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Lonely

By katiecarmine August 09, 2020 11 answers Last updated August 09, 2020

I am a boy of 20. I feel bad and lonely. I don't have friends and a boyfriend and I won't. I also have no friends at work. For several years I have been so isolated from people, and in front of girls I turn red and I can't say anything. I generally don't like talking to anyone, but being alone makes me feel lonely. I think that there is no cure for my disease, because I have been like this for 4 or 5 years and it is best to commit suicide, I cannot be like other people.

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diffeyewear answered · August 09, 2020

   Tell me what environment you live in, what is your family, deprivation or others? What food do you eat, is it poor in vitamins and minerals! What kind of home do you live in, is it close to a power line or a factory?

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pixxxado100 answered · August 09, 2020

   Replace sadness with anger and you will see how mature you will be and .... you will go crazy. A hopeless alcoholic, a bacillus and your peer tell you. {}

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alia08 answered · August 09, 2020

   Well, enough nonsense. If everyone had committed suicide out of loneliness, more than half of the people would have died. Meet a girl on Facebook - go out. She will introduce you to her friends and so on.

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hotsexytits4u answered · August 09, 2020

   Just light a marijuana and it will work. You will not be able to stop talking to anyone on any topic. And I was like you years ago, since I smoke everything is fine :)

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valeriecollinss answered · August 09, 2020

   You are not alone brother, I am 30. No friends, I just do not fit, and things, I did not grow up in the right environment. My point of view is me constantly, which is a big problem. A normal woman of 9 years. I visit paid from time to time. I don't care, but people around talk a lot. Not bad advice, but you can visit a girl, it breaks you at least in this regard. And these consolations in the comments do not help, one person does not change , rather someone with a stronger will, if he appeared, would change it.

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dotst_official answered · August 09, 2020

   It's time to start thinking positively. Find new activities where there are many people to meet. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. You probably don't like talking to people because you have nothing to say. Don't give up on life just because you have a runny nose and think negatively. It's time to start looking for a solution. You may be like that for 4-5 years, but you have a whole life ahead of you and you decide for yourself how to live it. SUCCESS!

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samara_ryder answered · August 10, 2020

   Do not care! You will find one up to 2-3 years max.

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repjohnkatko answered · August 10, 2020

   You are my psychiatrist. I've been walking for two months, my life has just started to get better, I missed a week and it's over, the old dramas are starting again. I don't know how long that will be. Seki here is made of the great, the great guzzar, accept it as a standard. To be bent what a benefit. She changed. They are all compressed air, what are you dozing off. I don't care how sexy he is, I don't care. In the end, it turns out that he is less than 15 cm and the sex is 10 minutes. I fucked him and the womanizer. I offer him regular sex, he pretends to be my pussy and always busy. As he is always busy, so he writes to me at 5 in the morning. I ask him what - I don't remember, I was drunk, it was a fucking party. While I was sitting sick at home. Thanks for letting me know. That's how men take women down, if you're wondering that everyone is tied to them. You think you're going to lose them, but you're not. You lose them by caring. You really don't have to fuck a gram,

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amyjayne87 answered · August 10, 2020

   I don't think it's a disease, but rather a lack of self-confidence for some reason. Don't be so critical of yourself. New technologies will help you ... try to meet someone on the Internet. So many people are getting to know each other this way already. If you give more information, we will see where the problem is. You're young, that's it

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inmyownstyle answered · August 11, 2020

   Find a hobby to meet people. In the beginning you will be strangers to these people and despite the discomfort over time you will find that people are obsessed with their hobbies and they are always happy to talk about them with people who reebe them, and along with these conversations you will feel that people get closer and then they can comment on what not and ask for advice on what not. This way you will start contacting people and in time this will break you and even the circle of poets with whom you share your hobby will still feel normal, when you talk you will see that there are people with whom you just don't talk, don't talk or there is nothing to say and this is normal, but you will see that there will be non-singers with whom you will easily have a conversation and there will be those with whom you will be pleasant to communicate. On the issue of loneliness. The best cure is to get into the company of people who are an idea more active than you and ielieat casual with friends on a beer in the company of friends with their boyfriends and conversations will be heard at some point and ea you and someone will say I have one poetess like this and like that, she looks like you, I will invite her to sing, you may like it or not, another one will have a poetess of someone and you will break down from your fear of communicating with women. Do not worry and do not grieve, there are no people like you and with a little guidance and building self-esteem and self-confidence things improve day by day until they feel accepted where they are well and have friends and friends with real interests.

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strojani answered · August 11, 2020

   You are only 20 years old. Obviously you have no self-confidence, no experience. You haven't written anything about your family - do they support you, are your parents, brother, sister interested in you? My advice to you is to be brave, get out of the hole you pushed yourself into. Because the truth is that no one cares how you feel, what you feel - I'm talking about acquaintances, classmates, friends .... Do not think that only you feel that way there are many people who feel lonely and bad .. .. If you do not have money - work abroad, study. Do something. You look numb to me. Calm down, first. If he is afraid of rejection, or not to hurt you, insult. Calm down, everyone has been rejected, abandoned, neglected in some form. Do not think that everyone will like you or will not like you - some people - yes, others - no.

1. Learn to communicate with people - start by smiling at them, greeting them, ask them something short - like "how are you?". It always has to start somewhere. Don't stand like a stump, relax, they won't eat you. Try! These people who do not communicate with other people do not achieve much in their lives - because, at least, there is nowhere to get live information about something, to hear different opinions about something that interests them, to exchange experiences, thoughts.

2. If you blush and are ashamed to talk to a girl or people in general - rehearse in front of the mirror, look friendly, pleasant expression, smile, words clear, understandable, repeat, as if learning a role, live a little, wake up! Life is courage in front of you !!

3. You must fit somewhere among people - for example, to study, fellow students,. If you don't want to work but sign up somewhere according to your interests - sports, fitness / there are a lot of boys, girls /, sports-football, basketball, volleyball, etc. in the hall, for example, dancing, for example, an interest club - car service, equipment, computers, painting, music, cinema, something you like, but make sure you have your peers. When they visit what you will have similar topics and things that interest you, then immediately talk - what do you think this computer, this program, this music how is it?

4. When a person closes, he seems to be buried alive! Do not!!! Live; because you are only 20!

5. You must make an effort in this direction. Nothing happens at once, don't give up even a little progress.

6. Believe in yourself and you will succeed! Gain a more confident look, radiate confidence! Rehearse it in front of the mirror! But not arrogance. I also have an 18-year-old boy, he is 2 years younger than you. And he was insecure, more shy. But over time, that is likely to change. now the problem is that he has a lot of friends and he doesn't have time to study, and he talks a lot.

Sign up if there is an opportunity in a club - theatrical, debates - to speak, defend an opinion, it is useful. I wish you success !!! Start somewhere and share! We will support you! You are not alone!!! You can, you'll see! Be sure to write !!! I want to know what you're doing.