Hello! I want to say so many things that I don't know where to start. I had a 4 year relationship with a man with whom we respected each other a lot. It so happened that he was sent abroad, we are both young, we did not promise each other anything. Before he left, we talked about our future, even about marriage. But when he had the opportunity, he didn't think much about what I thought and whether I could wait for him like that for a year or more. And so he left and the last 2 years our meetings were short, things between us gradually came true, or at least for me. I started another relationship that lasted almost a year, but at the same time I continued to talk to my old friend. I didn't tell him about my new relationship, I just started to hold back and he certainly felt there was someone else, but he never asked me anything. Things got deeper with my new friend, we made plans to live together. And one fine day my old friend who was abroad got married. He immediately came to see me and for me it was as if the last 1 year was lost, as if we had never parted. We started seeing each other and my new friend understood. He told me to get rid of him within 2 days or not to look for him. However, I did not. I'm seeing my old friend now, but I don't think our feelings are the same. I feel unhappy. Especially since I know that in a few days he will leave and I will be left alone ... I hurt the other boy as well. In a few days I happily ruined everything between us. as if we had never parted. We started seeing each other and my new friend understood. He told me to get rid of him within 2 days or not to look for him. However, I did not. I'm seeing my old friend now, but I don't think our feelings are the same. I feel unhappy. Especially since I know that in a few days he will leave and I will be left alone ... I hurt the other boy as well. In a few days I happily ruined everything between us. as if we had never parted. We started seeing each other and my new friend understood. He told me to get rid of him within 2 days or not to look for him. However, I did not. I'm seeing my old friend now, but I don't think our feelings are the same. I feel unhappy. Especially since I know that in a few days he will leave and I will be left alone ... I hurt the other boy as well. In a few days I happily ruined everything between us.
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There is a saying ... old people say..don't run after the wild, but follow the tame..I don't support her ..I'm not the best advisor because my story was similar ... the old friend came..we started see you .. I left things at a standstill with the new one..and by the time the old one left the new one had already lost patience to wait..they meanwhile I had decided to stay with my new friend..because the old one didn't offer me anything for sure .. I didn't even know if he didn't have anything abroad ... well, in fact, fate knows its job..from two chairs on the ground ..a lot of time has passed since then ..and I haven't stopped mourning one ... the tame one I wish you SUCCESS ..whatever you choose
My story is almost the same, with the difference that I am married. I had a mistress. She swept abroad. I had almost forgotten her, she came back and broke the discipline. We fucked a few times just enough to confuse my brain again. She tells me that she lived with a man but she only loved me and for the moment there was nothing she could do and she left again. My wife understood and I would stay on the ground with two chairs. On this site we are just loved but we have to learn to have sex for the sake of sex itself. Now for me my mistress, who was the holiest thing ... is a big WHORE. Now I know that whenever she falls for me, I will not refuse her and I will lie to her that I only love her, but I will never leave my wife. My advice is: Say lie zabalamosay it doesn't matter your new friend with rumors like that you had to see your old love to have lunch that you no longer have any feelings for him. That you don't need him when he's gone, that you need your new friend because he's with you and he's even better in bed, and so on. Shake your brain because you will lose your new friend and you will suddenly be very much, but you have no idea how lonely you are. As a married man, I advise you. And if you are young, you should know from my personal experience that time and long distances only lead to separation and who knows how many more boyfriends you will have until you find a man to marry. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, IF YOUR OLD FRIEND COMES AGAIN AND YOU DIDN'T BREAK WITH THE PREVIOUS ONE, AND IF YOU DECIDE TO FUCK, YOU HAVE TO DO IT SECRETLY. Listen to the old. And you know that all who will write against me do not know what is at stake. Happy. You have two boyfriends BRAVO.