other women, I caught him with fake profiles and he claimed just like yours that he hadn't met a decent man until he was hurt. After that I deleted all profiles in similar sites, there are only fools and liars, do not bother.
Yes ... I absolutely agree with number 11 ... By the way, I haven't been dealing with this type of communication since then and definitely one feels much better ... virtual things are not for me ... and I think they wear out the person . You put your feelings into something that has nothing to do with reality ... I think stable people don't really meet on this type of site, although there are exceptions ... but I'm still against it ... I think in real life it's a lot better. to meet someone and start something beautiful on a real basis, and not in these virtual spaces full of uncertainty, lies and secrets ... So that everyone can judge for themselves ... and hopefully this happens the easy way, not the hard way ....;)
to n.11 dumped -readable women are not in only commercial women / prostitutes undercover /