Hello! I want to share my little story and get your opinions! I have a boyfriend of 10 months, there is a boy who knows my boyfriend, they greet each other and talk, but they are not very close, he constantly looks at me, he pulls so as not to notice him, but I feel that he has a little attention, no matter how tries not to show it, in fact this boy and I are hello / hello, but we know each other .. Later he started greeting me, he works in a cafe where I go. He knows me from my ex-boyfriend because they know him too! And he generally knows me from these few factors, he had sent me a friendship 2 years ago. We see each other quite often and he looks at me constantly with some fleeting glances! I liked his photo on Facebook, but he didn't react at all, he didn't answer me !? I also liked the photos, but it stopped for a long time, I tried to see if it would react, but it didn't react at all! We are not small children, we are about 25 years old. It's as if he has attention, but he hides it .. I don't want to invent it myself, but look more than 10/20 times .. When I spotted him with his friends, they all look at me together and they know me .. My question is whether there is interest in me? And is he worried about the fact that I have a friend and that's why he does it all? Thanks for the comments in advance!
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"He pulls so as not to notice him, but I feel that he has a slight attention." Don't deal with nonsense.
There is interest, but keep your distance because you have a friend.
Why are you trying to find out if he is interested in you and encourage him to show it to you with some likes on Facebook after you have a friend? And this attitude is just like 15-16 year old children ..
He probably likes you, but it stops him from being committed. But I didn't understand what that meant either, since you're engaged. If you are looking for his attention, you are obviously missing something and you have to ask yourself why you are in this relationship, do you want to work for her or is she not so engaging? If you break up, the gentleman in question may pay attention to you.
Where is this lady, I don't understand? Haha, I'm kidding ... so the question. Did it ever occur to you that he was looking at you because you were staring at him? I say that because women, you like to stare at someone as soon as you spot them, no matter if your boyfriend is next to you. It often happens to me to feel a chick staring at me (as you do) and I want to tell you that it is annoying. So as long as you stalk the man, he'll eventually fuck you.
Since it is not clear from what is written exactly what advice you want ... you only ask questions, but do not say why (not that it is not clear, but at least write it down), I would like to ask you: And what are you aiming for and whose are you looking for? ? Alice
I can't understand your whole generation. At the age of 25, I was the editor of a department of 10 reporters and 24 news agency correspondents. My head just smoked from 8 in the morning until the evening and I didn't care who was watching me and who wasn't watching me. Yes, I had a boyfriend, we had fun when we had time, but my mind was at work. My friends also pushed like idiots. Well, yes, but today - one owns a publishing house, another has a chain of electronics repair shops, a third runs a toxic waste disposal business, a fourth has a brokerage house, a fifth has a law firm, and so on. You, author, instead of investing your attention in your career at this very creative age, so as not to whine later: "He beats me, but I don't have money to leave", you are doing complete nonsense. He was watching her! Well, and? They will always look at you if you catch the eye. If you have a husband and five children, they will still watch you. But why should this matter? Keep in mind that when we started, the competition was not as great as it is today. Then - in the 90's - as the poet said "the foundations were being laid", there were free business niches, work was easy to find, there was still money in the country. Today the market is already distributed. Including the labor market. It takes a lot more effort to find a place for it. So if you really want to become a "lady", as you define yourself in the title, drop the cafes, the looks, and so on, and focus on your education and work. The good news is that people with qualifications and eligible for higher positions have fled abroad and there is a crisis in finding staff for more responsible work. Ie you have the opportunity with a lot of learning, of course, with constant learning of new languages and gaining experience, to break through here. Think about it, not who looks at you!
It seems to me that you are self-winding. You are not children, and the story is so childish. You liked photos, you stopped already, and now you liked him, but he didn't ... Yeah, you can be pretty if you don't like a photo, that doesn't mean he wants something else, let alone serious. For so long, if the person really had an interest in you, he would somehow find a way to show it to you. Do not imagine that men are so kind that they want another woman and suppress him somewhere deep inside for years, just because their boyfriend is familiar (not even a friend). Once you go to the cafe where he works, here's a great prerequisite for a dump or a hint from him. But apparently there is none. His friends are watching you because he probably told them something, but it's very likely he didn't tell them about you as if they were. "
Ask me MA. You won't mind if you ask him in plain text over coffee. Your work both hurts and itches. You sit down to ask about 3434356 people on an anonymous site, not the one you need.
and you love your friend so much ... at least don't lie to him about being crazy. he looked at you. it is very clear that his wife is looking at you, and when I look at you you like to be paid attention. sit on your buttocks and don't pretend to be crazy
Reading your story, I think you have an interest in him, which you try to hide even from yourself. You have decided that the young man in question falls for you based on your interpretation of his gaze. It doesn't sound realistic, there are no obvious facts and indisputable evidence, it sounds more like a fantasy. You are a little overwhelmed, you analyze liking photos on Facebook, looks, detections and various such things that are very important for children, but you are 25 years old and should not be a factor for you.
I match the story with yours. I had an affair with a girl who had a 5 year relationship. She started everything with looks then with liking and sniffing and revealed to me what a temptation I was and so we were 3-4 months as in the beginning I was against because she had a friend for 5 years, but I decided to try because I felt great desire and attraction. This grew into more than an attraction I don't even know how the friend and did not feel, because we were on a brigade in England and it was obvious how she had great sympathy for me. It was unique for 3-4 months with her, I'm sure she was in love with me, but I'm from Plovdiv, she's from Sofia and even when she came home they lived in a room with her friend, who obviously takes it for granted, because these nice things found in me. Now I suffer a lot ... If something happens between you and then you back off, he'll be as sick as this,