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Loss Of Desire For Life

By lauragii August 08, 2020 8 answers Last updated August 08, 2020

I don't know what's happening to me, the previous woman who had dreams is gone. I experienced a lot of things, I thought I would forget, but every day I try not to think about the past, about disappointments, about betrayals. I've been very unhappy lately, I have no desire for anything. The little things I enjoyed no longer make me happy. I lose the desire to live. I try to get this thought out of my mind, but I say to myself - I'm tired of fighting, I don't feel like living ...

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pantyhoseman2016 answered · August 08, 2020

   A sign of depression. Get 5-HTP (Neolexan, etc. without a prescription) from the pharmacy and take a week to see if it will help you. I take one only in the morning, although it says to take in the evening. I saw that one thing was enough for me and I wanted to keep the "chemistry" to a minimum. I also take magnesium. This will cure the symptoms, but it is best to see the root cause. The point is that when a person is naughty he does not see things objectively, so first try to influence your mood through pills, food or other external things (sea, mountains, etc.) and then when you feel more optimistic and more objective, look at the events in your life and what you would like to happen to you, not. In general, depression most often occurs when a person does things he does not want to do. I exclude depression caused by poor nutrition, for example (I get depressed,

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graziano.diprima answered · August 08, 2020

   And I am in the same condition at the moment and for the second time. For the second time, I trusted the same person who just came out of my life as fast as he came out and left me to deal with the pain on my own. I was terribly apathetic. I have a feeling that everything has stopped and I have no interest or desire for anything. I don't know why fate or God sent this man to me a second time, and I just decided that he had thought the previous time about how he behaved and was coming to take revenge. I was very much mistaken, but I have a feeling that what failed to destroy in me the previous time, now finish it and I'm just a living corpse at the moment. I don't want anyone else to come into my life.

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chant212 answered · August 08, 2020

   Hey! I've been in the same situation as yours for 3-4 years and with each one it gets worse, you finally realize that you have to do something you don't want to live like that anymore. I fully support the first comment, which says to try pills first, I recently tried and it really works, everything improves and you return to the previous wishing you life and happiness. I also recommend drinking tea with St. John's wort or thyme as I have heard that it is good for the nervous system and heart, as well as the respiratory tract. I drink a bioprogram climber, I can say that makes you feel better and sleep really well. Everything will be fine and all the best! :)

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giobruno_ answered · August 08, 2020

   First of all - it is not necessary to resort to drugs of any kind. Second - as for advice on how to feel better and because she wrote here, it is assumed that she may be looking for some kind of answer, so I suggest the following topics for reflection: 1. How physically active is the author? Does he practice any kind of sport? Many people neglect their physical shape for many reasons in life, but it is always a good idea to emphasize some physical activity when there are signs of depression or when a person is not feeling well emotionally. Plus - this is also recommended for people who are "ok", ie there is no way to harm in any way! 2. Change your diet or at least try to diversify it. This again applies to all normal people - so don't bother trying, there is no way to harm your current condition! 3. Try talking to someone about it, but face to face! Unfortunately, there is no exact answer to the question - "with whom exactly to talk?". Easiest to say - talk to a psychologist / psychotherapist. But for various reasons, this may not be possible. The same goes for relatives / friends / acquaintances, even strangers (professionals). The good news is that the chance of not being able to talk to absolutely anyone is almost nil! Someone will always seem like a good enough person to listen to you and give you an idea / advice on how to improve your condition. 4. The cliché "help yourself first so that others can help you" is valid. What does this mean? Find the reason why you feel this way (why you are in this state). Most likely there is such a reason even if you don't realize it. They can be very different things (even a combination of several). One thing is for sure - the very idea of ​​starting to look for the cause can help you enough to improve :) You can write a lot more on this topic, but at this stage, it's enough (for starters)

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luigicani answered · August 08, 2020

   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWMWr4MAn5A I will leave this video here, hoping it will help you. Yes, it will be harder than with pills (if you find that it really is depression), but I believe it will be worth it :) Good luck

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heidimontag answered · August 09, 2020

   Girl, don't give up the opportunity to learn something, that's why we are here and use the moments when you are alone to study, but it definitely banishes the feeling of insecurity and doubt in the future. I wish you to find the way that makes you happy, not to despair, because you can always find a way to rejoice.

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sab answered · August 09, 2020

   Hello! I am in such a state too. Until 3 months ago I was an excellent student at the university, I have a friend and family who support me, but suddenly I collapsed. At the moment I have no desire for anything, I stay at home all day and I have terrible thoughts and reluctance to live. He cries all the time and it seems that the emotional pain is unbearable. The only thing that keeps me going right now is psychotherapy. Coincidentally, some acquaintances advised me to do this and I do not regret it. This is the only hope that holds me back. A little hope that tells me that everything will be fine and that I just have to go through this period. From the moment I started walking, I realized how important mental breakdown is. It may sound ridiculous, but it is an opportunity to realize many things, to change your life for the better. It's some kind of mechanism in our brain, which protects us from ourselves and the life we ​​lead - we often forget our health and the rest, sleep, peace we need. Many problems in our lives are also due to repressed emotions and other childhood events. For example, when I found myself in this state, I suddenly began to think of many bad events from the past and even felt hatred for those closest to me, because of which disappointments and betrayals (like you) had happened to me. You may need to forgive someone for the past, but not for them, but for yourself. So that you can move forward without this burden that has undoubtedly tormented you. You say you're tired of fighting. I think I know what it feels like - all the things seem to have been so painful and you've given so much of yourself emotionally that your emotional strength is exhausted, just as your physical strength would be exhausted. But there is hope. If you have the financial ability and desire, I advise you to visit a psychotherapist. He can help you with these things. Know that you are not alone. Greetings! F 22

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jjansasds answered · August 09, 2020

   Get out! Go out with friends, relatives, dog If you don't have friends find meet people even on the internet even just virtually principled friends, positive people seem to charge you too Do everything that makes you feel good read books or go out watch your favorite movie or go out with your favorite dress, you just can never have liked anything, do what makes you happy and complete ... Smile more often listen to music do something crazy and I mean if you are a young person to run in the rain to jump in the pool or something that seems silly to you but would charge you with positive emotion we all have silly moments that we laugh go karting or something that is in your city eat a cake watch the sunset just everyone has different ideas for a perfect day you follow yours and turn your back on the past it has given you valuable lessons take lessons and continue .. Imagine a very muddy place and if you tread on one place will you ever go out? You don't have to move on to get out, that's the way it is, and with the past you have to leave it there, don't confuse, don't chew, don't think about it, it's past and so if there are betrayals and traitors in the present, get rid of them yesterday will not return and so you rot tomorrow: