Hello, my girlfriend (she is 21 years old, I am 24 years old) have plans to move to another, more serious stage in our lives, namely to enter into a civil marriage. The problem is that her family does not know about me, in that sense, she is a Muslim and I am a Christian. Her parents do not allow her to have a boyfriend, even if she has faith. If her father finds out that we are together, it is not known how far he can go (according to her, he may even kill me). The solution is for her to run away from her family and for us to live together. I will be grateful for any advice. Thank you in advance. The circumstances are very complicated, but we both love each other very much and we don't know what to do.
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I am a boy of 40 years. My advice, No matter how much you love her, end the relationship as quickly as possible. For Muslims, faith is a great thing. They will never accept you because you are a Bulgarian, and in general the Turks hate the Bulgarians. Try to forget her, if you have to visit a psychologist, find a Bulgarian girl and live your life. But waste your life, nothing will come of this relationship. You will remain Gyaur for her mother and father. But this is my opinion, And the decision is in your hands.
Muslims, unlike pseudo-Christians, have men in place ... And I wouldn't be surprised to blow you up ... It's clear that the hormone is beating you, and you don't think sober as a man. If you really loved her, you would leave her. Because in this case you take away the family, you take away the environment, the culture. I have to rely only on you. And what will you do when your relationship starts to box (as in 99% of cases)? It's bad for her, because if you turn out to be rubbish, with what eyes will she return to her family? How will she survive alone? If it turns out to be garbage, how can you leave it when there is no one. It is clear to me that today's men, especially at your age, are feminized and emotional as women, believing in inseparable romantic love ... until "chemistry" is gone in the nth month. However, in this case, when the chemistry is gone, you will find yourself in a very unpleasant point from which there is no going back. If that was 50 years ago, when you still had the idea to spend your life with one person, maybe the risk was worth it. Nowadays - absurd ... You can't just "love", use your upper head ...
If you cut it yourself, her father will be happy, maybe he will agree !?
Do you love her enough to cut it? Hardly.
To number 1-K'vo boy, you're a middle-aged man straight: D, not on the topic of comments, but
Circumcise it, go beat it up and then show it to her father!
From 1, To number 5, Enough with the shredding, I wrote a boy with the thought of the man to understand that I am a man, Because he may think that a woman gives advice. And by the way, I feel like I'm 25, all about physical work, about sex, and that's why I wrote a boy. I don't understand what annoyed you so much. Be alive and healthy.
I am the author of the topic. So, I want to clarify that her father is an Arab and her mother is Bulgarian. She does not love her parents, on the contrary. Of all the prohibitions imposed on her, she does not respect them as parents at all. Traditions and things like that too.
Do what your heart tells you, love her, take a risk, go to another country, don't tell anyone where you are and be together, if you love her really much then don't leave her, if you do it will hurt you, the most fucking pain in the world , it will take a month, two, three, and at some point when you lie in you crushed by depression you will say to yourself - I had to take a risk. But I hope it's not too late then. Memories of the unexperience haunt us all our lives! RISK!