Hello! I am a 19 year old boy and have never had sex in my life. I have erection problems, my penis is getting bigger, but after a while it softens and I can't have sex. I forgot to say that I have a girlfriend of 6 months and it was not until the fourth month that we had any successful sexual intercourse experience. I feel that my sexual desire is low and I have low sensitivity in the penis during a normal erection. Before I had a girlfriend, I masturbated quite often and found the following information on the Internet: Some forms of masturbation lead to sexual dysfunction. prolonged ejaculation, loss of erection, which is a type of sexual dysfunction. So my question is whether this is really the case and if so, how can i fix myself. Thank you for your attention!
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You raise a very interesting question ... I also masturbate quite often and so far it has not occurred to me that there could be such negative consequences. I have noticed, during masturbation, when I stop holding my penis with my hand for a while (on the order of a few seconds), that it falls very quickly, and then I need some time to return it to its previous state. Maybe the problem is that the head of my penis is almost completely covered with skin during stimulation ... I also have not had sex and I have no idea how hard the female vagina puts pressure on the penis, but I doubt that it may be greater than the pressure of my palm. :))) And if I like a wider woman below, I will certainly have big erection problems. :(
Hello, a lot of masturbating with ejaculation could lead to a weak erection. It is true that some people beat a lot of checks and it happens to them again, but this may not apply to everyone. According to Taoists, sex and checks are very good for the body (especially sex), but a man should not empty himself so as not to waste energy. Sperm is intended for a whole half of future life, it is logical to have a lot of energy in it: nutrients at least. When the body produces a lot of it, it becomes exhausted and this exhaustion can lead to a weak erection. I read Mantak Chia's book on Sexual Alchemy for Men. There he teaches you how to separate orgasm from ejaculation. I once managed to make a fifteen-minute check with two orgasms without ejaculating. In short, it is not impossible to have an orgasm without ejaculation. Whatever, I failed to achieve the result again and I went back to the nasty habit of fast with a quick finish. I'm 19, I haven't had sex yet. I have a similar problem as the author. That day I was making a check in a lying position. I was very tired, and I wanted to try a longer one without emptying, and I was sleeping a hell of a lot. It became 95 percent, I turned around, I lost control. The thing is, I've been nagging ever since, but still in my nineties. He is not as tough as he has ever been. Last night I woke up at one time, it was stiff, I think at max. Then I tried to harden it again, but it still won't reach its best hardness. Anyone say anything on this? That day I was making a check in a lying position. I was very tired, and I wanted to try a longer one without emptying, and I was sleeping a hell of a lot. It was 95 percent, I turned around, I lost control. The thing is, I've been nagging ever since, but still in my nineties. He is not as tough as he has ever been. Last night I woke up at one time, it was stiff, I think at max. Then I tried to harden it again, but it still won't reach its best hardness. Anyone say anything on this? That day I was making a check in a lying position. I was very tired, and I wanted to try a longer one without emptying, and I was sleeping a hell of a lot. It became 95 percent, I turned around, I lost control. The thing is, I've been sick since then, but still in my nineties. He is not as tough as he has ever been. Last night I woke up at one time, it was stiff, I think at max. Then I tried to harden it again, but it still won't reach its best hardness. Anyone say anything on this? Then I tried to harden it again, but it still won't reach its best hardness. Anyone say anything on this? Then I tried to harden it again, but it still won't reach its best hardness. Anyone say anything on this?
No such thing.
I am a woman, but I will allow myself to get involved in the topic. I think in addition to the technical part that you guys are discussing, you forget the activity of the brain. Sometimes, masturbating clitoris, one or two seconds delay stop the process in me, the arousal completely disappears. However, if I manage to imagine or remember (or see) something very erotic or perverted in these two seconds, for a moment it happens to me again and I continue to the goal. Several men have masturbated often in front of me and I was surprised that some exert more pressure, while others take the member very lightly and so on until the end. Some argue that it doesn't matter if I'm wide, because I've given birth, if they've been dry, they empty quickly, and friction and density don't matter. I think, that the author feels responsible for how his girlfriend feels during the act and this somehow subconsciously suppresses and deters him. I had a friend who was polishing in front of me, it's over, but after 15 minutes we have great sex, I don't think that frequent polishing, especially at a young age, can be such a problem. If there is a prostitute with you, for example, and she knows how to work on you, if she relaxes you mentally and has good technique, you will hardly have an erection problem at all. The other thing that men have told me over the years is that they usually had difficult sex with the girls they were in love with, because somehow they seem to require some responsibility. When sex is for sex, as they say, things go easy. I hope I helped you with my opinion. but after 15 minutes we have great sex, I don't think frequent polishing, especially at a young age, can be such a problem. If there is a prostitute with you, for example, and she knows how to work on you, if she relaxes you mentally and has good technique, you will hardly have an erection problem at all. The other thing that men have told me over the years is that they usually had difficult sex with the girls they were in love with, because somehow they seem to require some responsibility. When sex is for sex, as they say, things go easy. I hope I helped you with my opinion. but after 15 minutes we have great sex, I don't think frequent polishing, especially at a young age, can be such a problem. If there is a prostitute with you, for example, and she knows how to work on you, if she relaxes you mentally and has good technique, you will hardly have an erection problem at all. The other thing that men have told me over the years is that they usually had difficult sex with the girls they were in love with, because somehow they seem to require some responsibility. When sex is for sex, as they say, things go easy. I hope I helped you with my opinion. The other thing that men have told me over the years is that they usually had difficult sex with the girls they were in love with, because somehow they seem to require some responsibility. When sex is for sex, as they say, things go easy. I hope I helped you with my opinion. The other thing that men have told me over the years is that they usually had difficult sex with the girls they were in love with, because somehow they seem to require some responsibility. When sex is for sex, as they say, things go easy. I hope I helped you with my opinion.
You just have no experience, that's all. If your conscience allows, try to have sex not with your girlfriends who are on the same level as you, but with more experienced women or even paid love. You need a good technician and a relaxed mind, that's the key. №2, no matter how "wide" the woman is, it is not so much, the vagina is elastic. Even a woman who has given birth three times envelops you and clings to the walls and to your member, usually the entrance is the one that expands, and once you enter ... Yes, it is wider, but it rubs enough. And the excitement of nudity, the sight, the moans will do the rest. You won't even think about your age whether it's wide or not. It will be wide if she has 3 children and is 45. And if you are lucky and someone lets you behind ... a dream :))) And why God invented the whistles, don't forget them too. Full sexual intercourse is not rubbing your hand for just that. Rubbing is only one part. When you get it all together, you will see how good it is. Then you will learn to empty "slowly", that's right ...
Dude, that 's okay! You are neither sick nor different. Don't get involved in porn movies and boasting about supermen, because there is no man who has not had it happen to him! This is mostly due to anxiety. Just relax, play a little and everything will be fine. Change positions and feel which one makes you the most, and use it for the future as an incentive.
Hello, I am the author of the topic. I'm sorry I didn't write so long. Now I've read everything you've written, but I still don't know what to do. The problem still remains ... We have sex, but my penis is 60-70% full. Several times my friend tells me that she doesn't feel anything. In the morning my penis is 100% full, it even makes me sick with blood! I think my girlfriend doesn't turn me on and I think it's because we were only friends for about a year before we left and I'm not used to looking at her sexually, like I look at women in porn movies, for example. I am very worried that my body is used to masturbation only !! Also, the possibility that the problem is medical is also not ruled out ... help!
A few things and you will thank me: 1-You stop porn and masturbation !!! Absolutely obligatory - The reason - porn brainwashes you, you get aroused by more and more perverted and perverted things, in time you will become a zoophile, you will want your girlfriend to be fixed by 4 negroes in front of you, they will put unnecessary complexes with twenty-four / five centimeters your tools. 2- Run 40 minutes a day or 1 hour every 2 3- Eat more vegetables and fruits. MORE! The reason - Carbohydrates are converted into fats, not the ready-made fats you eat - they go to lubricate joints and maintain organs. Vegetables and fruits develop metabolism and so your stomach remains empty and not a ball of dough. 4- increase the length of preparation for sex - if you trust your partner about whether he is clean of diseases - French and more kisses.
Well, you say it yourself - the girl does not sexually arouse you. You will see that you will not have this problem with others.
Thanks, N9, I will try and in a month for example I will write to tell you if there is an improvement!
I'm number 9. I also want to tell you to forget about worry. When you are with the girl relax and enjoy the moment. Alcohol in all cases is the enemy - mentally predisposes you, but not physically. If we could exchange information, I would give you additional advice, for which they generally charge money for FREE, but this is the most important thing for now. Share what happened, I will follow the topic. The reason is that I was in a similar situation and I know what it is about. If all this has not helped you, I will try to be more detailed. Success!
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