Hello, I have a friend of about 4-5 months, everything is wonderful, I know theirs, he with ours, of course, everything is great but, big BUT, he studies in another city, we see each other every week (Friday, Saturday ). And we've been together all day. However, during the week, I miss him very much, I break down crying, and when I fall into such moments, the only thing I think about is the separation, but I love him, at the end of this school year he comes to the school where I am, he wants me. to endure the distance, and the moment will come when he will be with me! Give me advice on how to stop crying and harassing! Separation is not an option!
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Oh, I don't know, it's weird ... You see each other every week for two days. What more do you want? Aren't you getting a little obsessive? I tell you this as a person with a long distance relationship, and we see each other once every 2 months, so evaluate what you have. It will be a dream for me when we start seeing each other every week for two days, if it ever happens .. Your situation is not so bad. You're just too obsessed.
God, what nonsense are you bothering about. You see him every week, don't you? If you see each other every day, you will get bored. Borrow a hobby, go out with friends ... Your life can't revolve around one person.
I feel for you! My friend and I also see each other 3 days a week. The rest of the time we write and talk constantly. When he is not with me, I am very heavy and I am not in the mood, but such are the circumstances at the moment. I understand how you feel, but there's obviously nothing you can do about it. Just appreciate the moments you are together and enjoy your relationship. You don't write how old you are. If you graduate soon, why not move to his city, for example. And don't listen to people who say that if you see each other every day, you'll get bored.
Well, in a little while you will be in the same city. You see each other every week, so you need to be more positive. I'm not saying you should be glad it could have been worse, but rejoice in what you have. Until the waiting moment comes, try to fill your time well with different activities. Find hobbies or practice the ones you already have. Go out with friends, write your homework, read books, draw, dance, play sports, whatever is close to your heart. When you're busy with something, you won't remember to cry. You will still be sad and you will miss your partner, but it will be much easier for you to cope without tears. We are talking only for a few months, you will endure.
Very precisely, number 3.
Separation is never a solution, it is for the weak. For those who refuse to fight. The distance is instantaneous, after a while everything can be as you want. If this is the man for you ... don't miss him - you will regret it badly in time. If not, then don't waste your time, go ahead.