I am a girl of 15 and already with the last hope I decided to share how much I suffer from what is happening to me. I'm a modest girl, I don't like to brag much, I don't dress as sexy as most. I don't have any self-confidence that is not good. I am not one of the so-called bison, but I make the necessary efforts at school. I have never run away from a part and I have good behavior. I have no friends, everyone avoids me, insults me, makes fun of me. I still don't have a boyfriend and I probably won't have one because nobody likes me, there was only one case in which a boy offered me to become boyfriends but I had only seen him twice and I didn't know him properly or anything. I'm not one to treat them to a coffee and a chocolate ready for anything. I want a person next to me who loves and respects me for my own sake, I don't want to be a means of satisfaction. There are 20 people in the class and I always sit alone on the bench. Nobody wants to sit with me. There are also cases when I sit alone in the whole row. I greet them and they pretend to be hit and it's as if they don't see me. It hurts me a lot, I'm a person, I have feelings, am I so unworthy. There will never be people I can really count on and call friends. Please tell me if there is a mistake in me, give your comment. I want to know if my life is meaningless, the only people I communicate with are my parents and a few relatives. I will be happy to publish the story and I will be extremely grateful if you express your opinion.
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Hello dear girl! I think your class is full of puberty, which is taken very seriously! They think that if you are not a muffin, a muffin and you do not imitate them, you are not worthy of them. Many students happen to remain isolated from their class and be a scapegoat for young people entering puberty full of complexes and self-confidence. If you have tried to communicate with them, but they do not want to look for company from neighboring classes or other places. Remember that there is a loner like you somewhere else. Don't despair about boyfriends and parties and there is time for everything else. You will find real friends who will appreciate you! Life is ahead of you! And I will tell you a motto: Do not fall on your knees in front of anyone, do not shed tears in front of anyone and if you can, laugh at fate, so that it cannot laugh at you. When I had no friends and they betrayed me many years ago, a person dear to me told me and to this day he helps me and gives me strength! SUCCESS!
That's right ... I'm the same as you, but I'm an 18-year-old boy. I have always been isolated from others, no one wants to talk to me, just like your story. From too much silence, I even forgot how to communicate normally, I have a lot of problems in this area, but I hope things change. I'm staying at home on the computer and that's it, there's nothing else, he's my best friend ... You're a girl, things are a little easier with you ... some boy will like you, while with us things are more difficult. I don't consider myself ugly or crazy, but that's how it happened. I will advise you to look for friends outside your class, there are decent people like you, no matter how rare they are. I'm not giving up, don't you either! Success!
Yes, it's your fault! The problem is that you expect to have a boyfriend of 15 years and even if you found him between the ages of 11 and 13, so you consider yourself retarded. I know people who found a boyfriend at the age of 20, 21, 24 and even 29. Their lives were not made meaningless by the fact that they had time to study and prepare for life. The boyfriend is a commitment. Are you ready to appear at the command of your lover, to live with him, to cook, wash and endure scandals about things like "I'll go with friends to drink with or without your consent", "why don't you come with me tonight "and even" we will have sex just the way I like it ". Are you willing to put up with fat insults and jokes about you and his friends, unwillingness to compromise and, in extreme cases, physical self-mutilation, if you target one of the " That's why thousands of women start inappropriate relationships and then come here to complain. First they whine about the lack of a boyfriend, and then they are worried about having one. Most people have cried from dreams come true! My advice is - look at your life and forget the need for someone to appreciate you. Why get involved in films created for the sole purpose of raising the self-esteem of people who, in an ideal world, would be at the bottom and no one would ask for their opinion?
You have nothing, just children your age are like a pack of hyenas, smelling prey that will not return to them and attack vilely and mercilessly. In general, there is not much to do. Don't take it to heart, someone will always decide that you are interesting. One of my best friends was in a similar role in our class, now 8 years later we are 22 years old. and our friendship is very strong, because I didn't care what others thought of him. Moreover, I was even on the verge of serious beatings several times because of him. If not from your class, then from another you will find friends. Just be more confident and don't be ashamed to express yourself, whatever the reaction of others. And to those who harass you, respond rudely and confidently. The moment you show the hyenas that you have teeth, they will be startled. This type of people which attacks only packs is characterized by primordiality and cowardice. Don't worry, you are still very young and everything is in front of you. I had a girlfriend for the first time at 16, and I dared to kiss her only 3 months after we had become boyfriends officially, I was so congested: D, you have nothing to tighten. Everyone is different. Greetings, your father :) your father;)
It's not like you think, just those in your class are obviously different from you and they want to tease you. Move to a new teacher, create a good reputation and start dressing cool, because otherwise you will be covered. It's just important to be around people your age and to be able to calmly say that you have friends and whether you like them is not so important. I hope I helped you.
Hi, I'm more of a sociable girl, but I've never had real girlfriends except for 1-2, who took advantage of me to write them homework, etc. I'm 25 now, but as I was 15 and I was shunned. I was not invited to birthdays, parties, etc. By the way, I have never been invited to a birthday except 2 times, but these times were before I turned 13. I was always lonely, not to mention a friend - I have never had a relationship with a boy for more than 1 week. The problem always turns out to be in my appearance. To say that I am ugly - no, to say that I am bad, that I am lost and stupid - is not so. They just tell me we don't have a future and that's it. All my acquaintances already have girlfriends or girlfriends, even some are married, and since I haven't found a friend at university and I haven't started working with young people yet, I just don't even have anyone to go out with. I no longer know whether to rely on God or things will sort themselves out ... It's as if the years go by one by one and I still can't find a friend. I have a sister who is as big as me and has a boyfriend. She lives separately and is not entirely with us on holidays. That's when I feel terrible loneliness. Otherwise I'm used to not having her. My sister keeps telling me that I live alone and should make friends. I'm thinking of enrolling in a course now and starting a job, but will I find friends? And most of all, will I find a friend? Because this year a "FRIEND" fell into my pie with luck, but it hasn't happened yet. It may not, unfortunately, happen this year. I hope it happens anyway, otherwise I'll stay. "
Calmly try to move at school, move your head proudly, do not bow to anyone and do not pay attention. Inflate everyone. You will see that they will come to you on their own. Listen to my advice, it works for me!