I don't know where to start ... I'm a girl from a small town, soon to be an adult. My problem is that I don't have people around me. When I go to school, everyone seems to hate me, they make fun of me, and I don't do anything to them. I feel like an outsider. This is probably because I'm not like the others, they listen to other types of music, and I'm interested in other things. I am afraid every day when I sit at the desk of what others will say, I am tired of ridicule, I am tired of being insulted when I enter the room to look at me strangely and to be against me. I'm tired of always being the black sheep, from a young age. I haven't had anyone by my side since I was little, I haven't had any friends, but I don't understand why no one likes me True ... I'm not one of the best and that's exactly why I haven't had a boyfriend so far (no matter how big I am), and one of the main reasons is shyness. At first, when I entered a new class, I tried to get acquainted, but I could not do anything, I could not get close to them, groups formed, and I was left alone, mocked and hated by everyone. I can't stand it, so far I've suffered a lot (it's better not to describe everything), but it's as if I'm getting more when I come home and cry all the time. I try to be good to everyone, to help, but they only thank me with ridicule and insults ... I think when I graduate, everything will change, I will meet new people, I will go to university, but before that I have to be collected the money because my parents are unlikely to have money for each semester, we often wonder how to connect the two ends .... and in general .... it's hard for me. I want advice from you. Not really advice, because there's hardly anything to do, but reassurance and are there people in my situation? Are there lonely people, discussed and ridiculed, but also sensitive, who cry every day for their lives so far and are left without hope for their future ... I have not told my parents because I do not want to bother them further, and what can let them do ... Anyway, thank you for taking some time for me!
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Hello :) I was in a similar situation at school. Like you, I was quite shy and had a hard time finding common interests with the people in the class. Don't worry, life and relationships are different outside of school. I am sure you will find a suitable environment very soon. Head up and good luck!
I'm like that too ... I'm a 12 year old girl and they treat me the same way without doing anything to them. Pretend you don't hear them or pick up headphones, I just don't know what to say ...
Hello! If you are still here and reading this I will answer your question - YES there are people who feel like you! I will give an example with me - I am a girl and it happens to me that I am ridiculed and mocked. As I read what you wrote, it was as if I looked away. And I'm from a small town and I'm shy and so far I haven't met real friends and a boy who cares for me and loves me. I feel really lonely like you at times, even though I have other friends. I can't give you advice because I can't handle it myself. I can only tell you that you have to be strong and believe in yourself. I am sure that this will be temporary and in time you will be happy and you will forget everything that happens to you. Everyone experiences very difficult moments in their life, but this is exactly what makes them stronger and gets them back on their feet. He just doesn't think so much and his head burns. :)
You're not alone. I know what you're talking about. If you think about it, you will understand that there is no point in seeking everyone's approval - there will always be someone dissatisfied with a sour face. Those who make fun of you have chicken brains. Be positive and look for new friends - even if you find one, it will be useful for you. In time you will have enough contacts :) You can sign up to play volleyball, boxing or something else. Sport is a good remedy for depression. The most important thing is to be confident. Don't let others spoil your mood, because you have very good qualities (just reading your post I feel how smart you are :) It's a pity we don't know each other :) What can I tell you .... before I think a lot about other people's opinion. I am free now and I can express my opinion. I feel wonderful - Soon you will be too! Kisses and head up, darling! :) mar4o
I was in the same situation as you. I have only 2 friends and they both live far away from me. I don't see them very often. In general, I am quite different from the others, mostly because I listen to metal and wear men's clothes. I stopped caring about people's opinions because I'm what I want, not what others want. Even my mother and father laughed that I was a broom, but that didn't bother me. Over time, everyone (or almost everyone) realized that I was not what they saw in appearance. I'm sensitive too, but I didn't show it. After so many taunts about me, I just stopped caring because no matter what I do, people have something to say. Keep your head up :)
Hi, I'm in the same situation, they hate me at school, I'm very different from my classmates. I really respect and show it, I keep a good tone with everyone, I try to be good, to help as much as I can, I want to make friends, and in return I receive only insults and whispers in my address. The bad thing is that I am in a new school and in less than 4 months everyone has hated me. I ignore them, but they still treat me so badly .... I'm so sick when I come home I also bother just like you My thought is that no .. There are not quite good souls like us, whose qualities are not appreciated!
And I feel like this :(, I believe that everything is based on thinking, if we change it, we will change ourselves.