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Lonely In Love, I Already Like It!

By can_be_your_toy September 15, 2020 2 answers Last updated September 15, 2020

Hello! The title understands what the problem is, but I'm already VERY tired of being alone and fixing everything myself. I am an 18-year-old boy and in a few months I will be 19 years old. Almost all my friends have girlfriends, some even separated and reunited, others started other relationships. This happened within 3 years, and for me nothing, as a bystander. I had a girlfriend in my childhood (7 years ago) and I haven't touched a girl since then. Not that I haven't tried to have one, but I always come across users or people where they don't know what they want. I can't find the problem because I'm neither a "good boy" nor ugly (I'm sure of that because I have a personal dermatologist who takes care of my beauty), I'm more or less athletic, I don't have complexes (but I will takes to complex that I have none), I'm smart, I know two foreign languages ​​(English and German), I have no equal in history and geography, etc. I would be happy if I knew what the problem was to fix it, but I can't find one. I really don't know why it happened to me, but I'm already quite lonely to be alone. Friends, acquaintances and relatives keep telling me that I will find the girl, but I have been listening to this for more than 2 years and I am still alone. If you know how to get out of this situation, I will be happy to read what you have written. but I've been listening to this for more than 2 years and I'm still alone. If you know how to get out of this situation, I will be happy to read what you have written. but I've been listening to this for more than 2 years and I'm still alone. If you know how to get out of this situation, I will be happy to read what you have written.

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syrianpresidency answered · September 15, 2020

   Maybe you just haven't met the right one for you, or maybe you don't find anything real in this fake world? I feel the same way and I know a lot of people who feel that way. I also know those who have been in this situation, but have already found their soul mate and are happy. Everything comes with time ...

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_fragile_ass_ answered · September 15, 2020

   And what are you doing about it? Are you active enough among girls? Are you funny Girls are rarely impressed by their knowledge of languages, history and geography. Most fall in love with boys who are active in behavior, compliment them, make them laugh, listen to them and take an interest in them. Now a little about your real self-esteem about appearance. This with the dermatologist made me laugh: D Only good skin is not enough for external attractiveness, facial features are still important: D "I'm more or less with an athletic body", you say, it's more or less not clear how much is up and how much is below, are you realistic enough in terms of appearance? Take a closer look and, if necessary, adjust what you need in relation to the body. Reading what I wrote, I think that " but it is right to turn to a girl, after a careful assessment of the character, and, of course, do not forget about the approach I described to you at the beginning. Good luck :) but it is right to turn to a girl, after a careful assessment of the character, and, of course, do not forget about the approach I described to you at the beginning. Good luck :)